Celibacy

[The Preacher]

Who else practices this and why?

[Carrie]

I enjoy my boyfriend.

[The Preacher]

Originally Posted by Carrie

I enjoy my boyfriend.

I think you misread my post, dear.

[hardstylin]

Originally Posted by The Preacher

I think you misread my post, dear.

hahaha i dont think she did, put carrier on the not list :)

[brokencrayon]

Originally Posted by Carrie

I enjoy my boyfriend.

hahaha!!!!

PS- I enjoy mine too.

[Carrie]

I didn't misread.

the bible says that marriage is to be fruitful and multiply.

I'm just practicing for the big day.

[brokencrayon]

^ lol yeah exactly... plus you gotta make sure you both have sexual chemistry and such or else you probably won't be happily married for very long. I think good sex is very important when you are in a serious relationship.

[robyn]

Are we including toys?

[Carrie]

toys by yourself.. or toys with him?

[robyn]

By yourself. If he's there it's clearly not celibacy. Unless he doesn't touch you. Celibacy is confusing.

[Carrie]

next thread.

just say no to masturbation!

[robyn]

I had a celibate friend who used to masturbate all the time. Was she doing it wrong?

[Carrie]

I think touching yourself, and touching others is wrong in his/her eyes

[brokencrayon]

here is what the dictionary says:

cel·i·ba·cy (sl-b-s)

1. Abstinence from sexual intercourse, especially by reason of religious vows.
2. The condition of being unmarried.

I always thought celibacy was to refrain from ANY sexual act, but I don't know, according to this online dictionary it is just to refrain from sexual intercourse... hrrrmmm ... either way, celibacy is no fun!

[Carrie]

what is the definition of sexual intercourse.

does it involve sex with a toy

[brokencrayon]

if it goes in, I guess it is considered intercourse... good point! all this celibacy stuff is confusing and makes no sense to me. *shurgs*

[Carrie]

I'm glad having sex isn't as confusing as not having sex

[miss.myra]

haha remember when discord did? now she's getting married. wonder how that's going to work.

[Carrie]

she might end up with a bad first night of sex.

and she doesn't know how to please her man.

[wum]

celibacy can lead to sublimation. i.e. the redirection of sexual energies toward higher things.

[junglequeen]

I enjoy my boyfriend in a non sexual way - no rolling about in the hay for us until we are married.
Our relationship is amazing because it isnt based on sex.

To each their own though. I just like it better this way.

[bungoshlung]

^ have you experienced the other way as well?

[junglequeen]

yeah so Im not saying Im celibate
Im just saying I enjoy my non sexual relationship and wish I had waited for a real love originally

[crookedking]

celibacy is for virgins.

[junglequeen]

and the only 100% effective form of birth control