Feeling like u have no friends...

[Jen-E-03]

..so i just moved like a 20 minute drive away from where i used to live and i've had the house to myself for the last week. One person who said she would come stay with me for a few days hasn't even come to c me, let alone call me...I have alot of aquaintances ppl i chill n drink with once n a while, but lately it's been seeming like i've got no one. No one to talk to about things bothering me, no one to share secrets with..I feel sorta lonely. I hate feeling like this...I've been sitting around my house for the last week with nuthing to do n pretty much only fnkers to talk to. *sigh* :(

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Aww..I know exactly how you feel. Right now im at a stage in my life where me and most of my close friends from elementary and highschool are going different ways in our lives. We're growing older and farther apart. It's depressing but life goes on. Remember that you are the only person who can decide upon your happiness. Think positive and enjoy some alone time! =)

[Jen-E-03]

Yea all my friends are klike younger than me or the ones my age n older are like ALWAYS drunk or drugged...I wish i had sum close friends my age..it's so hard to make friends with other ppl my tho ya kno, cuz usually they've already got their lil group of friends already...

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Do you have a job? Making friends with people at work is always good. Or meet random fnk'ers..(not just at a party) you never know what happens. Another site where I have met a lot of cool people is ... http://www.theultimateguide.ca =)

[Jen-E-03]

I've got a job at the navy base so i work with like middle age-older women n men. I don't live in Vancouver so i can't meet with fnkers. I'm hopeless.

[fadedsignal]

Me too. Friendless.
I've been a loner for years. :hurt:

[sweet~kandy]

ya I know ur feeling and I can relate. Im here if u ever need to talk.

[Jen-E-03]

thx Tina *hugz* I appreciate that.

[sweet~kandy]

Im always here *hugs*

[Pussy_Kat]

jenn i had to work


that doesnt mean u have no friends!

:(

[{SiNcErE}]

I think everyone feels that way once in a while. Itll be ok sweetie

[Jen-E-03]

Originally Posted by Pussy_Kat

jenn i had to work


that doesnt mean u have no friends!

:(

I never said n e names...but u didn't have to work ever day during the week.

[Pussy_Kat]

umm yeah i did..........i came home on monday..........worked tuesday wed and last night.......i now work TODAY tomorrow and sunday.......my next day off isnt untill monday....

but u know thanks for listening

[Jen-E-03]

ya and thanks for calling...

[Pussy_Kat]

w/e jenn..........sorry for working more then 2 days a week

ill make sure i fit u in before 3 and after midnight from now on.............

[Jen-E-03]

wutevr, if ur too busy to see a friend then obviously i wasn't a great friend to start with.

[Pussy_Kat]

ur being really unfair

your fucking guilt tripping me


thats not very nice at all

[charly]

Originally Posted by Jen-E-03

wutevr, if ur too busy to see a friend then obviously i wasn't a great friend to start with.

wow. i don't even know either of you, but that's a little harsh.
i know you aren't 15 or anything. there's no need to guilt trip someone for having to work. it's part of having a job. i've got a pretty stupid work schedule myself, and it clashes with my friends schedules, but they don't get mad at me for it. we just make plans to do things when all of our schedules allow, and have fun that way.

[Jen-E-03]

its more than just that ...i never get phone calls or n e thing from her..it always seems like i'm the one to have to make the effort and shit liek that. I'm always the one to call or make plans, never the one get calls or get asked to hang out. Not from my "friends" that are girl n e ways. I guess i just need to start making friends with ppl more of my own age or chillin with different ppl and stop relying on ppl who aren't really there.

[TipSy]

awww Well its time for you to move here to coq...lots of friendly faces and nice ppl!!!!!!!! :)

[pinkpanther]

I fucking love living in coquitlam, most people are pretty laid back and chill here. But thats besides the point, maybe your looking in the wrong places for friends? I find that its hard to have more than a couple good girlfriends, and guys are great company aswell. 3/4 of my closest friends are guys. Im with them all the time, I'm usually the only girl too. Its great too because my relationship with them is so not sexual. Once you gain that level of respect, its pretty dope. And theres always people out there that feel the same way as you that want to meet new people too. Go out, join clubs, try something new, you never know who you might meet.

[TipSy]

^^ have to agree coq. a pretty dope place! very laid back..no worries. u'll find the odd prick but its all good....move jen move!

[Chino]

Atleast I'm not alone, i feel like that quite a bit of the time. I have some good closer friends, but you can't be bothering them all the time. I just moved to Van, so i know like almost noone, it sucks. I try to stay positive most of the time and think ahead, but sometimes its not that easy. Meeting new ppl can be hard.

[MissBehavior]

^I hope you realize that I'm never serious when I'm picking on you...Yooze is one o' my boys! :)

And you can come over whenever you want to. You have an open-door invite.

[Chino]

No No, i know. I'm not really talking about you guys. You guys are awesome.
I'm just talking sometimes thats all. Its all good.

Originally Posted by MissBehavior

^I hope you realize that I'm never serious when I'm picking on you...Yooze is one o' my boys! :)

And you can come over whenever you want to. You have an open-door invite.