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May 07, 05
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lol... i told her tho, but we work together, right after i told her and walked away, like 2 hours later she came to my desk, what can i say? turn around? like its harder than you think..... way easier said than done
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May 07, 05
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lol it wont be liek that at all lol, were good friends, it would look wierd, and it just wouldnt work haha, i would have to be trained on a different contract, and theres no need for that haha, you make me laff man
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May 07, 05
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yah i know man, things are gettin wierder and wierder, which is why im trying to end it, wish me luck, ill need it but thanks for all your advice
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May 07, 05
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** so ripped**
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May 07, 05
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^^MAD werd haha, understandable, thanks.
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May 07, 05
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I agree with what everybody else has said...get out and save yourself some heartache. But about the kids thing, they usually go with the more responsible and providing parent and if her husband is bringing home the bacon then he'll most likely get primary custody. So in the end she'll be unhappy as well.
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May 07, 05
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edit: I just read the last page. Its good you've decided to end it. Good luck getting over it, thats always the part I have a hard time with.
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May 07, 05
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People don't post on the internet for advice I find. They post on it to find people to agree with them. I do this too, and it's real easy to sound condescending/sarcastic/holier-than-thou online. This is just the nature of printed text I think. I know plenty of people who are currently dating otherwise married people. Heck, I'm living with one. But the situation you described from day one does not resemble these situations. It sounded like you were getting put into a position you didn't want to be in, and you were just looking for someone to tell you you were where you wanted to be and that it'll be alright. When people tell you otherwise, you feel like they're personally attacking you and your situation. This is not the case. most of the people on here don't know you and honestly couldn't care less, but given the situation told through your eyes (which is never the truth, but then again, neither is the situation told through hers or his) it just seemed like you were headed for disaster. Too many emotions for you to get involved, at least at this point.
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May 08, 05
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^^ yup, beacuse im feeling like shit right now, so feeling like shit, she just wont leave my head... all the text messages and shit, and there was a party iw ent to with some people at work and this one guy found out about this shit and was saying shit, i almost knocked him fucking in the face, i was told not to, but he went WAY overboard, i had 5 beer and 4 shots of tequila in me too, really lucky i actually didnt do anything. wizzfish knows who im talking about, he was there.
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May 08, 05
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May 08, 05
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Here's some advice for the future...Don't get involved with women who have kids. Second, don't get involved with married women. Of course if you like drama, then DO IT!!! DO IT!!! Just know this then, that light at the end of the tunnel, it's a train!
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May 08, 05
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And how many different ways can YOU spell restraining order?
I spose that's not really an option as you need to work, but technically if she keeps leaving messages on your phone and whatnot that's considered a form of harrassment, if you've told her to fuck off already. This sucks, dude. I feel for you. Best advice I have is DO NOT FEED THE TROLLS. She's attention-starved and the more you react to her the more she'll keep bugging you about it. Ignore her messages. Don't answer your phone if it's her. If she does call again, just hang up on her. Leave her be and eventually she'll go away. It sucks, but honestly, the more you let her play her game the more she'll keep playing it. Silliness, Dave "99 problems...." Leckie
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May 08, 05
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What problems she maybe gets the fuckin hint that she is puttin him in a situation he doesnt wanna be in best bet is to burry this shit under a big ass rock.. Ohh and workers gossip buddy its gonna happen I do it at my work to and I laugh at the people who get angry about it. Here is a thought dont boink co workers specially when ya managment hehehe our sales manager is a horrible horrible guy..
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May 08, 05
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dunno, like i dont want to hate her, she is an awesome person......... i just hate the situation, im not going to charge her or change my numbers, shes not some psycho bitch... she knows where I am right now in my life because of all this and she feels bad about it..... you guys have the wrong impression on her.... fuck i feel like shit:( i just dunno anymore, makes me want to do coke, like that will fix everything, but it wont, fuck i quit drugs i cant let this drag me back in, and believe me, its not that he said it, he told a bunch of people, while i was there, and called her shit and he went overboard, WAY overboard. you dont know him, ask wizzfish though, he knows how overboard he was, he was there.
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May 08, 05
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hahahah your fucked in the head.. She doesnt feel bad if she felt bad she would just dropp it not MSG you and call you all the time and I probably would of said the same shit. She is a being a bitch if after the fact you told her whats what and she cant get it through her head.. I mean really if this is making you think about drugs do ya think maybe more drastic measures should be taken..
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