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tommy_zex · #1 (**permalink**) Aug 14, 04

have u ever been in a position where u knew u and some ells are right for each other ...and you both agreed but there was stupied reasons stoping you from being with each other ...possibly a 3rd person ...

sugestions, thoughts on it, experiences lets hear what u got

Custard · #2 (**permalink**) Aug 14, 04

3 some?

lola_phyne · #3 (**permalink**) Aug 14, 04

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3 some?

LOL yeah thats an option. Or you could just tell this 3rd person to fuck off and let you two be. Don't let someone stop you from possibly being in love. that's just my opinion.

tommy_zex · #4 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

ya.. but wut if they r already dating the 3rd person ...and i just came into the picture lil too late ... altought she says she wants to be with me ..but not making ne moves to get rid of the other guy

Custard · #5 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

then your fucked. dont touch her till shes single

tommy_zex · #6 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

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Originally Posted by Custard

3 some?

haha only if it was 2 girls haha

mojo · #7 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

she sounds like she may be a bit selfish

like custard said, dont touch till she leaves her bf

tommy_zex · #8 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

simple as that?...
it will be hard since me n her hang out n party together alot

Rhianna · #9 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

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Originally Posted by tommy_zex

ya.. but wut if they r already dating the 3rd person ...and i just came into the picture lil too late ... altought she says she wants to be with me ..but not making ne moves to get rid of the other guy

She does sound a bit selfish. What does she want you to do, wait around until she feels like getting ride of the other guy?

tommy_zex · #10 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

i have no idea ... sometime it feel like she is waittin for me to tell her to dumb him and come be with me ...
she fights with him all the time ... n the doode asked me to play his ex to try n get me out the pic

em i allowed just to tell her to leave him? or would that be too much

i know its kinda pathetic cryin out to strangers online ...but i need a outside opinion

Liqwid · #11 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

YES.....age played a factor....grrrrrrrr

~Dalyn

tommy_zex · #12 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

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Originally Posted by Liqwid

YES.....age played a factor....grrrrrrrr

~Dalyn

how big of a diff ?

tommy_zex · #13 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

~* bump*~ .. i can still use sum advice/ sugestions/ examples

sweet~kandy · #14 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

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Originally Posted by tommy_zex

have u ever been in a position where u knew u and some ells are right for each other ...and you both agreed but there was stupied reasons stoping you from being with each other ...possibly a 3rd person ...

sugestions, thoughts on it, experiences lets hear what u got

Yepp, im in that position right now. Dont really want to get into details but I know that when u have feelings for someone and that feeling wont leave u alone, it has to mean something.

sweet~kandy · #15 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

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Originally Posted by lola_phyne

LOL yeah thats an option. Or you could just tell this 3rd person to fuck off and let you two be. Don't let someone stop you from possibly being in love. that's just my opinion.

Excellent Advise,
However Ive tried doing this several times, it didnt work...

Liqwid · #16 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

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Originally Posted by tommy_zex

how big of a diff ?

almost 6....

they were very mature for their age

~Dalyn:008:

Ragga_Wh0re · #17 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

i say it b4 i say it again

drop the bitch like a baby! nothing but drama can come form this until she grows the fuck up and makes a solid decision as to what she wants. dont stick around for her bs, seriously!

sweet~kandy · #18 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

I dunno what to say.

Tommy Zek, me and you have an identical situation.

tommy_zex · #19 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

ya ... i was thinking of just droppin it ... but im one those ppl thats really picky when it comes to a g/f ... been fukked over too many times ...
so when i do find someone i usully dont give up... espectilly since i know she is intrested ... but this has been dragin on too long... im conflicted

flipmat · #20 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

I think you should keep chillin wit her as much as you can and just wait it out.. things always happen for a reason.. so maybe this will all let up within the next week or a month.. u never know.. eventually something will let up, either she dumps him or you find the next girl you wanna be wit.. just be urself and wait it out i think...

i'm in a situation simular cuz I am REALLY picky on girls and I ain't really attrackted to go out with many of them.. but with this girl i see a complete connection that i could get along with and I would love it if things work out.. all i can do is wait and dream until things turn my way.. till then, shit happens

{dC!} · #21 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

Whoz the girl Tommy ...

Is it Chelsy?

lol!

tommy_zex · #22 (**permalink**) Aug 15, 04

donn worrie ....
me n chelsey r just friends ... nothin more

CodaDrummer · #23 (**permalink**) Aug 16, 04

Good GOD, people! Are you living in my HEAD!? Seriously, everything that has been said in here matches my situation so perfectly... to a T, actually.

Crazy stuff.

{dC!} · #24 (**permalink**) Aug 16, 04

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Originally Posted by tommy_zex

donn worrie ....
me n chelsey r just friends ... nothin more

Then whoz the girl?

pinkpanther · #25 (**permalink**) Aug 16, 04

Fuck I hate being in this position, i know how you feel Im in the same place...sort of, a bit different because its the guy that has another, he wants to fuck around but still has feelings for me? psh fuck that