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  #26 (permalink)  
Old Jul 10, 04
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How about start questioning the parents in their role of discipline and instilling values etc before goin after the kid.

Trust me, i already did.. they only moved in with my birth dad a year and a bit ago.



They had a really hard life.. they use to get locked in there rooms, they were in forster homes... they had a mom who was only 18 when she had them.. she didn't know what to do.

I think ALOT of it is the parents fault.

He's a good kid, befor this he actually grew out of this whole angry at the world kill things or brake things phase... he was Really good.

But i think when people start to fight around him... he gets angry or upset. maybe i should take him out for the day and talk to him myself...
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Old Jul 10, 04
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okay, 1.) who the fuck keeps giving this kid animals... i mean who in their right mind would ever give another animal to this psycho. im a huge animal right activist, and your brother or whoever are the people we fight against. i dont understand why your dad or parent(s) or guardian(s) keep giving this child animals. take them the fuck away, and discipline the kid. when he does this, what punishment does he get? a yelling at or grounding. NO, you need to take him to the doctor, or have him institutionalized right away. like honestly, what the fuck are you waiting for? how old is he? and why the fuck isnt he locked up already? and 2.) i dont know if your just bullshitting about him smearing his own shit on his walls, but yes when a child either pisses in his closet or smears his shit on the walls, that is a serious sign of mental illness. i dont know why you wouldnt want to institutionalize him now, because that way hes has a greater chance of recovering and becoming a normal adult.
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Old Jul 10, 04
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no he really takes a dump under his bed.. and smeeres it on the walls.

And They gave him a rat at first but he pulled of its tail.. so they took it away
said no more animals till he improves his BROTHER had a hamster..and i think thats the one he killed.


so they don't give him animals anymore.. its not his... for sure. I think he's going to see a shrink this weekend... i'm pretty sure


(about the animal rights thing... me to hunny. i almost tossed my cookies after hearing about this.. as is my birth dad he was very pissed off/upset at having to kill this poor little guy but the kids mom doesn't really have a love of animals.. she actualy said "oh well its just a hamster" i totaly tweaked.)
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Old Jul 10, 04
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i really do think that he needs to see more than a shrink. i think he maybe should be institutionalized for a while, let them do some psychotic evaluations, because im sorry, this child has a lot of the symptoms. especially the shit smearing part. i wonder when he is doing this he realizes that it is WRONG and it shouldnt be done, both the killing animals and the shit smearing. he really really does need help, because i think it is only a matter of time before he turns on one of his family members or society itself.

and i also think that the mother might have some mental issues as well if her justification of his actions are that "its only just a hamster" or whatever. he maybe s hould not be allowed to see her for the time being, and she may also want to go see a psychiatrist too.

and the animal rights thing is very important. that should be taught to him that doing this is not ok, even if its just a hamster. he should be taught to value all life, whether its human, animal or plant life. i know with my love of animals, i could never sit there with my hands tied around a helpless dog's neck and watch it suffer. i could not watch it die, but since your brother seems to take pleasure in this... there is something DEFINITELY WRONG.
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Old Jul 11, 04
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we think she might be manic depressive... the older boy is really sweet, he balled.. I think he's still crying about it. and the younger one was doing sooo well... but i think when people start to fight... he gets angry and takes it out on animals...
or whatever he can hit, toss brake or hurt...

I keep telling them he should be in something like kids boxing... or some form of arts where he has to use mental and his body.. so he can get his anger out on other things...

but he's not my kid.
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Old Jul 11, 04
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The first 6 years of someone's life determine who they are forevor.
No, they dont.
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Old Jul 11, 04
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^yeah, not forever, but they definetly have a big impact on who you are.
Impressionability decreases as age increases.
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Old Jul 11, 04
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i used to kill all sorts of animals.

i don't anymore, but i used to.
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Old Jul 11, 04
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it means hes gonna be his generations version of willie pickton when he grows up
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Old Jul 12, 04
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^yeah, not forever, but they definetly have a big impact on who you are.
Impressionability decreases as age increases.
Not six year olds, though.
As you go through the developmental stages of life, you notice that you really start developing a personality once you start socializing with peers--which doesn't really happen until you reach school age.
Children are the most impressionable between 6-12.
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