I'm scared

[galaxie]

You know how sometimes in your life you have to just throw yourself out there and hope that you don't get completely crushed?

I did that last night. And I'm scared as fuck...I don't think I've ever been this scared in my life, except for maybe that time I almost drowned. :(

Anyone have any advice on how to calm this fear and like, make my hands stop shaking and stuff? Please?

[stabmyhead]

the description you gave nat was a lil broad.. there are different ways to calm ones fears for different things.. if you are saying tht you just told someone you liked them and you are scared as to what their reaction is, then its obviously gonna be a different fear than if you are going to die of a flesh eating virus, now isnt it?

did you do something you arent proud of? did you eat poisoned poo? narrow it down a lil bit..

[bob]

i actually like that feeling...

so i can't help ya... hehe...

i like putting myself on the line and waiting for the outcome... gets the adrenyln running like crazy... you get so anxious and worked up, it's the best! nonono the best part is when u get the results... if u get turned down, u totally get bummed out, but at least ur a little calmer... if u win, then you get to be nervous for a while longer, ehehehe....

sorry ... that didn't help, haha

[Shukura]

aw nat, i think the only advice i can give is try not to make such a big deal of things... even IF it is a big deal. theres nothign you can really do about it right now.
think about it, does worrying ever get anyone anywhere [im most cases] NO! and in this case it wont. so try and keep your mind on the more positive things in life. theres nothing you can do about the past, and who knows wheter the outcome is good or bad i am sure it is for the best. but good luck anywho =) i know about your situation and if anything bad happens ill go kick some ass for you :)

now go forget about your trubbles and relax... you spend too much time worrying. its bad for your health!

[galaxie]

Nikki: thanks hunny *muah* Ass kicking, eh? *sigh* I really hope none of that is necessary!

Leslie: Kinda like telling someone you like them...kinda...just...different. More like pouring your heart out completely to someone who loved and cared about you once upon a time but you're not sure if they feel the same and yeah. Yeah. =/

I'm calmer now. Mmmmnnn ice tea!

[c.tard]

Aww, nat hun... It'll be for the better I think...

Think about it this way... Now that you've let him know everyone.. it might help him make his decision.. maybe things'll turn out good.. or maybe they won't... but at least you won't be left wondering.. what would've happened if you had just done all that y'know? At least you gave it your all, and if it doesn't work.. it doesn't.. and i know it hurts but you'll be fine.. just give it some time!

we're all ehre for ya! But I dunno how to just calm urself down! I'm almost as bad as you when it comes to stuff like that! I get all shakey and nervous and sometimes i'll end up crying.. ack! it's bad..

but just try and relax.. drink your iced tea.. take a nice long bubble bath or something.. with some scented candles maybe? [yes that's right nat.. you heard me.. go get romantic with yourself! heh]

but good luck with it.. and hey.. i'm with nikki.. if anything bad happens.. we can go kick some ass! heh =]

take care!