do u have sex only if you're in love?

krisamata · #1 (**permalink**) Sep 05, 04

is sex just sex for you? just another name on a list of many?

or do u have to be in love?

or do u at least like/know/somewhat kinda love almost everyone you sleep with?

or?????

cheebus420 · #2 (**permalink**) Sep 05, 04

Sex for pleasure. Sex for relaxation. Infact , sex even for a workout.

Still fun.

Sex in love ... the best.

mapleleaf4ever · #3 (**permalink**) Sep 05, 04

^ What he said.

Scarface · #4 (**permalink**) Sep 05, 04

Never been "in love" so , No.

Veni*C · #5 (**permalink**) Sep 05, 04

sex for whatever... is meh....

sex in love .... best thing ever!!!!!!!!'

<3 :(

sidekick · #6 (**permalink**) Sep 05, 04

i agree with everyone else.

having sex with someone that you really care about is so much better than just "i'm horny" sex...but that can be fun too.

decypher · #7 (**permalink**) Sep 05, 04

sigh.....

Courtney · #8 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

I have definetly not always cared about who I slept with, It kinda sucks that way...

robyn · #9 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

It'd be nice to say I only had sex when I was in love, but nope, not even close!

{SiNcErE} · #10 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

Now that i know what its like to sleep with somebody Im in love with I wouldn't really go back. Love takes time though the person would need to have serious potential for me to fall in love with if i just couldnt wait.

Jen-E-03 · #11 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

I would hafta say I like/kno/sumwut want the person I'm guna be gettn freaky with :D

SteveO13 · #12 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

fuck no cuz for sumpeople it takes them there whole life to find that person, sum may not even that 1 or they might findsum pretty damn close to the best and find a way to work it out. U gotta take chances in life or else u'll go know where really everythings as chance so hell ya have sex dont wait for luv u might not find it or u will and not no it and jus throw it or watch it slide away and then spend ur time wonderin if jus if ....

But ya sex is sex and luv is luv 2 totally diff topics 2 very good 1's though

nuf_dawg · #13 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

Quote:

Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~

sex for whatever... is meh....

sex in love .... best thing ever!!!!!!!!'

<3 :(

sex is fun u release sum peace n :D

mojo · #14 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

i dont think i could even get it up for a women i didnt care about.

call me old fashioned, but sex is intimate, and not something to do with some hood rat that you meet at the bar.

and ya, having sex, or dare i say making love with someone you love is amazing.

frankie_V · #15 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

sex is gooooooooooood!.... but i guess u get more of the feeling from it ( true feeling ) when ur in love.... sex is goood

bob · #16 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

sometimes you don't know if you like someone until you stick your dink in them OK

MissBehavior · #17 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

To answer the first question, no, I haven't been in love with every person I've had sex with. With the exception of 2 people however, I've had some sort of a relationship with all of them. It may have just been friends, it may have been mutual interest, and yes, in three cases it was love.

There is nothing in the world like making love to someone you are in love with.

Candy-Kid · #18 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

for me no. i mean love... thats a little strong.

ppcock · #19 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

what is the translation of "love" in llama?

baaaaaaaa aa a a a abaaaa?

REEERROOOREEEERROOOO
*spit*spit*spit*

BLAAAAAAWOOOOOLAAAABLOOWW!!

what is it candy? WHAT IS IT!?!?

miss.myra · #20 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

Hey you sappy jerks, we all know MAKING LOVE with someone you LOVE is fantastic, but that doesn't have much to do with the actual question being asked.

To answer the question, no. I don't exactly give out sex like there's a cupon special on myra or anything, but I won't deny that I've probably slept with some people I wasn't exactly head over heels with. Of course it's not as good as someone you're 'in love' with and you know really well, but I think it can be good in different ways- it can be exciting.

Has anyone here ever slept with someone they hated? I have!

Prissypants · #21 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

hmmm...Well I've had bad sex with people I've loved and great sex with people I barely knew...and vice versa...So for me sex is just sex, it makes no difference whether I love the person or not...It all depends on what kind of talent they bring to the situation...

booshka · #22 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

Quote:

Originally Posted by miss.myra

Has anyone here ever slept with someone they hated? I have!

does it count if you started to hate them after thye deed was done?

To answer the original question, I only like to give out poon to guys I think there's a possible relationship with....and for the most part that's what has happened ;)

heatherness · #23 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

i think sex is good in general.

fuck love.

:(

PwInCeSs · #24 (**permalink**) Sep 06, 04

^^haha werd^^

zarlon · #25 (**permalink**) Sep 07, 04

not every person i've been with, but lately the trend has been that if there's no strong feeling attatched, there ain't no play.