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Feb 20, 05
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worst day of my life
why... i just broke up with my girlfriend ... 2 years we have been together... i dont really now why we did this but i think its to see what we each want from ourselves.. i cant give her what she needs .. this sucks because everything is fine between us... it seems so wrong to do this... i feel like freakin out right now .. i dont know what to do with myself...
arharharhagrarhara :( :( 
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Feb 21, 05
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You will never do as much growing with her as you will by yourself. Separating yourselves from each other is growth in itself. A mixed blessing for sure. Like Jaymie said, if it's meant to be, you guys will find each other again. This is just not the right time/place in your lives to be together I guess. If you get to know yourself (without her) better, then you will be in better shape for your next relationship, whether it's with her or someone else. Enjoy this opportunity to be selfish and do whatever it is that you want. You get to focus on and put yourself first for probably the first time in a long time. All you have to worry about is yourself. And that's exactly what you need to be doing: Worry about yourself now an the rest will come later. Take what you've gained and learned from that relationship with her and add it to your personal repetoire. It's yours to cherish and use. You have much, much more to add to it though...
Good luck!
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Feb 21, 05
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This is love......... Omg, i feel for you man, and i say this with complete confidence, cuz i just broke up with my gf of two years as well, this is insane, cuz i provided a little too much for her, i was so good to her and i quote her saying "You do too much for me and i treat you like shit, you desserve better...." She was sad and started crying but i took it pretty well cuz....well she wasnt exactly that good to me, i dont get it, like 2 days before valentines day, she seemed a little down due to problems at home with the parents.....so i try to comfort her you know head on my shoulder and all and i suggest a nice romantic dinner to cheer her up! She didnt sound like she fancied it so i suggest sending her to a spa so she can relax! yet the reply i got was this "I would rather you buy me shoes..." >_< sometimes i dont get it, youre nice to her and all yet she just stomps you..........this was the weirdest break up ever, i have feelings for her still but.....im better off without the stress she causes me, i provide yet i get nothing back...and i dont mean sexually cuz whenever i do complain, she just takes me to the bedroom....i dont comply and it pissed me off even more.......man im sorry to hear and here i am listening to my blues.......hoping for a better tomorrow..... Last edited by xxViceRoyxx; Feb 21, 05 at 02:01 AM.
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Feb 21, 05
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Hey Man, all in good time. You'll be fine... like Mike said... just drop me a line. There's lots of Beer around here.
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Feb 21, 05
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werd....... im sure ill be alright.... it just takes a bit of time.....
i just need to whine and bitch for a few days or weeks... im sure it will be fine... just gotta keep myself busy Last edited by Chewy; Feb 21, 05 at 08:01 AM.
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Feb 21, 05
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Feb 21, 05
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You say that like it's nothing, and it's not. I realize it's all about 'having fun' in your early twenties, but if you've been in a long term relationship you're losing your best friend too, and that hurts.
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Feb 21, 05
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Getting out of this realtionship may be the start of a whole new you and the best thing to hit yet I PROMIS as I feel more me than ever!
Although myra is right, nothing hurts more than loosing your best freind hugs for that :( Last edited by Ree Fresh; Feb 21, 05 at 05:09 PM.
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Feb 21, 05
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yea... she was my best friend... and i still want her to be my friend. i dont want to shut her out of my life.... that would hurt even more... feels like i made a bad mistake.... i hope i made the right choice......
aragrahgrahgrhar i need to punch something. or someone... hey mojo.. you feel like walking over here... i got something i need your help with... it will only take a few seconds...
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Feb 21, 05
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Everybody wants that, and with a lot of careful work, it is possible. It hurts right now for both of you, a lot. Give it space. The next little while it's gonna be so hard not to call the person when you're really upset or happy about something or if you need help. Part of moving on after a relationship is learning to be strong and deal with this on your own. I'm not saying to completely cut them way out of your life, but understand how important space is. If you go back to old comfort zones, you run the risk of making this awkward stage a lot more ambiguous and run the risk of severing any potential friendship that could develop. Anyways, you can believe me on that, soon you'll come to a time where you'll actually enjoy the space that you now have to think about you and focus on you and all of that stuff. Go out, have fun!
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Feb 21, 05
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I assure you. I've been in the same boat, and done the same thing to someone I loved very much, now she's off with some other guy.. and there isint a day that goes by that I don't think of her. I'd say get her back now before it's too late. Sometimes you can't count on fate. It's not some fucking fairy tale. There is no wrath like a woman scorned. Last edited by neoh; Feb 21, 05 at 09:49 PM.
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Feb 22, 05
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cheers
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Feb 22, 05
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I'm sorry to hear that though...I really hope you find what you're looking for and that everything works out.
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