Whoa... just... yah...

[mapleleaf4ever]

My Best-friend just called me at work... he's all like I've got some Bad News. With him I'm just thinking he's out of Chronic or something. Turns out his Baby that was born in November died last night. Fuck... what a shocker... How do you empathize with something like that?! I gave him and his ex my best. But still... I hate when there's that awkward moment when you have no idea what to say at all.

[Carrie]

thats horrible =( babies shouldn't die.

do you know what happened?

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Thats so terrible:(When something like that happens,there isnt realy much you can say,and not much you can do but be there to be a shoulder to cry on.

fuck thats rough.

[Bitchin]

That rough Erik, all you can do is be a freind that he can turn to, if it's needed.

[mapleleaf4ever]

Originally Posted by Carrie

thats horrible =( babies shouldn't die.

do you know what happened?

He said he thinks it was S.I.D.S.

Jovi: Yah... that about what I said... "I'm here... come have a Beer and chill." Not much else I can do. It's an annoying feeling when things are beyond my control or influence.

[klockwize]

thats horrible...im so sorry to hear that


i might be wrong but,i heard that "S.I.D.S" is a reason for death in newborns that doctors give when they dont know what really happend.

reagrdless, i give him and his family my best aswell, i cant say i know what it feels like to lose an offspring, but i know whats its like to lose someone you love, so i give my condolences

[Carrie]

Sudden Infant Death Syndrome = not sure what exactly it is.

it's really saddening.

[miss.myra]

So sad :( you don't need to say anything, you just have to be there.

[mojo]

thats terrible.
i cant imagine having that happen.

[TheCooker]

... I'm kinda speechless...this so sad, it's hard to put in words. I have a son, whois 2, who I love with every bit of strength in me body. I see kids in pain of TV and hear stories like this one, and my heart aches.
just be there

[Cdn_Brdr]

^Werd...my son is 7 and I couldn't imagine the pain I'd feel if something like that happened. That kid is my life..... it's a shame that it happened. Like everyone has said it's best just to be there and not say ANYTHING. You don't understand his pain and hopefully never will.... just be a friend.

[galaxie]

:(

Sorry to hear that Erik.
Carrie's right, babies shouldn't die...hope you feel better soon dude.

[*PooKie*]

wow.... that must have been a real shock to you.... i know the feeling where you wish you could say the perfect thing to make them feel better... but sumtimes there's no words that can help