what makes someone a slut/whore/ho/skank..?

[justShell]

Okay.. ive had this conversation many times.. but have always been half drunk. so.. what do you all think.. what makes a guy/ girl a slut/whore/ho/skank/dirty. What is the differene between them all as well? Wheres the line? And whats do you call someone that just likes to have sex?

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Slut/whore/skank/tramp.. are all the same to me.

Girls who do sexual things for money/rides/food/attention/drugs/alcohol.
Girls who throw themselves
Girls who dont wear panties and let EVERY guy know
Girls who wear booty shorts in public.. in january
Girls who sleep with random men
Girls who sleep with random women
Girls with multiple stds
Girls who have many children with many men
Girls who have no self respect
Girls who live in surrey (the majority anyways!)

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Girls who talk dirty to other girls on message boards to get attention
EXAMPLE - "I kissed ______" "shhhh that was our little secret" *hump*

;D

[~god~]

girls who've slept with me.

[Prissypants]

I hate those terms...

[dabbler]

liking sex, and having lots of it, is a far cry from being a slut. if you like sex a lot, get a gf/bf and fuck THEM. defining a slut, comes down to who they fuck, when, why and how many different people they sleep with.
(it's not a race to fuck as many people as possible)

[sidekick]

i don't even think that a girl or guy needs to have sex to be considered slutty or skanky or whatever the other words are. i think even a virgin could be considered slutty. it's all in how you present yourself to other people. i hate girls or guys that constantly dangle sex like a string in front of everyone they meet, or use their looks to get themselves things, dress inappropriately and then use that to their advantage. you don't even need to have sex with the people, in my opinion.

i just really don't like people that are good looking, but know they are good looking and use it.

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by LLaaUUrrYYn

Slut/whore/skank/tramp.. are all the same to me.

Girls who do sexual things for money/rides/food/attention/drugs/alcohol.
Girls who throw themselves
Girls who dont wear panties and let EVERY guy know
Girls who wear booty shorts in public.. in january
Girls who sleep with random men
Girls who sleep with random women
Girls with multiple stds
Girls who have many children with many men
Girls who have no self respect
Girls who live in surrey (the majority anyways!)

i know many girls in surrey that aren't sluts.

i also knew someone in my highschool that had sex once and got 2 stds. i wouldn't consider her a slut.

everything else i pretty much agree with.

[Hot Karl]

Originally Posted by candi::shell

Okay.. ive had this conversation many times.. but have always been half drunk. so.. what do you all think.. what makes a guy/ girl a slut/whore/ho/skank/dirty. What is the differene between them all as well? Wheres the line? And whats do you call someone that just likes to have sex?

bad parenting.

[Toxxin Ephekt]

are you confused at where you stand in that list Candi Shell? it kinda seems like it.

[gratia]

hahahaha...i remeber that drunken conversation....or were we even drunk yet?:????? lol

neway. i have officiallly deided that since i call everyone it anyway....a whore is someone who doesn't do what i want! lol

dirty is someone who hasn't showered in a week or more
hoe......bitchy ass skank
skank.......slut with attitude
slut......girls who treat boys like sex objects and their bodies like sex toys!

ehem...also ^ boys who treat girls like sex objects and their bodies like sex toys

[mapleleaf4ever]

Originally Posted by dabbler

(it's not a race to fuck as many people as possible)

Shit... THANKS FOR TELLING ME NOW! :p

[Moon]

someone who sleeps around without any sense of emotional attatchment or emotional consideration for the multiple parties being dealt with.

[ebbomega]

Anybody who uses sex solely to boost their self-esteem.

[justShell]

ahh! nobody understood me lol.... im asking different questions here:
!. what defines a slut?
2. what defines a skank?
3. what defines a whore?
4.what makes someone dirty?
5. why do you call someone a slut.. or one of these terms just cause they like sex?
adding this one now..
6. how many people do you have to sleep with before you cross over into becoming one of the abover things?

[-evil-duerr-]

^if their name and/or phone number is etched onto the wall of more than one public restroom. He or She may be branded slut/whore/ho/skank by any of those who have witnessed the multiple etchings of said phone number.

[galaxie]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

Anybody who uses sex solely to boost their self-esteem.

