Sex

[Lady Dame]

I don't understand why people have to put such an emotional attachment to sex. It's really just two people satisfying each other in ways they can't possibly on thier own. So fucking what!?

[Akeel]

:)

[thumper]

You don't honestly mean that.

[IntakE]

thats so true tho...sex doesnt always have to mean something, obivously it does at somepoint but not all the time....

[flailin*fairy]

well it all depends on the situation.... i think sex means a lot, and its a big factor in a relationship, but of coarse its not everything... but i think if you cant have good sex, you cant have a good relationship........ also i think sex is more important to girls then it is guys.... but didnt you realise that the chemicals that produce in your head while having sex make you fall in love, its a mating thing.... so yah sex does mean a lot, and if it doesnt then odviously your a slut, and i'm going to admit this right now, about a year ago i would have agreed with you in saying sex is nothing, becuase i was a slut.... but now i've cleaned up and i realise that sex is really important and it should only be shared with a person you really care about

[ebbomega]

First of all, there's a whole forum for this subject.

Secondly...
"There's fucking and there's making love. There's a time and place for both."
- ][nkster

[Partizan]

as everyone knows ... or everyone should know .. theres 2 types of sex

"fucking" and "making love" .. theres a difference

[IntakE]

Originally Posted by flailin*fairy

well it all depends on the situation.... i think sex means a lot, and its a big factor in a relationship, but of coarse its not everything... but i think if you cant have good sex, you cant have a good relationship........ also i think sex is more important to girls then it is guys.... but didnt you realise that the chemicals that produce in your head while having sex make you fall in love, its a mating thing.... so yah sex does mean a lot, and if it doesnt then odviously your a slut, and i'm going to admit this right now, about a year ago i would have agreed with you in saying sex is nothing, becuase i was a slut.... but now i've cleaned up and i realise that sex is really important and it should only be shared with a person you really care about

I dont think sex means nothing, but in some situations sex doesnt mean as much as others..... sex is always better if its with someone you care about because it shows love and content. Im not a slut but I think that there are times when sex is just for fun and not going towards a relationship or anything.

[mux]

Originally Posted by Partizan

as everyone knows ... or everyone should know .. theres 2 types of sex

"fucking" and "making love" .. theres a difference

I disagree, but not fully. I think there's one more.

My girlfriend of six years, with whom I'm totally, completely in love - we fuck all the time. We also make love, tho a little less frequently. Without a doubt there is a difference between 'fucking' and 'making love', but the third is 'fucking the one you love'. Just because you're head-over-heels for someone, it doesn't mean you can't still have the dirty, freaky, fast-and-hard on a picnic table somewhere.

Believe me, 'fucking the one you love' is miiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiles above fucking someone you have no solid emotional attachment to. Love makes sex a billion times better.

[Partizan]

yeah i agree with that ... i didnt specify that u "make love" with one person and "fuck" a different person .. it could be the same person ..

[dabbler]

i agree with the three types, however
even "fucking" someone means something. and readily fucking people who you are not at least somewhat emotionally attached to, makes you a slut
(that goes for guys too)

[TipSy]

Originally Posted by IntakE

thats so true tho...sex doesnt always have to mean something, obivously it does at somepoint but not all the time....

totally agree..

[TipSy]

i think it hurts more though if u care about that "someone" but they dont have the same feelings back..and its jus sex to them..but its more to u

[nuf_dawg]

sex is sex either its love like true luv or just a simple bootycall

[miss.myra]

Wow! What a sexually liberated attitude for a girl to have! How rare! YOU GO GIRL! :p

[bebu*funfun]

wow.. extremly rare.

dont cuddle after sex.. if u do ure screwed.

[dabbler]

so totally not rare, it's not even funny!

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by dabbler

so totally not rare, it's not even funny!

..psst Jay, I was totally being sarcastic.. :p

[dabbler]

hahahaha, ok, it's hard to read sarcasm when i'm this hurtin! lol

[mapleleaf4ever]

Can't we all just fuck and get along? :p

[{dC!}]

There should be alot more casual sex now adays ;):)

[rav3r gurl]

hooray for casual sex!

[Partizan]

if u want alot of casual sex just move to europe

[Lady Dame]

but sometimes you know you only want a one night stand and the person doesnt get the point and calls you all the time thinking it was overly special to them...

thats lame!
i think it should be a mutual understanding if it is going to lead to meaning more in the future, where as the moment is just a moment for the aid of another... its not like you have to be in love right after you sleep with someone.

or friends that can just sleep together purly for "you scratch my back,ill scratch yours" situations.
no jelousy, no hurt feeling, no drama, and its win/win situation.

-ya dig?

[BAL1STOPHER]

as method man put it "only thing better than some pussy, thats some new pussy"..


i bet i get bad karma for this