She's so wonderful. But..

[NightKids888]

She's the kind of girl who's so nice to everyone, and I'm falling for her. WEll she knows I like her too. She broke up with her bf over a month ago and she didn't tell me until last week when the subject came up. Maybe she didn't tell me cuz she knows i like her and needed some time to heal, or maybe she didn't tell me cuz she didn't want me to ask her out. whether it's one or the other, according to the fact that's she's so wonderful to everyone, i don't wanna be falling for her for the wrong reasons. We are really good friends and I dunno if she has many other friends like that, cuz i never asked about her personla things. anyone knows what i can do to find out if she feels the same for me or not?

[rawb]

you're overthinking it and doomed to failure.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

uhhh,so lemme get this straight.Youre REALLY GOOD FRIENDS,but you never ask her any personal things...and THEN you wanna know how you can find out how she feels about you?!

youre fucking kidding me right?I suggest you continue playing with your gi joes until youre mentally capable of coming out of the sandbox sweetums.

[ebbomega]

Friends first. More later.

Take things as they come. I agree with Rawb. Stop thinking about it and just enjoy the times you get to spend with her. Things will evolve if they need to.

[hardstylin]

pull out ur cock and ask her what she thinks of it.

[crookedking]

back off! SHE'S MINE!

[NightKids888]

sorry for the confusion godessa, i should've been more clear. I met her at work last summer, and since work was done in octoboer, everyone parted and we now only talk on msn, except for some that live close to me i go out with them once in a while. I never asked her about her personal things i meant like I never asked her how her friends were, or go into much details about her ex. Like I wouldn't just talk about it unless the subject was brought up. Also it's becuz I've never had a friend that i can talk alot of things with, that's why for me, she's a close friend. Obviously for others might not feel the same, but I only I know. Like back in high school, there is always one person that "glows" and everyone's into. well she's like that. to top it off, I haven't seen her since october, only chat on msn frequently. I asked her out once with a bunch of friends, but she didn't feel like going cuz she doesn't get a ride, while all of us didn't get a ride either. I know you think she's a bitch, only going out with someone who can give her a ride, but i know she's not like that. She spends 3 hours on travel each day she goes to school, must be sick of it. I know becuz i spend 4 hours total per school day so it's frustrating. I also know a few more girls that won't use the public transport, somehow both their reasons being their parents don't want them to go public. now that just doesn't make sense and that pisses me off
but anyways i still talk to her online alot and i'm grateful for that and it's enough. just that if i have to watch her as she goes out with one guy after another, IF i'm not one of them, that would really kill me

[matéo]

man you think to hard!

[decypher]

You got no chance! Search for new girls and make your feelings upfront, don't spend your time dogging after one of your good friends.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

that was a heart warming story,really it was...but im still not grasping this "not asking people personal things,and being GOOD friends at the same time" concept.
Basically ,what im trying to tell you is that there is no chance in hell you guys will ever be more then "msn buddys" as a matter of fact,i seriously doubt youre going to be able to have any relationships with staying power be it a platonic one or a romantic one if you are not able to( or do not feel comfortable with) asking people personal things,for example about thier ex`s and friends :)

nawmean?!

[rawb]

you won't be able to get in there until you get over her
no one wants someone that kisses their ass
unless they're looking to take advantage of them
once you're over her, it will all work out

[yoko*]

Originally Posted by NightKids888

She's the kind of girl who's so nice to everyone, and I'm falling for her. WEll she knows I like her too. She broke up with her bf over a month ago and she didn't tell me until last week when the subject came up. Maybe she didn't tell me cuz she knows i like her and needed some time to heal, or maybe she didn't tell me cuz she didn't want me to ask her out. whether it's one or the other, according to the fact that's she's so wonderful to everyone, i don't wanna be falling for her for the wrong reasons. We are really good friends and I dunno if she has many other friends like that, cuz i never asked about her personla things. anyone knows what i can do to find out if she feels the same for me or not?

I get the feeling that this is the situation where you like her but she doesn't like you back... Whether it's because she's not ready or because she doesn't like you in *that* way, I have a feeling that if she wanted to be with you, she'd have at least mentioned that she was single.

[Moon]

Originally Posted by rawb

you won't be able to get in there until you get over her
no one wants someone that kisses their ass
unless they're looking to take advantage of them
once you're over her, it will all work out

*takes notes*

lol

good call

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally Posted by rawb

you won't be able to get in there until you get over her
no one wants someone that kisses their ass
unless they're looking to take advantage of them
once you're over her, it will all work out

yea its funny how they want you the moment you decide you dont want them. get over her, see someone else. you played your first hand wrong, so you gotta quit and start again later.

[miss.myra]

mmhmm, if you're going to act like a doormat to me, I'd walk all over you, it doesn't mean I looove you.

(also take notes.)

[ja_raul]

edit whoops

[ebbomega]

You see her, you can't touch her
You hear her, you can't hold her
You want her, you can't have her
You want to, but she won't let you
You see her, you can't touch her
You hear her, you can't hold her
You want her, you can't have her
You want to, but she won't let you

She's not so special so look what you've done, boy
She's not so special so look what you've done, boy
She's not so special so look what you've done

Now you wish she'd never come back here again
Oh, never come back here again

You see her, you can't touch her
You hear her, you can't hold her
You want her, you can't have her
You want to, but she won't let you

You see her, you can't touch her
You hear her, you can't hold her
You want her, you can't have her
You want to, but she won't let you

She's not so special so look what you've done, boy
She's not so special so look what you've done, boy
She's not so special so look what you've done

Now I'm nailed above you
Gushing from my side
It's with your sins that you have killed me
Thinking of your sins I die
Thinking how you'd let them touch you
How you'd never realise
That I'm ripped and hang forsaken
Knowing never will I rise
Again

You still see her
Oh, you hear her
You want her
Oh, you want to
You see her
You hear her
You want her
You still want to

- Franz Ferdinand, Auf Achse

[Varney Rae]

Originally Posted by rawb

you're overthinking it and doomed to failure.

Exactly. You need to not think so much and just go with it. Think about it as much as you are once she knows whats going on too.