Gettin' used to being alone

[-ff-]

So, ex girlfriend has been gone for about 2 weeks now.

I know it was the right thing to do - and I'm excited about where my life is going.

But at the same time, its a bit lonely too. And if I think about it too much I get sad - there was a lot of good stuff, and now its all in the past.

I think I need to stop listening to sappy music.

[sidekick]

eating a pear always makes me feel better.

it's good that you feel you made the right choice and are excited about your future. :)

maybe this is a good time to catch up on some movies you've wanted to watch or some books you've wanted to read for awhile.

[Carrie]

drink more beer.

[bungoshlung]

oy, sappy music never helps


but keep in mind that there was a reason you guys broke up. you'll find someone else soon enough (if thats what you want.. that is)

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally Posted by -ff-

So, ex girlfriend has been gone for about 2 weeks now.

I know it was the right thing to do - and I'm excited about where my life is going.

But at the same time, its a bit lonely too. And if I think about it too much I get sad - there was a lot of good stuff, and now its all in the past.

I think I need to stop listening to sappy music.

your right. sappy music is NOT a good idea when your trying to move on.

[mapleleaf4ever]

Originally Posted by Carrie

drink more beer.

Best advice in this thread! :)

[Carrie]

thanks

[Bitchin]

Yeah... Sappy music.. is probably one of the worst choices.. or any music that reminds you of them. heh.

But drink beer.
that's what I did!!
It works!

[miss.myra]

Man at first I loved the space after getting out of a three year live in relationship.


Now I'm not liking it so much, but then again, if I get in situations that are too close I am still too easily suffocated.

[-ff-]

Originally Posted by bungoshlung

(if thats what you want.. that is)

Hellllllz no!

[Crazy Dave]

Originally Posted by Carrie

drink more beer.

yea,,, what she said. If you come out to ffa's night I'll by you a beer next wednesday.

[ebbomega]

Hehehe. Myra 'n' me were semi-talking about this earlier.

It's easy to get down on it at this time of year, methinks, because it's cuddle season.

Meeeef.

[Gusto]

treasure your alone time while you can. you don't seem like a knob or anything, so i'm sure you'll end up married with kids or something one day, and alone time will be scarce. just do shit you wanna do for a while, no distractions, no responsiblities to anyone but yourself.

[ebbomega]

"99 problems, but a bitch ain't one"

Heheheheheh.

[-ff-]

Originally Posted by gusto

treasure your alone time while you can. you don't seem like a knob or anything, so i'm sure you'll end up married with kids or something one day, and alone time will be scarce. just do shit you wanna do for a while, no distractions, no responsiblities to anyone but yourself.

Yeah, I know that. Basically the reason we broke up was because I knew I needed to lean to be on my own and basically develop my own personality - we'd been together so long that she was basically my 'adult' life.

Regardless, its still sad when you say goodbye to someone who watched/helped you grow up.

[Gusto]

Originally Posted by -ff-

Regardless, its still sad when you say goodbye to someone who watched/helped you grow up.

Definately. I made it sound a lot easier than it really is.

[ebbomega]

That sucks. But try realizing that, then a few months later mention to a mutual friend that you think that 1 month was a bit short of a time for her to be back with someone else (especially when the reason the relationship started to face trouble was because she "missed being single"), it gets back to her, and she decides she doesn't ever want to talk to you again because of it.

Hein. Not my problem anymore.

[bungoshlung]

Originally Posted by -ff-

Hellllllz no!

lol.. hehe

[wum]

it's all relative. i was alone for the first 20 years of life. it was chill

[-ff-]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

That sucks. But try realizing that, then a few months later mention to a mutual friend that you think that 1 month was a bit short of a time for her to be back with someone else (especially when the reason the relationship started to face trouble was because she "missed being single"), it gets back to her, and she decides she doesn't ever want to talk to you again because of it.

Hein. Not my problem anymore.

uh...
what are you talking about?

[Gusto]

Originally Posted by -ff-

uh...
what are you talking about?

himself:)

[-ff-]

check.

[broken_angel69]

Originally Posted by -ff-

So, ex girlfriend has been gone for about 2 weeks now.

I know it was the right thing to do - and I'm excited about where my life is going.

But at the same time, its a bit lonely too. And if I think about it too much I get sad - there was a lot of good stuff, and now its all in the past.

I think I need to stop listening to sappy music.

wow! you just described exactly how i felt after i broke up with my ex. He was my first serious boyfriend and we were together for almost 2 years. There were alot of hard times where i questioned my decision but i just had to keep reminding myself that it was the right thing to do. Its been almost nine months since we broke up now and i still get that lonely feeling sometimes but i dont regret my decision at all. I have chosen to stay single ever since and ive had alot of fun just hanging out with friends and meeting new ppl.

AS for the sappy music, it doesnt hurt once in a while... just dont let it get to you too much.

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by gusto

himself:)

What he said. =)

[Gusto]

yeah, it's not all about you effeff, sometimes ebbomega wants to talk.