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Aug 05, 04
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17-18 - The year everything went to shit. I think my problem was trying to be too mature in situations where I should have just cried and got over it..instead I just let it build up to a super depression. Also the year I decided I was going to try drugs and lots of them. And the year I was diagnosed with an ulcer.
I think when girls are growing up they care sooo much about what other people think. They can change who they are over night if thats what they think is the thing to do. Now im happy with myself and I dont care what anybody else thinks. Thank god for good friends =) 
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Sep 20, 04
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17 into 18 was tough for me. Comming out of highschool and not knowing what I was doing with my life. Lost my steady suport system as my friends moved away or moved on. I had some tough relationship drama, and feeling like I was in a rut.
I found that just getting a job and a steady scedual helped to smooth it all out for right now. I'll figure out what I want to do with my life eventualy. I just had to learn to relax and stop looking so hard for quick fixes. But it was a very overwhelming time in my life.
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Sep 20, 04
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Me being 18 right now soon 19, I would have to say that my worst year was 15. I dont think I would ever EVER want to relive that year. It was a hard year dealing with parents fighting and that lead me to skipping school.
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Sep 20, 04
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14 for sure.. that was such a rough age for me.. I basically went from being mini-school goody good to 'trying' to rebel stoner.
It was rough because I wanted to experience it all so I think I rushed things a little bit.. it helped me grow up though, I did most of my growing up when I was 14.
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Sep 29, 04
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i didnt have hard teenage years i ownd the mother fuckers!!
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Sep 29, 04
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14- 17 the 'MOM doesn't understand me' years
but 15 was the hardest, i felt like i knew everything that was best for me, i found it hard to listen to authority, i did a lot of things i look back on and shake my head at - and i am a smart girl i said a lot of mean things to my parents, and did a lot of stupid things to myself being 25 now, i can't help but wonder wtf i was thinking sometimes..but you see...it doesn't matter who says that to you at the time...you don't hear it - or you don't realize it thats a part of being a teen :) but i chalk it all up to experience keep your eyes on the prize...or whatever
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Dec 06, 04
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ahhh for me the hardest years were 15/16...got way too into drugs, met someone who i thought was SO COOL, and yeah...got into drugs bcuz of them
on my 16th birthday i decided it would be fun to try GHb, at school with my bestfriend...we had don eit once before, and my dealer had made it very clear to me that we should ONLY TAKE 5mls... so i was in an invincible mood, and had about a pint of pure GHB (collateral from my dealer for a cap of e), and decided to take a sip from the bottle.... i woke up in the hospital like 4hours later, with my mom and dad standing over me crying....and my best friend in downt he hall fro me crying her eyes out (she had also ODed) we have never touched that shit ever again....i was really irresponsible
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Dec 06, 04
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Grade 11. I was 16 and my best friend since kindergarten started dating the guy we both liked, then they got "weird" on me and it was never the same. All three of u started fighting and the drama spread throughout our entire circle of friends. My mum ended up in a big motorcycle accident and was on all kinds of hard drugs for pain, and she was really moody which was hard or my whole family. I had math with my former best friend and her bf and ended up failing it on purpose, bc my mark was barely a pass anyways, so that I could take it again the next year. (U get priority to retake if u failed, bc its highschool requirement, over ppl who just want to retake to get a better mark). I also made a really good friend outside of school who I ended up feeling like she was taking advantage of my niceness...Oh and I tore my ACL in district finals for soccer and ended up having to eventually give up soccer, softball and snowboarding *thumbs down*
But I survived and Grade 12 was rad. I got all my hard courses over with first semester (including that math11 retake), had some awesome friends outside of high school, started partying (this is positive, and I was never really into party drugs) and second semster breezed by: Art12, Fashion Tech, Creative Writing, and Bio12 all with my best party friends in each class :) Other than some hard times in Grade 11, I really didn't have hard teen years. I was never really a "teenager". I went from preteen to young adult and was very mature or my age. I never fought with my parents and didn't get into trouble. My self estem and self image were always relatively good, so I'm lucky for that. I just didn't take well to being "screwed over" by friends... And really, all that "bad" stuf happened in just a few months, so it wasn't ven a full semster of crap. I think I got off lucky in my teens! Most ppl had a very hard time! Last edited by veN; Dec 06, 04 at 01:32 PM.
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Dec 06, 04
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10-13: Girls are CRUAL, puburty is a bitch to get use too, b4 12 you dont have much say in a custady battle. Put them all together and you have some really bad fn years to deal with :(
15: was my odd year... really lost and loanly 17-18: Grad was disapointing and I was learning to deal with boys in a much more seriouse matter... sometimes the hard way :n: Last edited by Ree Fresh; Dec 06, 04 at 09:09 PM.
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Dec 06, 04
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every year of my teenaged years sucked... when i was 12goin on 13 my mom passed away.... i had to go live wit my dad who i barely new.... away from everyone i knew.. was depressed for a while.....
learned im not a weak ass, delt with it and i can be happy and want to make the most out of my life cuz of this... i kinda have troubles feeling bad for people sometimes... cus sum people exagerate there problems... some dont...
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Dec 07, 04
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yeyeye.. i kno wut y'all are thinking.. im only 17.. ive grown up quite abit since the summer.. actually grown up quite alot..
having an older mentor also help me realize sum things.. i was a goody goody wen i was younger.. but i always skipped skool.. ahd that kinda trouble.. wen i was about 15/16 i got introduced to the whole, weed, e, raving, getting smashed.. partying hard.. skipped alotta skool (not only jus to blaze.. but becuz i was getting screwed over and i felt like nothing was worth it anymore)... eventually they asked me to goto CABE, i decided not too.. so i dropped outta skool at the age of 15... went back to a diff skool wen i was 16 for about 4 days.. dropped out once again. im finally now picking my life back up.. im quitting partying, blazing.. all that shit.. i have a job now.. working on going back to skool.. even tho im 17.. i kno this is meant for 'older women'.. but i feel i have grown up and realized alot of things.. my whole mind set is different.. so ya... conclusion.. 15/16 were the gia the bad girl days.
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Dec 07, 04
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