Thanks.
You took the words RIGHT out of my mouth.

Some people are mature enough to have casual, no-strings attached sex. That's fine. I have a problem with it when one of the parties (or both) is just doing it for attention.

[Toxxin Ephekt]

Originally Posted by candi::shell

ahh! nobody understood me lol.... im asking different questions here:
!. what defines a slut?
2. what defines a skank?
3. what defines a whore?
4.what makes someone dirty?
5. why do you call someone a slut.. or one of these terms just cause they like sex?
adding this one now..
6. how many people do you have to sleep with before you cross over into becoming one of the abover things?

Use some common sense and look it up in the dictionary.

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by Toxxin Ephekt

Use some common sense and look it up in the dictionary.

do you really get your moral definitions from the dictionary? for your sake, i hope not.

she's asking for people's personal ideas of what define a slut/skank, etc... she's not asking for the technical webster's dictionary definition.

which by the way, according to dictionary.com is "a woman who is sexually permiscuous" and we've already learned by reading this post that can mean several different things to several different people.

[rawb]

denial of being a slut/whore/ho/skank, duh

[gratia]

Originally Posted by -evil-duerr-

^if their name and/or phone number is etched onto the wall of more than one public restroom. He or She may be branded slut/whore/ho/skank by any of those who have witnessed the multiple etchings of said phone number.

bahahhahahha...that is funny!
shell..did you read mine??? i gave you seperate definitions ;)

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by candi::shell

ahh! nobody understood me lol.... im asking different questions here:
!. what defines a slut?
2. what defines a skank?
3. what defines a whore?
4.what makes someone dirty?
5. why do you call someone a slut.. or one of these terms just cause they like sex?
adding this one now..
6. how many people do you have to sleep with before you cross over into becoming one of the abover things?

maybe you didn't understand us!

haven't you realized from reading this that there ISN'T a definition for what defines a slut/skank/whore. everyone has their own morals and their own guidelines from which they make the decision of when a person passes into the land of skankery.

number 6 is a stupid question. you really think there is a set number that you have to sleep with before you're officially recognized as a slut by everyone? that number is going to be different for everyone depending on your religion, parents, your own morals, your country, etc... sex is too broad for generalized questions and answers.

[Toxxin Ephekt]

Originally Posted by Sidekick

do you really get your moral definitions from the dictionary? for your sake, i hope not.

she's asking for people's personal ideas of what define a slut/skank, etc... she's not asking for the technical webster's dictionary definition.

which by the way, according to dictionary.com is "a woman who is sexually permiscuous" and we've already learned by reading this post that can mean several different things to several different people.

Buddy, that was a sarcastic, dumb answer for a dumb chick.

[mindgurl]

Originally Posted by candi::shell

ahh! nobody understood me lol.... im asking different questions here:
!. what defines a slut?
2. what defines a skank?
3. what defines a whore?
4.what makes someone dirty?
5. why do you call someone a slut.. or one of these terms just cause they like sex?
adding this one now..
6. how many people do you have to sleep with before you cross over into becoming one of the abover things?

Personally I define someone as slutty/skanky/whore when they carelessly sleep with many people of the same social circle.

In most cases however these terms are used to negativly discribe someone who has proven to have a sleezy track record. I also think they are thrown around too loosely. Most girls will say "that girls a slut" even if they have NO knowledge of her sexual history.

There is no "number" of partners that describes a slut. If you go out and sleep with 5 guys in the same group of friends your a slut, but someone who has had maybe 10 boyfriends wouldn't be. It always going to be a personal opinion.

[mapleleaf4ever]

Originally Posted by mindgurl

Personally I define someone as slutty/skanky/whore when they carelessly sleep with many people of the same social circle.

In most cases however these terms are used to negativly discribe someone who has proven to have a sleezy track record. I also think they are thrown around too loosely. Most girls will say "that girls a slut" even if they have NO knowledge of her sexual history.

There is no "number" of partners that describes a slut. If you go out and sleep with 5 guys in the same group of friends your a slut, but someone who has had maybe 10 boyfriends wouldn't be. It always going to be a personal opinion.

I think you have made the best explanation so far.