Breaking Up...

~Blushes · #1 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

I hate when u break up with ur other and you still want to be with them....

krisamata · #2 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

yes it does really really suck..

grrr

cheebus420 · #3 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

Well it also depends on why you broke up. Those feelings of wanting to be with them are also simply detachment anxiety, that is a by-product of spending lots of time with someone, and suddenly having them out of your life.

robyn · #4 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

It's better than staying in a crappy relationship.

krisamata · #5 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

^^^ but sometimes it really isnt a crappy relationship...

robyn · #6 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

^Then why would you break up with the person?

krisamata · #7 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

becuase you're afraid of committment or something and you break up and realize it was the most stupid thing could have done

:(

~Blushes · #8 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

I just feel like Ive lost something that I need, something that was always there to comfort me and cuddle with me. I miss that and I want it back.

miss.myra · #9 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

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Originally Posted by ~Blushes

I just feel like Ive lost something that I need, something that was always there to comfort me and cuddle with me. I miss that and I want it back.

Then you want a teddy bear and not a relationship.

G-Style · #10 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

It'll come back to you sometime but with a different exterior. "It's better to have loved and lost than......ah fuck it break ups aren't fun but the rebound fling is fun

krisamata · #11 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

amen to that gstyle

soma · #12 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

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Originally Posted by ~Blushes

that I need,

thats your problem hun,

find someone that you want and you will be much a happier and less dependant on your partner. being close is a wonderful thing but being dependant is really not healthy.

to each their own i guess :)

~Blushes · #13 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

I keep on thinking that ya I am going to move on, but as the days pass his name constantly comes up. When I try and find someone new, I just end up finding someone I dont want.

ppcock · #14 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

i get that too

but i wash it away with beer, pot and music

and i might as well include my balcony, seat and table.

sweet~kandy · #15 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

Oh wow, I know that feeling way too well.

Cheer up hun :)

cheebus420 · #16 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

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Originally Posted by ppcock

i get that too

but i wash it away with beer, pot and music

and i might as well include my balcony, seat and table.

Is that a guy thing? I've done that for crappy breakups, it's like medicine.

krisamata · #17 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

^^^ its not just a guy thing.

G-Style · #18 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

I've gone that exact same road.lol that's just too funny!

neoh · #19 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

it's called empathy, and of course routine. Breaking a routine is harder then it seems, relashionships can become routines - and that's one of the reason why it's hard to break it off.

Everything mends in time, you'll be over it in a week.

InSoMnIaK* · #20 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

I hate it when people post about there relationships

shut up, play some fucking speed garage and flail

yes im agro today

fuck off

robyn · #21 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

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Originally Posted by InSoMnIaK*

shut up, play some fucking speed garage and flail

Worst advice ever.

Lush · #22 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

ohh man I feel ya, I've been casually dating this guy since the end of May and he's just sold me out on way too many occasions, doesn't follow up on plans or phone calls and he's just so passive and nonchalant towards everything.
So I call him today to end things because basically I'm just fed up and he sold me out again today.. and when I phone this girl picks up. I've always sort of had the hunch that he's been cheating, I don't have any real proof except that I found lip gloss on his bedroom floor (wasen't mine) but I guess some people would argue that isn't valid proof either.
Anyways, it just really sucks because ideally I would still like to be with him because I care about him but the feeling obviously isn't mutual.
Whatever, my fabulous coworker is taking me out to Celebreties tonight and we're going to have a rad time!

G-Style · #23 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

Lady you can call on me when you need a friend...*wink* *wink*. lol

BenGiovanni · #24 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

bah
its not gonna go away for a while...
find something to occupy yourself...it works...trust me

krisamata · #25 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

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Originally Posted by LadyShades

ohh man I feel ya, I've been casually dating this guy since the end of May and he's just sold me out on way too many occasions, doesn't follow up on plans or phone calls and he's just so passive and nonchalant towards everything.
So I call him today to end things because basically I'm just fed up and he sold me out again today.. and when I phone this girl picks up. I've always sort of had the hunch that he's been cheating, I don't have any real proof except that I found lip gloss on his bedroom floor (wasen't mine) but I guess some people would argue that isn't valid proof either.
Anyways, it just really sucks because ideally I would still like to be with him because I care about him but the feeling obviously isn't mutual.
Whatever, my fabulous coworker is taking me out to Celebreties tonight and we're going to have a rad time!

stupid boys
grrrrr

but yay celebreties...that place rocks.