what to do?!?!

[frankie_V]

well i have to deal with a fucked up situation right now... nothing too serious or life threatning... but its a pain...

Would u watch a close loved one suffer and feel the pain of the situation and let them learn the life lesson?

OR

give in and help ( and i personally hate seeing people struggling in pain )

[lola_phyne]

Hey frankie. Do you think that the person would learn the lesson if you helped them? Sometimes people need to suffer.

[veN]

Do they need to learn a lesson, or do they need your help? When you know the answer to that you know what to do/not do.

[frankie_V]

well i guess both Nev.... they do need my help as well since they are struggling big time... but i want them to learn the lesson as well in a way... but its hard to determine what to do... i cant explain in words... its fucked up... but i like ur answer it narrowed it down a lot.. thanks:)

[frankie_V]

CAROLINE!! where the fuck u been... its been like 40 years since ive seen you... last time was prolly school lol... how u been.. wats new and such... what u do these days

[Pennywise]

i would show them that you care
but give them space @ the same time

[lola_phyne]

Originally Posted by franklin

CAROLINE!! where the fuck u been... its been like 40 years since ive seen you... last time was prolly school lol... how u been.. wats new and such... what u do these days

Here and there. pm me bitch or add me to msn.. phyne_9@hotmail.com

[clevich]

ya, what pennywise said. Show them that you do care, but also make sure they learn their lesson. You don't want them to repeat the past again... just shout if you wanna talk. :)

[IntakE]

Originally Posted by lola_phyne

Hey frankie. Do you think that the person would learn the lesson if you helped them? Sometimes people need to suffer.

I agree with Lola a hundred precent on this one.
Sometimes people just need to learn on their own.

[Gusto]

totally depends on the situation