running into people from the past.

[krisamata]

so i ran into someone that had been quite significant in my past a few years ago.


i didnt really know how to react or what to say. it was a shock.

the last time we even exchanged words at all, they weren't kind ones. i missed him for so long, even though he hurt me, but i understood why he did, and i got past it.


i think about him every now and again, and i saw him 2 years ago just in passing


but today as i sat in a place i didnt know he worked at...he came right up to me and started talking, and the rush of emotion at the time was kinda overwhelming.

i still cant stop thinking about it. we didnt exchange contact info or anything. i think its for the best. its just driving me crazy that i cant get him off my mind


(and no he wasnt an ex-b/f, just an ex-friend)

[dabbler]

you know, those moments should change your life. even in just how you react to future friends. you know now how much some people can truly mean to you, and hopefully you learn to not let them get away from you ever again.

[mapleleaf4ever]

I ran into a friend from Cadets I hadn't seen in about 4 years this morning on my way to work. Turns out she lives like 3 buildings away.

[Only_Glory]

i have a story that kinda relates to this as well so i kinda know what you mean krisamata
i once had this crush for many years and she was a few years older than me. i have never really talked to her, but i listened to her talk and walk, flow and the whole shebang. it was some kind of strange love.
one day me and my girlfriend at that time were walking and i was telling her about this major crush, and as we enter the place of our destination, there she is, comes out, comes to me and says hi. i was exploding with emotion didnt know what to feel lol. i talked to her for a bit, and saw her a few times more, i fell for her even more. but then she was lost forever.

[~lazee_grrl~]

on sunday night after this tsunami benefit performance i was in...i stood outside waiting for my mom to come out..and this guy comes up to me and starts saying..u were great up there jen..and i was thinking..who the hell is this guy...
he ended up being someone i totally loved in highschool...the all around fun guy who would run down the hall screaming, doing cartwheels, and ending in the splits..totally did not expect him to even be in the country...so it was cool to see him there..totally made my day!

[wum]

it's kinda cool to run into that old someone. 4 years ago i had a major falling out with a very good friend and we hadn't spoken in a long time. a few months ago i was just chilling at the sushi bar at Shabusan and i felt an arm on my shoulder and when i turned around and saw who it was, all the ruminations, bitterness, angst, etc. about our past pretty much instantly disappeared. It was also quite 'overwhelming.'

he told me how he had gotten married and everything and i was glad. it's kinda funny how things work out. it doesn't matter what kind of history you might have with someone, bad or good, it still counts for something and you're tied together in that way.

[krisamata]

^^^ very well said


ya our history was great, until the last few days we ever spoke.

and i cant stop thinking about him...i miss him, but i dont know if he's someone that i should have back in my life.

[wum]

Originally Posted by krisamata

^^^ very well said


ya our history was great, until the last few days we ever spoke.

and i cant stop thinking about him...i miss him, but i dont know if he's someone that i should have back in my life.

forgive and forget

[Jeaninah]

Originally Posted by krisamata

^^^ very well said


ya our history was great, until the last few days we ever spoke.

and i cant stop thinking about him...i miss him, but i dont know if he's someone that i should have back in my life.

thats something only you can figure out

[krisamata]

Originally Posted by wum

forgive and forget

oh i know. i've forgiven...it was so long ago, and the curcumstances were much different then...


as for the forgot...we'll see.


and i dont know if he's changed...if he has and is willing to have a friendship again then i think i would. i wanna walk back into his work and give him my number....