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Mar 15, 04
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A question to all the bi sexual people on fnk
If ur bi how would you go on about that in the future?. When ur a middle-aged mother/father with a wife/husband with or without children. Would u choose one sex or what? Bi-sexuality to me honestley equals confusion. Ur either straight or crooked(homo-sexual). But yeah i just wondered how you would deal with that when your 45 or so per se.
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Mar 15, 04
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love is love. you love a PERSON.
i can see myself being in a long term relationship with either sex. it just depends WHO you fall in love with at what time in your life. i don't think your sexuality goes away just cuz you get old. if you are suggesting that bisexual people are just confused people who don;t know what they want, then you should get your head out of your ass. :c-tard:
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Mar 15, 04
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i disagree.
it doesn;t mean you are GAY all of the sudden. your sexuality doens;t change. you are still Bisexual if you fall in love with the same sex. see, when i date a guy, it doesn;t mean i BECOME STRAIGHT. and dating a girl doesn;t mean i BECOME GAY. i'm BI. i dunno. those are my thoughts on it.
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Mar 15, 04
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^ I agree. Being with one sex or the other, doesn't change your sexuality back and forth. You are what you are no matter who you are with.
When I am older, i will love and be faithful towhoever i am with and/or married too. I will always be attracted to both sexes, but I'll stay faithful to my significant other. Unlike some bisexuals (well.. the ones on Jerry Springer :) ) who think that just because they like both sexes, mean they can have one of each at any given time. That's just as ridiculous as thinking a person has to be one or the other, straight or gay.
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Mar 15, 04
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^ oh conspiracies whuut
and eh, its the person not the gender i can't effectively label myself "bisexual" because to me it doesn't matter i hate the fucking term to be honest, it's really stupid to label yourself like that imo. everyone who is "bi" has a varying degree of attraction to diff. genders. and how would i deal with it.. same as i deal with it now. i just wouldnt tell my kids when they were real young, because it could make them all weird or shit. some people get freaked out, haha
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Mar 15, 04
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i am sexually attracted to both, although when it comes to femes, i find the attraction is to girls that more suitably resemble myself, as girls seem to have an oz of narcsism in them.
and as far as love, or relationships... i get attracted to the person as a physical, then i get to know them, and if i can actually stand the person and we have similar beliefs and points of view, while maintaining an equal amount of originality....thats where i find true attraction. but for me, i am picky, and it is hard to meet my standars, as i myself am seemingly HIGH MAINTAINANCE!!! lol
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Mar 16, 04
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I'm straight, and while I can look at chicks and say whether they are attractive and have even fantasized/dreamed about being with women in the past, this doesn't make me bi (I believe the term is bi-curious?). I couldn't see myself _actually_ being with another woman even just to screw around.
Straight/Gay/Bi, like Claire said: They're all just labels that people have given others. They aren't important. The only thing is important is that people be happy with who they are and who they are with, whether they be of the same or of different sexes.
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Mar 17, 04
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The thing to note about sexual orientation is that it's orientation. It's not who you happen to be dating. Sleeping with a member of the opposite sex doesn't make you heterosexual, insomuch as going to a rave doesn't really make you a raver. Orientation is mostly attraction. I consider myself straight because I really don't find myself attracted to men. Doesn't mean to say one day I won't fall in love with a guy, but moreso that I wouldn't persue it because, as I said, I'm not attracted to men. I feel nothing when I kiss them and there's nothing that really turns me on about them.
But there are plenty of people who are attracted to both men and women. We call these people "bisexual". Look, when you get married, would you only ever think your wife to be the only person you personally find to be hot? Of course not. So just because you're dating/sleeping with/married to someone doesn't mean that you suddenly stop paying attention to all the hormonal impulses that make you look at a fine ass and think about fucking them. So why rigidly place limitations like that on people who aren't of the same orientation?
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These days, since I'm more and more in a serious relationship that I see going somewhere for the rest of my life the chance that I find a guy that I'd end up doing the same thing with are dwindling.... But the same thing can be said about all women who aren't my girlfriend as well... But by the definitions implied by the original poster, this wouldn't so much make me straight as a Jennifersexual.
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Mar 21, 04
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If i ever do procreate which i dont see ever happening,i will be open and honest with my children about everything. I do not feel the need to hide who I am or what I do from anyone. I will raise my children to keep an open mind WITH ALL THINGS. Be it sexual preferance,or clothing.
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