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Masterbation: I have tried. Believe me, i have. I even got a $70 9'Vibrator with a cyber skin cover from my X. I just cant do it! I think too much. It grosses me out and i start thinking negatively.
example: : "You're toucing yourself!!" it just seems so pathetic for some reason.. like, why cant you get someone to do it for you? This concept always fucks with my concentration. i've tried candles in the bath, porn movies, they get me wet, but not off. Seriously...FUCKING GHEY! |
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Why does someone have to do it for you? By no means is it pathetic for anyone to masturbate. It's safe, it feels good and gets the job done. Nothing pathetic about it. Besides you should be able to get yourself off better than anyone else out there.
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^hi we`re not in highschool anymore:)
Crystal,why deprive yourself of something so good just because you arent within the confines of a relationship?Sex can still be fucking amazing even with someone you dont give a damn about,and sure it might not make you feel the best but thats something youre going to have to get over.It takes time to find a quality piece of man meat that is the relationship kind,why in the meantime subject yourself to this insanity?! As for masturbation,the thought of it being dirty is something that can work both to your advantage....and disadvantage like youve said. ;)Try to make it work to your advantage, you`ll nut like you wouldnt beleive! But if youre unwlling to try my advice go see a therapist,this is starting to sound like a case of a-sexuality. |
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What I love about this thread is all the people throwing around the word 'slut'
so from what I gather, because not everyone I have slept with (esp. recently, and no, there is not a TON of people, I've probably slept w/ less people than the name callers) I haven't been in a 'serious relationship' with, this makes me a slut. okay, so highschool called... |
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i don't think it's a problem to not be in a serious relationship, you just kinda have to at least like them. as opposed to sleeping with pretty much anyone you can, purely for the sex. |
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for one to feel shame in doing something wrong is perfectly normal, it is NOT a social construct, as lesbian feminists will try to tell you. it means that the Holy Spirit is working within you if you're still horny, you could do something they call sublimation. it's when you focus your energies towards something else, like exercise or beating up people. hope that helps |
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But this no sex thing is driving me insane. But I guess i'm willing to do it... Just hope something falls in my lap soon! and it better not be a fucking player. |
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