letting go

[charly]

why is it so hard to do?

:014:

[Chewy]

well this is why i think it is hard

you become dependent and rely on the other person to fill in pieces of your life that were once empty.. this person makes you feel more comfortable and safe.. but when this is taken away those pieces of your life are now void again. everyone you know effects the way you are maybe a little or maybe alot.. But not to worry because something or someone will come around and lend a hand, helping you cope with your situation..


I know how hard it is to let something go. It feels so wrong at first and you dont know why it has to be this way. Most of the time it is for the best, everything happens for a reason, just take it one day at a time

[Pennywise]

it takes time...

[Silverwinged]

Originally Posted by Chewy

well this is why i think it is hard

you become dependent and rely on the other person to fill in pieces of your life that were once empty.. this person makes you feel more comfortable and safe.. but when this is taken away those pieces of your life are now void again. everyone you know effects the way you are maybe a little or maybe alot.. But not to worry because something or someone will come around and lend a hand, helping you cope with your situation..


I know how hard it is to let something go. It feels so wrong at first and you dont know why it has to be this way. Most of the time it is for the best, everything happens for a reason, just take it one day at a time

coles notes: old habits die hard.

[decypher]

It's all over now!

[stringbeans]

just be glad that you got to experience whatever you're letting go of

hope you're doing well ({)

[miss.myra]

Because you put a lot of work and effort into attachment and become quite comfortable with it usually, you can't always just throw away hard work without experiencing a bit of hesitation.

[hardstylin]

its not

[charly]

myra - so true.

being unsure of certain things make it even harder.. almost impossible to do.

i know it'll happen, it's just a slow and painful process. :\

[optimum sound]

You create this reality for yourself where you cannot see yourself without that being, person, animal or woman. Snap out of it.

[MistressSpankME]

I've finally let go and holy christ does it feel good. Its the hardest thing I've done, even though the thing I had to let go of had become toxic for me....

Like john said, the leat you can do is appreciate or learn from the thing you have to let go of.

[Liqwid]

u are a scorpio!

black and white...

u will get over it...

~Dalyn

[stephen_c]

bcuz ur human.

[Play-it-hard]

Originally Posted by Chewy

well this is why i think it is hard

you become dependent and rely on the other person to fill in pieces of your life that were once empty.. this person makes you feel more comfortable and safe.. but when this is taken away those pieces of your life are now void again. everyone you know effects the way you are maybe a little or maybe alot.. But not to worry because something or someone will come around and lend a hand, helping you cope with your situation..


I know how hard it is to let something go. It feels so wrong at first and you dont know why it has to be this way. Most of the time it is for the best, everything happens for a reason, just take it one day at a time

Wow you couldn't have worded that any better

[Chewy]

thank you .. i love to help when i can

plus i have gone through the exact same thing a few months ago.. and now i have had a chance to see it from begining to end.. All in all it is a lesson that made me stronger and more in touch with my emotions and stuff like that..

i think everyone should go through it, helps to develope a healthy mind

[optimum sound]

Originally Posted by Chewy

more in touch with my emotions

post whore

[Chewy]

^^ haha.. f u bitch

[Veni*C]

Originally Posted by stringbeans

just be glad that you got to experience whatever you're letting go of

exactly... and remeber that everything happens for a reason in your life... whether it be bad or good.... take it as a learning experience and look forward to all the other good things that will come to you in the future. :)