Coping with death.

[Anjew]

I've been feeling the same sorrow I felt when you passed away.
I visit you as much as I can.
I sing to you.
I kneel to you.
I cry to you.
Knowing that nothing will bring you back.
I listen to the same song that echoed the chapel the last day I saw you.
I look at your picture every morning and wonder how could God take you away.
I stare into the heavens knowing that you are smiling upon us all and wishing us the best.
I miss you.

I've never felt this much pain through a death. I've gone through a bunch of deaths. None have impacted me as much as this. This is a feeling I've never felt before.

[galaxie]

:(

I know how you feel.
I lost my Dad when I was 15 - it's easier than it was then, but not a day goes by when I don't want to break down and cry.

*hugs*

[brokencrayon]

Originally Posted by galaxie

:(

I know how you feel.
I lost my Dad when I was 15 - it's easier than it was then, but not a day goes by when I don't want to break down and cry.

*hugs*

yeah same here except I was 14 when my dad died. I still haven't really accepted it and come to terms with it all... like I know he is gone but sometimes I still forget that he won't be coming back. weirdest feeling ever when the reality hits. =\

[Jblaze]

Times like these are rough
my grandmas funeral was yesterday, she had cancer n got real sick the day after I left on vacation n never did recover. I cut my trip short by 2 weeks 2 come back and see her but by the time I got back she couldnt even talk anymore. Hard 2 deal with but what can you do, life goes on.

[*K*i*t*t*e*n*]

Losing someone you truly care about is soo hard, as time goes on itll get easier, I remember when I was 14 like 5 family members died in like 6 months it was soo harsh but now its a little easier, I jsut wish I could see them *hugs*

[Behn]

losing some one who you care for is hard. When i was 12 my mom died and i would say it definalty has changed me.I still don't know if ive completly dealt with it. It is hard to deal with, but it will work out in the end:D. Best wishes...

[veN]

My condolences, Anjew. I get super choked up or even cry when I pass by the cemetary where my grandmother is. Or when I think about my summer job and the kids I have known who have passed away. Death is something that is really hard to deal with... It's always going to be sad. :(

[James]

i know just what you are going through....my mom died 2 day before christmas this past year(so 3 weeks ago)....i may not look or act it, but im not the same inside

[Belms]

im fortunate enough to not have lost someone close to me, but my dog died yesterday and i was sad for the rest of day at work. I cant even imagine the pain i would feel if one of my family members passed away.

[mugsy]

i dealing with loosing right now, and trying to embrace the impact of loss.
i cant begin to imagine what it is like or what it will be like.

i dont think my condolences are enough, but you do have them.

[sungoo]

"acceptance can take a lot of different forms
whether it's ok to show your soft side every once in a while
or accepting someone you love just the way they are.
but in the end the most important thing to accept is that no matter how alone you may feel,
how painful it may be
with the help of those around you,
you'll get through this too"