Not knowing their feelings...

[fantasy]

I hate when you dont know the "other persons" feelings.

What their thinking at certain moments.

Have any of you been in a situation where you dont know the feelings of someone special?

[Sariel]

That's why you ask....

Open honest communication is supposed to be part of any relationship.... if you want to know how they think/feel, ask them.

[rawb]

other people have feelings?

[bob]

Originally Posted by rawb

other people have feelings?

i think she was speaking in metaphors...
feelings./.. LOL OK BYE

[mapleleaf4ever]

Originally Posted by rawb

other people have feelings?

I keep hearing this rumour as well...

[Josie]

yea ive been in that situation many times...i guess the best is to ask and tell them how u feel. it either goes one way or the other right...

[sass69]

I know what you mean although sometimes some ppl deny they are upset in any way which is confusing

[Kelster]

hah...it's always the same deal with me

i'm too insecure to ask so i like create the others feelings!

'he's in love with me' 'he hates me' 'he's scared of me'

[Custard]

i usually just look the person in the eyes, usually i can guess. but when im fucked up, everything goes to hell.

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by Sariel

That's why you ask....

sometimes you can't always ask though.

i know what she means and i sympathize.

[robyn]

Sometimes it's not your buissness, anyways.

[sidekick]

^exactly! sometimes it's inappropriate to ask them how they feel about you, given certain circumstances.

[ppcock]

im feeling lonely and depressed.

nothing booze cant fix!

(just kidding.. im feeling fine and alright.. except for that blizzard)

[sidekick]

^booze can fix that too!

[ppcock]

nothing like a pukezard

i was thinking about cancelling but my friend just left..

I'm most likely going to puke tonight.. 1st time.. you're all going to miss it :(

[sidekick]

:(

take photos for me marty! are you coming on thursday to robyn's house?

i'm inviting you.

[ppcock]

perhaps.. its venue hunting thursday for me.

I want to grab the venue asap so i can start booking dj's

then let it die for a few months and KABLAMO BIGGEST OUTDOOR RAVE EVER!

[Sariel]

Originally Posted by Sidekick

sometimes you can't always ask though.

i know what she means and i sympathize.

I don't think I have ever been in a situation with someone where I did not feel that I could ask them what they thought/felt...

[mugsy]

but isnt this kinda what makes relationships fun in that unknowing?
when it comes to them being sad\upset, then you should kinda be able to tell, but knowing how they feel each and every moment, i say pooie. it doesnt seem right to want to know.
but if its something that really bothers you, then you should ask them, otherwise it will just keep on eating away at you.

[brokencrayon]

Originally Posted by Sidekick

sometimes you can't always ask though.

i know what she means and i sympathize.

what he said

[yoko*]

my someone special usually has everything written all over his face.

[stringbeans]

ive felt this way for a long time and i think i just found out tonight

:(

[charly]

mm hmm. except i'm usually the one not sharing my feelings.

not knowing the whole story doesn't help sometimes either. of course, that's always my fault too.

[galaxie]

ahhh I know this feeling all too well
I wanted sooooo badly to tell my man that I loved him for more than a month, and every night we were together I would just lie in his arms and look into his eyes and want to say it...but I was always too afraid that he wouldn't say it back...then one night we were lying there like normal and he said it to me <3 that was the best feeling I've ever had, and I'm lucky enough to feel it =)

[skittles_0307]

I think there is a point in time where EVERYONE gets stuck feeling this way.
I call it "SPILLING THE BEANS" Just say how you feel, no matter how bad it might suck or hurt to hear it. Its gotta be done.