Wishing you could apologize to someone...

MissBehavior · #1 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

D'you ever get that? Like when you're friends with someone and shit happens and things are never the same? I don't necessarily mean sex, but stupid fights, and just general growing apart that causes them.

I was just thinking about that today and going back to when I was discovering myself, I know there's a bunch of people that I need to apologize to.

I wish I could...

Mydnyte · #2 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

I usually apologize right away, or when I feel like it's a good time to drop the apology.
Other than that, I've never really felt like apologizing to someone after something happend over time. I've thought about regret or something, but not necessarily an apology or anything like that.

cerah · #3 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

-shrugs-

I just say call/email um and tell them. I got a hold of a buncha my old friends a long while ago and explained a buncha shit to them and now it's all good again.

Grab some bawls n just give'r.

I mean if you aren't friends now how's telling them going to make it any worse? They either keep not being your friend or you guys start talking again. Nothing to lose really.

MissBehavior · #4 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

It's more like people you lost touch with and totally can't track down. You know. No mutual friends, different phone numbers, etc...

galaxie · #5 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

I just wish that some people actually knew how to effing apologize, big or small. HUGE PISS OFF.

jomama · #6 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

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Originally Posted by MissBehavior

D'you ever get that? Like when you're friends with someone and shit happens and things are never the same? I don't necessarily mean sex, but stupid fights, and just general growing apart that causes them.

I was just thinking about that today and going back to when I was discovering myself, I know there's a bunch of people that I need to apologize to.

I wish I could...

why can't you?

CodaDrummer · #7 (**permalink**) Aug 11, 04

Just think of how good you feel when you apologize to those people, hopefully some of the friendships can be saved. Even if the friendships can't be saved, hopefully there will be a mutual understanding between both parties that things are ok now.

This thread makes me so excited!

I kind of grew apart from a really good friend in the past month or so, and we are hopefully now going to be getting back into good times! It's been too long and I wish she could have been there for some of the great times I have already has this Summer. I'm sure a whole Summer of new activities will be had once things get rolling again.

cerah · #8 (**permalink**) Aug 12, 04

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Originally Posted by MissBehavior

It's more like people you lost touch with and totally can't track down. You know. No mutual friends, different phone numbers, etc...

Try calling their parents house. Or if it was just some random rav0r people who's last names you don't even know I'd just suggest forgetting about it. No use worrying over shit you won't be able to sort out. It'll just bum you out if anything.