Tainted love?

riddla · #1 (**permalink**) Jun 08, 04

So....

Has anyone actually made a relationship work, that had problems in the begining? And on top of that, this relationship kinda started in a dirty way...

Far shot I know, just trying to get my odds here...

mapleleaf4ever · #2 (**permalink**) Jun 08, 04

If it's had problems from the beginning, ask yourself, why did it start? (I have a sneaking suspicion it started like one I had)

skittles_0307 · #3 (**permalink**) Jun 08, 04

I dun like tainted love..
Maple Leaf always has good advice :D

mapleleaf4ever · #4 (**permalink**) Jun 08, 04

hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahaha those are some words I thought I'd never hear with my name in the same sentence. Thank you. :)

skittles_0307 · #5 (**permalink**) Jun 08, 04

anytime, back to the topic!!

Im kinda confused, does she want to know if there has been any relationships that didn't have problems??

baby-phat · #6 (**permalink**) Jun 09, 04

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Originally Posted by riddla

So....

Has anyone actually made a relationship work, that had problems in the begining? And on top of that, this relationship kinda started in a dirty way...

Far shot I know, just trying to get my odds here...

When me and my boyfriend first met we were both meth-heads, after a week of hanging out, doing meth, drinking and crashing out we started dating. For the first bit things were great but then we both got kinda agro. We pretty much lived together from the start. Not quite a yearinto the relationship we quit drugs and got our lives back on track. We've been clean for over a year and we've been together for 2.
Not all 'problem'r elationships turn out well, but they can.

Carrie · #7 (**permalink**) Jun 09, 04

omg it's riddla

POCAŁU MNIE W DUPE!

riddla · #8 (**permalink**) Jun 09, 04

TO SPODNIE NA PODWOGE, I DUPA W GURE ;)

carrie wheres my freekin perogies hu?

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Originally Posted by Carrie

omg it's riddla

POCAŁU MNIE W DUPE!

Shemsija · #9 (**permalink**) Jun 10, 04

I've been in a relationship where problems started from the begginning, and what i have realised is that..... your just gunna get more and more of them (problems)coming along. At least it happend to me.

skittles_0307 · #10 (**permalink**) Jun 10, 04

PRoblems are Problems and no matter who you are or what you do your going to have them. In the beginning middle or end there will always be problems! GET OVER IT and have a nice day :Stab:

*Geminiz* · #11 (**permalink**) Jun 10, 04

Yes, ofcourse it can work if a relationship starts out with problems. If things are meant to be and both are willing to put in the effort to make things work. My boyfriend and I went through rough times in the first year, but now after 3 years we're completely happy, and are stronger because of it.

miss.myra · #12 (**permalink**) Jun 10, 04

Yeah, the thing is if there are problems in the begining, it is best to deal with it right then. It's easy to say 'yeah this bothers me, but everything is so new that i don't want to ruin what's going on', but what happens is these same problems often come back to haunt the relationship .

jawa · #13 (**permalink**) Jun 10, 04

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Originally Posted by *Geminiz*

Yes, ofcourse it can work if a relationship starts out with problems. If things are meant to be and both are willing to put in the effort to make things work. My boyfriend and I went through rough times in the first year, but now after 3 years we're completely happy, and are stronger because of it.

i agree, the first year or so of my relationship we had a ton of problems ( as dawn can probably vouch for me :kimmie:)
there were times when i wanted to stick something really sharp in his privates. i broke it of with him like 30000 times.
but even though there are still times when he gets me really mad. i know hes going to be there for ever. and all that other stuff just made us stronger and know each other better.
but as dawn said that is only if you are truly meant for each other and are willing to put in the effort

mystique · #14 (**permalink**) Jun 10, 04

I wish you all the best but good luck

Jess_C · #15 (**permalink**) Jun 11, 04

Yeah, if the problems are worth fixing in the beginning before more start...then do so. Sometimes though, it's not worth the energy/time, and it's better to just remain friends. You have to take a look at why these problems are occuring and go from there.

Silver Tongue · #16 (**permalink**) Jun 11, 04

If things start off on a bad note it is a sign of things to come... I 'm sure there are exceptions but in most cases not.. Trust your heart and listen and don't waste anytime.. Life is to short .......... That's all

{SiNcErE} · #17 (**permalink**) Jun 14, 04

Me and my boyfriend had a lot of problems to begin with but i wouldnt want to be without him thats for sure. Sometimes things are hard but we work through it because we've been through a lot and were good at working through things together. Just do what feels and is right for you. Good Luck ~Michelle

Special_J · #18 (**permalink**) Jun 14, 04

My boyfriend and I went through MAJOR problems in the first 3-4 months. We fought all the time, we were both doing too many drugs which made us both super paranoid and not fun to deal with. We had to work on A LOT of things and it took a while. But now we are so happy and I love him more than anyone I have ever known. Things just keep getting better and better. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. I am so glad that we stuck together through it all otherwise we wouldn't be where we are now.