Am I a fair weather friend?

Courtney · #1 (**permalink**) Feb 23, 05

Ok so drugs have been a huge part of my life..I've known about 6 people who have dealt with problems..including myself..a lot of these ppl have been close to me..so 2 days ago i found out my friend who I thought was clean for like 6 months and doing totally well..is actually still doing meth...
so instead of being there for her I decided to basically tell her i think shes an idiot and that I dont want to see her until she stops being a lying drug addict.. Am I being to harsh?

Chewy · #2 (**permalink**) Feb 23, 05

no ,,, that just might be the kick in the ass she needs to fix her head.....

she will either have to choose...."drugs or her friends".....

Bitchin · #3 (**permalink**) Feb 23, 05

nope.. I've done that to many people.

and most of them quit.. because they noticed they're friends weren't gonna put up with thier shit.

Some fo them are even fnk'ers... and I'm surre they can say when they're friends cut em' off... it hurts but its burst of reality they're they're being a complete idiot.

ebbomega · #4 (**permalink**) Feb 23, 05

There becomes a point where you just have to tell them to fuck off.

I've hit it before with people with drug problems. It was after every last strain of rationality had been exhausted and drama had compounded to the point where everything blows up in everybody's face.

By that time, you really run out of love.

xxViceRoyxx · #5 (**permalink**) Feb 23, 05

I would agree with the people above, as long as youre not being a hypocrite and youre actually clean yourself.