bad karma with guys?

[björkish]

so I am not calling this guy I went on a few dates with because I'm not into him for many reasons. I figure I don't have to be blunt and give him some one line excuse so I just won't answer his phone calls.

this guy i met on halloween was all high and following me around and gave me his email to add to msn.I didn't want to be rude so I was nice and said I would add him.but I didn't. why bother? he creeped me out and the last thing I want is him calling me the next time he's in town

I also met a guy who I really liked who asked me for my number and lives near me...we hung out quite a bit that night and hit it off. He hasn't called me.... and I would really like him to. Also other people that I like are showing disinterest all of a sudden in the past few days.
I can't help but think these things are related.

I wonder if someones trying to teach me a lesson. Maybe if I add the stalker to msn and call the other guy and make it more obvious.. then things will be all good?

any feedback?

[Luka]

Wow bjorkish nice situation :( uhmm as for advice hell just go with what you think is right.. i mean ehh what do you want more for yourself?

ps.. i know i suck at giving advice but i tryed.. :226:

[dabbler]

1.don't add a stalker
2.do only what you want
3.be patient




patience is a virtue.

trust me

[Antenna_Boy]

I know what you mean...but I met up with this person I online but found her at the rave(won't say which website ;) )..but she has not called me back although I called her like two days after halloween...

Disinterest? Maybe it is the time when they are not thinking about relationships or you put them off to too long? I dunno...let's exchange advices on this thread :)

[robyn]

Ahahaha! I used to think the exact same thing!

Turns out it wasn't karma. In reality no one I like likes me back, and I hate everyone else :(

[Antenna_Boy]

I hate you too^ :( *karma*

[crackdragon]

-dont go looking for trouble
-people do lose things like phone numbers/ be patient
-trouble finding the right person? welcome to life

[Antenna_Boy]

yes....and be polite..and always remember to swear occasionally LMAO :haha:

[björkish]

yeah I guess it's just a bit of guilt
now I definately know how the people feel who are being neglected
but I don't care enough to give them any attention
just a bit ironic

[Antenna_Boy]

Originally Posted by björkish

yeah I guess it's just a bit of guilt
now I definately know how the people feel who are being neglected
but I don't care enough to give them any attention
just a bit ironic

pay attention to meeee!!! I am just really nice :)

[björkish]

hahah
well i don't know you im talking about people i know
but anyways.. dont you know nice isn't enough to get you a girl?
well not to keep one anyways

[Antenna_Boy]

I know..but it was the thought that counts :( I go and sit in a corner and think about what I just said :mexitoke:

[hardstylin]

hmm the whole msn thing is nothing anyone i hangout with a parties for any lenght of time chicks or dudes i always give them my hotmail not cause i want to mack them that just what u do at raves thats how u make friends hahaha, and it works good i have friends that ive met at raves all over b.c. and when im in town we party and shit its sweet!! but ya if hes all creepy about it then dont add him!!!

[björkish]

yeah i guess he didnt mean any harm
and hes in calgary so he cant really bolther me online
and if he does theres always the block feature
ok i added him
maybe this will make the other one call me
haha

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by robyn

Ahahaha! I used to think the exact same thing!

Turns out it wasn't karma. In reality no one I like likes me back, and I hate everyone else :(

GET OUT OF MY HEAD

Seriously, it's the same for me, the saaame for me.

[miss.myra]

ps- I think that if you're going to try to front interest on someone you're clearly not interested in, then that's a lot worse of a thing to do than not adding him to your MSN. Honesty is usually the best policy.

[G-Style]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

ps- I think that if you're going to try to front interest on someone you're clearly not interested in, then that's a lot worse of a thing to do than not adding him to your MSN. Honesty is usually the best policy.

Not usually! It's always the best policy....saves alot of headaches and heart aches down the road. This girls got da smarts!

[björkish]

"THANKS A LOT for being so gracious at the rave, fuck was I ever gone, , :) I will talk to you later hun, take care"


anyways im not trying to front interest on anyone
thats why i told him at the party that i had a boyfriend and wasnt interested
i will reiterate that since he was so gone
:P
its not exactly 100% true but close enough

[G-Style]

Violently Happy! For me that'd be an oxymoron. I can't be violent and happy.....I can be either but not at the same time.

[dabbler]

Originally Posted by björkish

"THANKS A LOT for being so gracious at the rave, fuck was I ever gone, , :) I will talk to you later hun, take care"


anyways im not trying to front interest on anyone
thats why i told him at the party that i had a boyfriend and wasnt interested
i will reiterate that since he was so gone
:P
its not exactly 100% true but close enough

that's not too bad

[Akeel]

Originally Posted by björkish

hahah
well i don't know you im talking about people i know
but anyways.. dont you know nice isn't enough to get you a girl?
well not to keep one anyways

being nice isnt enough??!?

its a good thing i'm a dj and have bags of money!

pm me OK!

[dabbler]

nice guys finish last

[Akeel]

no doubt!

good thing i'm a jerk too!

[Akeel]

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[Akeel]

noob.