feeling guilty.....

[~snow*white~]

i feel really bad now cuz my plan was to go to toronto for school in september when i'm done gr 12. my rents know and some of my aunts that don't live here and they are all cool with it. but i told my uncle who lives here and then he told my grandparents and my aunts as well and they are all like "no no don't go to toronto for school. stay here.....get accepted to sfu or something just don't go away." like this is the family i pretty much grew up with and always saw like everyday and now i'm movin away and i feel really bad leaving them. i'm like the only gurl out of the grandkids and the youngest as well. i really wanna go to toronto for school but i dont wanna leave my entire family for it cuz they don't want me to. now i'm like kinda having doubts about going away......... :219:

[kiMMie]

My opinion is to go... if you really had your heart set on going. I know you feel terrible for leaving loved ones and friends behind, but it's a step you have to take for yourself. If the school offers you something that you need for the future, I say go for it.

You can't let people make your choices for you. You'll be an adult, and you should make the adult decision to go, don't you think? If you pick Toronto, I'm sure they won't love you any less.

[stabmyhead]

they'll die in a few years.. think for yourself/your future.

meh.

[dj4mula]

~snow*white~ saidi feel really bad now cuz my plan was to go to toronto for school in september when i'm done gr 12. my rents know and some of my aunts that don't live here and they are all cool with it. but i told my uncle who lives here and then he told my grandparents and my aunts as well and they are all like "no no don't go to toronto for school. stay here.....get accepted to sfu or something just don't go away." like this is the family i pretty much grew up with and always saw like everyday and now i'm movin away and i feel really bad leaving them. i'm like the only gurl out of the grandkids and the youngest as well. i really wanna go to toronto for school but i dont wanna leave my entire family for it cuz they don't want me to. now i'm like kinda having doubts about going away.........

Don't pass up an opportunity like this. I have a few friends in T.O, , they said its hard, but its well worth it. Also, if you don't like it, you can always come home. There is ICQ and other ways of communication. Don't forget Thanksgiving, Summer and Christmas holiday. Plenty of opportunities to see family again.

Also, you can show me around T.O. I need a tour guide. :Power-P:

[sungoo]

I agree with stabby.
I mean if they wanted the best for you, they'd probably tell you to go to toronto but it just sounds like they're being selfish.

[Trinity]

If your family loved you, they would accept your decision and not try and hold you back from living the life that you want. This is an opportunity to do something more with your life, to be successful... take it. You will see your family again eventually.

I'm moving to England for a couple of years this summer, and at first, my mother wasn't sure if she liked me going... but she realized that it's the best thing for me if I decide it is, and now she's kewl with it :).

*demented hugz*
~ Trinity ~

[kersed]

you know what?

i was gonna do that exact same thing. my dad lives out there, and he always tells me about my options over there. i've always wanted to go there cause i really didnt like living out here (for lotsa reasons). plus thats where i came from.
friends told me to stay here, my one half of family is here, friends are, and all connections and everything is here. i just graduated this past summer and was gonna go in sept. instead i listened to friends, i stayed. the first few months i regretted it, but in the end, now, i am sooooooo happy i didnt move, cause i would still be out of a job (getting a job out there is alot harder than here), and starting over with everything is quite stressful. i had to do it once when i moved out here, and i dont think i would go through that again. so just really think about things like that.
one friend of mine went to school there, and he so regretted going all that way!!!!!! hes coming back this april.
so before making your decision, really consider all the facts before actually going out there. are you really going there for the right reasons, or is it just cause you wanna go somewhere different? consider just going to visit for a month instead, see how you like it.

well, good luck on your choice, and i hope whatever it is turns out great :500:


jules.

[~snow*white~]

thanks you guys..............i've thought about it like alot and my decision is to go to toronto to study for school. i was thinkin why would i want to stay here and study something that i don't have ne interest in? i'd rather be somewhere where i do have interest in. my moms side of the family lives in toronto so i still have family but not the ones that know me so well up to now.......i'll for sure come back...........but right now my decision is hopefully to go to toronto b/c i need to get away from alot of stuff here and start fresh over there. but there are my friends still here...........its still about 5 months away till i end gr 12 so i decide from there.........*hugz* to you all to help me make my decision!

[bigmike]

what school are you going to?