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May 01, 04
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Don't know what to do.
Now what im going to say....not many people know...in fact no one knows...
and i really shouldnt be posting this...but as im sitting here type'n this im going nuts. My mother has deep deep depression. She cuts herself on a regular basis. All my life i have had to deal with this...and whatever is going on with my life. About 10 mins ago my mother called my neighbour and told them that she felt like she wanted to kill herself.... my neighbour then called my grandmother whom i live with and told her. My grandmother then went to my moms place and my mom is not there she is know where to be found. The reason i am writting this is because i need to talk about this cause i myself...am depressed. and if i do not get this out... i will kill myself.... i just want my mom.... Last edited by x0x_manda_x0x; May 01, 04 at 09:14 AM. 
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May 01, 04
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Babe my thoughts are with you
Be strong My door is always open
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May 01, 04
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Try to stay calm and just breathe. Your mom knows deep down inside that you love her and she loves you back. Step outside and look at the world around you and see how much beauty and love there is everywhere. I'll always be here if you need anything hun. :027:
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May 02, 04
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I sorta think i kno how u feel...my mom did the same thing before excpet mine actually attempted suicide. Sometimes when they talk abotu it they don';t really mean that they will do it, its just a cry for help. Hope u get thru this, i'm sure u have alotta friends that will b there for u when u need them.
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May 02, 04
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AMANDA.....
sweety im soo worried about u ...... your mom loves u.......and she knows u love her too..... be strong baby everything will get better remeber i love u and im always here if u need ill try and come see u in the next couple weeks...... love u hunny
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May 08, 04
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Blah i thought i deleted this thread right after i posted it...hrm whatever.
Well just thought i would let whoever read this know they found my mom. they want to put her into Sherbrooke-at royal columbian. They just want to keep her in there for a few days and what not... I thank god that i have moved out and dont have to be at my house while this is going on. that sounds selfish i know but wow this is really hard for me... i cant even begin to think what my little brother is going threw.... so if u see me and im not in a good mood....this is the reason why... and if i am somehow more of a bitch to u then usual.....IM sorry.....i really dont mean it i just hate everyone... thank you all for your kind words and what not.... good karma for you all...and im not talking about fnk karma.
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May 08, 04
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Wow...
I know it is tough to do this, I think you should learn from the example your Mother is currently showing that attempting to committ suicide or cutting oneself really doesn't solve anything. Of course none of us understand what has caused your Mother to begin to be depressed and have that build up to have her behave the way she is today. She needs help, and I am glad to hear she is under observation and is getting that help... Now on to you... You have a choice to make. You can let your mothers behavior take you down the same path, OR see it as something to learn from and to go the opposite way from. It doesn't mean that you can't talk about it with people, it just means that you need to acknowledge that you are a different person from your mother that has her own decisions/choices to make in life. Anyway, good luck with things and don't forget to turn to friends and family when you need them.
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May 10, 04
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i've been down a long bad depression road before so i'm always here if you need to talk, my heart goes out to you
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May 10, 04
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May 11, 04
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I really know what your going through. My mom is manic depressive. She used to think of killing herself and what not to escape that pain.She has also done some things that she cant even explain. This diease is one of the most complicated ones. Its something they cant help, and honestly the only way you can help is to love her, show her, and support her in everyway.
Its affected my brother and I so much too. I hear about it all the time, because its a problem that bothers her right, but i've learned to not follow that path, and to be strong. My brother is younger, and he doesnt understand why she cant be like everyother mom and he gets mad at her for being that way sometimes which makes her even worse, but he doesnt understand that at this age. Neway, If you don't keep your head on your shoulders and look forward to having it better who will. Have faith, and hope that she gets better,thank god she is getting help. Support her in everyway and that you too always have someone to talk too .....if you ever need anyone to talk to (altho i dont know you ) im here to help and i know EXACTLY what your feeling ok hun?
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May 11, 04
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wow glad to hear you found your mom just try and be as strong as you can.
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May 11, 04
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i really appreciate all ur words...thank u so much...:)
And yes i have tryed talking to my mother...this is nothing new...she has been like this for about 5 years...but has never actually done n e thing like that....it was quite scary...... but im staying as strong as i can.... i still feel bad about moving to delta...but what can i do??? i have done all i can...and its just not enuff...and that upsets me... bah i dunno... but thanx again everyone... :)
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May 13, 04
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Im really glad your mother is getting the help she needs. I can honestly say your an amazing person for handling this the best way you can and i dont even know you. Everything will be ok stay strong sweetie *hugs*
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May 13, 04
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aww amanda baby.. i love you my greatest rave date... i cant even begin to feel what ur going threw... my mom died when i was 13.. iono right now im crazie depressed 2.. 3 of my friends hae also died this year.. iono man just msg me on msn if u wanna talk hun love ya
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May 16, 04
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wow what a mess. nunda i dont even need to tell you that i got your back, and your front. my doors and arms are always wide open for you.
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May 18, 04
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^^ thnx guys...much appreciated....
cheez......i <3 u. the same goes fer u.... <3 <3 <3
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May 26, 04
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Amanda,
do you reemmber when i stayed at your house after timberline, and your mom did those cards on me, remember it said that i would be a nymph! lol that was funny, then you adn your mom told me to stay away from that red headed kid who liked me by the trail?? haha that was so long ago, but hearing about your mom made me think about that. xoxo miss yah take care. can't wait to see u at apex
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