Sexual Frustrations

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by wum

uhh.. don't listen to her.

for one to feel shame in doing something wrong is perfectly normal, it is NOT a social construct, as lesbian feminists will try to tell you. it means that the Holy Spirit is working within you

if you're still horny, you could do something they call sublimation. it's when you focus your energies towards something else, like exercise or beating up people.

hope that helps

How does baby Jesus feel about masturbation?

I guess it makes him cry eh?

[Sarah...]

though not having sex may drive you insane,
having meaningless sex will make you even more insane...
no sex is better than bad sex
for me at least

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by Angel

GOD! i wish i was one of those people who could actually mentally live with the sex and no strings rule.

I thought you were one of those people. Didn't you start a thread off once by saying.....

"I don't understand why people have to put such an emotional attachment to sex. It's really just two people satisfying each other in ways they can't possibly on thier own. So fucking what!?"

[Courtney]

Originally Posted by ssarahh

though not having sex may drive you insane,
having meaningless sex will make you even more insane...
no sex is better than bad sex
for me at least

i definetly agree...

[Crazy Dave]

Originally Posted by ssarahh

though not having sex may drive you insane,
having meaningless sex will make you even more insane...
no sex is better than bad sex
for me at least

Spoken from the wise words of woman... but it's funny how works the other way for guys.

[Courtney]

Originally Posted by Rhianna

I thought you were one of those people. Don't you start a thread off once by saying.....

"I don't understand why people have to put such an emotional attachment to sex. It's really just two people satisfying each other in ways they can't possibly on thier own. So fucking what!?"

HI.WHATCHA DOING?

[Rhianna]

^NOTHING!

[Courtney]

me to, i just got back from the coffee cup

[Bitchin]

Originally Posted by ssarahh

though not having sex may drive you insane,
having meaningless sex will make you even more insane...
no sex is better than bad sex
for me at least

Just cause it meaningless doesn't mean it'll drive you insane. Some people have booty calls, and you dont see them goin insane because it's meaningless. They just need a some dick thats all.

but that's just IMO.

[dabbler]

Originally Posted by Crazy Dave

Spoken from the wise words of woman... but it's funny how works the other way for guys.

works the same for me.

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by Crazy Dave

Spoken from the wise words of woman... but it's funny how works the other way for guys.

I keep meeting more and more guys that aren't down w/ the random sex.

[Courtney]

Originally Posted by Bitchin

Just cause it meaningless doesn't mean it'll drive you insane. Some people have booty calls, and you dont see them goin insane because it's meaningless. They just need a some dick thats all.

but that's just IMO.

yeah but a lot of the time guys are just using you and dont really care if ure enjoying it..im sure theres an exceptions...

[Bitchin]

Girls use guys too you know!!!

Girls are actually worse at it.. oi.
I hear about it from my guy friends all the time.

[Lady Dame]

Rhianna, i do recall saying that, but it wasnt along the lines of having sex with one partner then moving on. It was about how its not wrong to enjoy another persons body.
I guess you misunderstood.
As far as the emotional attachment, just because you sleep with someone does not mean you need them to be your significant other, it just ment, dont get all fussy when they are not giving you all their mental emotional time.

Not, "Hey! its alright to fuck people randomly, your just getting off." it was a little more significant than that.


Val: As far as getting over it, the masterbation problem is something that i probably should get checked out. It is most likely a self esteem thing.
Even though i am waiting for Mr.P, i doubt i can sleep with all the guys i date, even just to get off. It not worth it.

and i guess i will start a man hunt tonight at the Lotus, except this Tuesday will be more of a flirt thing then a social scenster night.
Dabbler is right, i guess i just need to get out there, do the filtration thing until i find a gooder!

Starting new relationships, especially with the hindsight of a longterm relationship, it just seems almost hopless. SOoo much time to put into someone to get that far, just to have it equal a "life experience" seems like sush a waste of your mental energy for a broken heart.

[Crazy Dave]

Originally Posted by Angel

Starting new relationships, especially with the hindsight of a longterm relationship, it just seems almost hopless. SOoo much time to put into someone to get that far, just to have it equal a "life experience" seems like sush a waste of your mental energy for a broken heart.

Because we all know you will find true love at bars or in the groups of ravers.

[Lady Dame]

i go to bars with that in the back of my mind, why wouldnt there be anyone else out there thinking like me?
Trust me, its harder to bump into some your physically interested in on the street and ask for their number then it is to have some liquid courage to talk to someone and see if they're pure, so you know to move on or not.

And Dave, you of all Ravers should know the lonliness of this life. The many faces that pass you by and the names you can never remeber.
Ravers need love too you know.

[dabbler]

you know, it would take someone REALLY amazing for me to walk up
to them, and introduce myself. like REEEALLLY AMAZING.
so i normally rely on clubs and circles of friends to meet people.
it's easier for sure, cause you have a reference point
to what kind of people they are hanging out with when you meet them.
but at the same time, i never go to clubs with that thought in mind.
i just meet people through my everyday life (which happens to include clubs)
it's far better to go somewhere with meeting people for friendships in mind,
and if you happen to meet someone really special, then it's an added bonus.

[Lady Dame]

Originally Posted by dabbler

you just gotta find someone you can like. get out and meet people.:)

so much easier said then done though.

i guess i am just too picky. The perfect dnb boy only comes around once in a while.
Its not even physical apperance either, i have always been attracted to the nerdy, witty, self styled audio types who can uphold a conversation about philosophy and topics of our shared personal interests.
music, movies, art, politics, music, conspiricy, corpotate pollution, music, experiences.
i like the ones with back bone and that can keep me on my toes! and correct me on my aweful spelling!

wow. maybe i should look into the personals section and see what i can find!?!


edit: Kelster, do you know something i dont?

[Crazy Dave]

Originally Posted by Angel

And Dave, you of all Ravers should know the loneliness of this life. The many faces that pass you by and the names you can never remember.
Ravers need love too you know.

I'm kinda confused... that stament seams so plain but yet loaded at the same time.

Me lonely, meh I beg for people to leave me alone. (at the same time I forget to make plans with some people I wanted to get to know)
Forget people's names... my bad. Heck I'm starting to forget faces now; the brain is too full.

[Crazy Dave]

Originally Posted by Angel

so much easier said then done though.

i guess i am just too picky. The perfect dnb boy only ....correct me on my aweful spelling!

Dam I lost out in the first and last stament, but did well in all the middle. Hhahhahaa *ROFL*

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

AMEN SISTAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*snaps*

i think i miht be able to help you out :)

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by Angel

Rhianna, i do recall saying that, but it wasnt along the lines of having sex with one partner then moving on. It was about how its not wrong to enjoy another persons body.
I guess you misunderstood.

I'm glad we cleared that up.

I did misunderstand.

[Revolver]

Originally Posted by Angel

The perfect dnb boy only comes around once in a while.
Its not even physical apperance either, i have always been attracted to the nerdy, witty, self styled audio types who can uphold a conversation about philosophy and topics of our shared personal interests.
music, movies, art, politics, music, conspiricy, corpotate pollution, music, experiences.

*gulp*

[hardstylin]

i love the lotus...i can not fucking wait to party there again!!

[dabbler]

Originally Posted by revolver

*gulp*

hahaha