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i don't see why someone would be in a relationship like that.
it just doesn't make sense to me. maybe my priorities are just different than others when it comes to relationships, but freedom is pretty important to me. i don't want someone telling me what i can and can't do, or trying to guilt trip me into doing what they want. it's just not a good environment, in my opinion. |
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I have it so good it's silly.... as long as I let the gf know what I'm up to I can come and go as I please. The only reason I let her know what I'm up to is respect. She does the same for me.
I do what I want when I want as long as that respect is always there. I mean bottom line is that if you want a relationship to work you have to have the freedom to do your own thing once in a while. I guess if you're going out partying without her every weekend then she has reason to get pissy but if it's a little less frequent then I don't see the problem. Last edited by Cdn_Brdr; Jul 10, 05 at 12:00 PM. |
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i have often found what girls think is fair or equal normally is concidered by the guy and his friends as being whipped.... often times the girl just wants//gets the better end of the deal....... at least it has been like that for me and my friends, they are just much better at manipulating the situations, and it isn't always negative.... Also i've found because they dont settle for much less that what they demand.
and i dont mean all this negatively it is just how i've found the situations flow. |
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Not like you haven't done things to make her feel that way though.. sometimes you make your bed, you lie in it. Sometimes s/o's can be totally irrational about that kind of thing though. I didn't go out for like two years once. |
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however, I don't think she's being too irrational, sometimes she requires more attention then usual. I just sucks, that she didn't let me go out this time. |