asking a co-worker out

[PsyTrance4Life]

what's the best way to do it?
i dont want to be rejected and be embrassed to see her *everyday*

:014:

[decypher]

Just ask her to do something with you after work. Don't push it. If something happens it'll happen, if not then you got a new friend.

[miss.myra]

haha I've been asked out by two coworkers at my current job...


honestly, just be up front about it, because that is a lot more appreciated than when you find like all these stupid excuses to walk by my desk during the course of the day and it becomes obvious and creepy..and annoying..haha

[ebbomega]

'i say hurl. if you blow chunks and she comes back, she's yours. if you spew and she bolts, it was never meant to be.'
- wayne campbell

[cheeseburger]

never dip your pen in company ink

[g!ggles]

dating a co-worker always end up in shambles. I was my ex-boyfriends boss and it wasn't pretty. However.. if its the sorta job where you both do the same sorta thing then it's not as bad.. just ask them if they maybe they want to go for lunch or something.

[impure]

the manager of human resources here is SO hot.

[Gusto]

if you have to work with them everyday, and you think you might get rejected, then i probably wouldn't ask her out.

[Bumblebeetuna]

Ya that's a tough call. If you notice her noticing you, then totally make a move. If you are not too sure, then ask to chill. But if there is nothing there, then just wait for the staff christmas party, get absolutely sauced, and go do dirty things in the staff washroom.
Good luck!

[galaxie]

If you two work closely together, or it's a restaurant/retail type of environment the best way to ask her out is NOT TO.

If it's more of an office setting or a large company where you won't see each other often and it won't become gossip then just go for the gusto.

Trust me though, if you work closely together it's a baaaaaaaad idea. I've never seen it work out!

[-evil-duerr-]

this is a pretty helpful read.
good on ya E-tard, for bringin it up.

[nabs]

start with something simple, ask her out for like coffee or something. or breakfast or lunch. take it from there.

[hardstylin]

giver the old cock watch, and ask her what time it is :)

[PaIniNyErAnUs]

Originally Posted by hardstylin

giver the old cock watch, and ask her what time it is :)

its fuckin time:)


p.s. i cant make it tonite, im a broke ass, how long you in town for?

[spencer dawg s]

dont ask her out at work, just after hours be like hey do you wanna do something like get some coffee. thats what im going to do with a girl from school. and see if theres any feelings.

[dalailama]

Originally Posted by Kenny Grant

never dip your pen in company ink

Don't do it man!!! That shit never turns out for the good.

[frankie_V]

bump??

so what happend e tard... u make a move yet?

or u still got butterflies?

[t-skywalker]

Do It Hahahah I Have It Was Fun...muahahahah

[frankie_V]

will the juice be worth the squeeze? ;)

[ebbomega]

everybody at my work is freaking out over lovey-dovey stuff lately. it's like spring all over again. don't get into that shit, mang. it's bad news all around.

[Technix]

Originally Posted by Kenny Grant

never dip your pen in company ink

^ Well said. If things don't work out, it will be hard having to see that person everyday...

Social life is one thing, work is another. That's not to say you shouldn't hang out after work, but it seems to be better keeping the "relationship" part of it on the down-low.

[scue]

Originally Posted by hardstylin

giver the old cock watch, and ask her what time it is :)

hammer time

[impure]

oh no.

to celebrate the end of the racing season, there was a big drinking fest in the one of the resteraunts at the racetrack. i got super drunk and ran around trying to find the manager of human resources, yelling and giving out notes to give to him.
for shame amelia.
for shame.