Not really having a relationship with your mom

[mugsy]

emotional break downs and stuff, if they are just new and recent, maybe your mom is starting the "change"
my mom has been in menopause since i was in grade 10... i want it to stop...

[cinist]

i would just like too say, off topic and out of the blue, that my mother is a fucking wack job. she makes things up and then tells me my friends said things about me they didnt just because she decides that she dislikes them.

[Silverwinged]

^ Wow, does your mom know my mom by any chance? Is it possible that they share a brain?

Anyways Cat my love. I'm here for you and if you ever need to just get out and chill we can always hang out and do something. Catch a movie or grab some chow or whatever until you feel a little better. Let your mom think she's in control and has the upper hand. Prove her wrong about the "evil teen" image by attempting to spend time with her (i know people have said this already, but it is a good idea.), not saying that she'll go for it right away though... I find with my mom that if youy just act mature and just ignore her, or do your best not to piss her off, she's easier to deal with on a day to day basis. Call my cell if you need anything love. We still have to hang out from how many weeks ago?

I love ya kitten

[zarlon]

meh at least you have a mom?

but i agree, parents can be fucking PSYCHOTIC sometimes. maybe its because they just love you too much to be anywhere near sane around you - no clue.

[Ms.Chop]

Originally Posted by Tease

My mom's exactly the same way. I've noticed most European mom's are like that. They think everything you do is disrespectful in some way and can be pretty mean. They’re so caught up in what others will think about them and the family if you don’t turn out to be the perfect little polish chick. They were brought up COMPLETLY different. Nothing you can really do but tuff it out…. I’ve done it for 21 years and just recently we’re getting along.

ye i am european also.. but lately.. wen iw as yougner my mom used to be sooooooooo strict and its so weird now.. cuz she's so cool.. lets me do anythign go anywhere... like w/e... and my friends r all liek "ye ur mom's so cool" but to me its weird.. and im still trying 2 adjust to that.. cuz she's a FOB rite.. so im jus used to the old days....


but i see how my grandma used to be w/ my mom.. and i realize my mom is trying nto to be wut her mom was w/ her...

[Tiphness]

i have a mom that we fought sooo much i left my home when i was 14.. i lived away from her for about 4 years before i moved home.. she was (still is) a harrrsh alcoholic and she would start arguments with me for no reason and i just couldn't take it anymore. so after coming home it was stil bad, like i still can't talk to her or anything.. now i live away from her again which makes visiting bearable.

i never understood when i was groowing up why my mother would act the way she did/does, but i guess now i have come to see what her view on things are and how she feels about the issues. i definetly do not condone her behaviour but i have a better understanding of it and it helps me err tolerate her (i guess).

of course i wished so many times that i could have the cool saved by the bell mom that would show the guys that knocked on my door right up on into my bedroom ::rollingeyes:: but our mom are people too and have problems and concerns for their daughters...

now i try to spend a couple days a week with my mom, and maybe one day we'll have built the realtionship we've always thought about??

there'e only one way to find out :/