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Jun 23, 04
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Bi Sexual People Are Cool!
I am a straight guy. I have one gay male friend, Matt. Who is the coolest guy. And one female Bi friend, Tiffany. Who is one of my closest friends. Love her alot. And so far at the raves I have been to, I have been introduced to alot of Bi people there. And there all really cool. So Bi people are really cool people. I myself have never done anything with the same sex. Not really into it I guess. But not saying that I will not. I mean kissing another guy would probally be no big deal. Especially if it was with one of my guy friends it would be a sinch or doing a threesome kiss with a girl there that would be really easy. But I don't think I would go any further than that. So its somein I would wanna try.
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Jun 23, 04
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I have a friend that is %100 gay when it comes to relationships but he has no problem fuckin girls. I'd say he's fucked just as many girls as guys. It seems to be that when there are no good guys around he'll just find a ladie. But the thought of him actually going out w/ a girl just doesn't fly. I guess he's just bi when it comes to sex.
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Jun 24, 04
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Jun 24, 04
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What kind of a stupid question is that? If you're straight and you get married, you stay with ONE PERSON - its not like you are out there all the time fucking any woman you see because you are a slave to your heterosexual desires. Why on earth would being attracted to men and women have anything to do with your ability to stay in a monogamous relationship? Or by being bisexual does someone instantly become some sort of deviant sexual fiend who simply cannot restrain their need for constant sex with any and all people of BOTH sexes. maybe we should lock them all up!
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Jun 24, 04
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"Alyssa: You know, I didn't just heed what I was taught, men and women should be together, it's the natural way, that kind of thing. I'm not with you because of what family, society, life tried to instill in me from day one. The way the world is, how seldom it is that you meet that one person who just *gets* you--it's so rare. My parents didn't really have it. There were no examples set for me in the world of male-female relationships. And to cut oneself off from finding that person, to immediately halve your options by eliminating the possibility of finding that one person within your own gender, that just seemed stupid to me. So I didn't. But then you came along. You, the one least likely. I mean, you were a guy.
Holden: Still am. Alyssa: And while I was falling for you I put a ceiling on that, because you *were* a guy. Until I remembered why I opened the door to women in the first place: to not limit the likelihood of finding that one person who'd complement me so completely. So here we are. I was thorough when I looked for you. And I feel justified lying in your arms, 'cause I got here on my own terms, and I have no question there was some place I didn't look. And for me that makes all the difference."
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Jun 24, 04
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You do it the same as you do it now. If you meet someone you like you go for it. That is not something that changes as you get older. Bisexuality is not a state of confusion, it is just expansion of your sexual tastes.
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Jun 25, 04
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:keebler:
But don't thank me...Thank the genius that is Kevin Smith. :)
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Jun 25, 04
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I think that labels are really the base of the whole "problem." I don't see why it's too big a deal, but you've got a point: If you're a bi guy and get married to a woman, and talk about your "wife," and have kids, people that don't know you (society) are basically going to assume you're straight, even if you're still just as attracted to guys as girls. And if you're a guy whose only ever been attracted to/had sex with girls, and you end up finding the one man in the world made for you and "marrying" him, society will look at you like you're gay.
It's pretty much a no brainer, but the only way random people are going to get the "gay/bi" clue for sure is when they see two people of the same sex making out... and even then... str8 boys, 'nuff sed.
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