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Nov 30, 05
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alright so pretty much i should get to be friends more but friends means no sex if its that kinda friends. but thanks im just guna go for it and see what happens start by askin her out for coffee or ice cream i guess
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Nov 30, 05
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i wouldn't and WONT date a younger guy, it has nothign to do with being shallow, it's more of a maturity level thing however when i was in grade 12 i dated a grade 10(for like 2 weeks cuz i heard he put out) LOL
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Nov 30, 05
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And what if you make out with ''the prince of your dreams'' one day and late to discover he is younger then you, will you be dumb enough to stand on your words and dump him? Or you will just admit that theres some younger gentlmens out there that could seduce you in every possible way a older men could... Unless you still stuck in High-School (Witch is not a reason) Last edited by maztraz; Nov 30, 05 at 07:37 PM.
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Dec 01, 05
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I'm not really a fan of the younger guys myself, but it isn't because I'm only attracted to older guys. I just still haven't met a younger guy (or guy my own age) I'd actually want to date.
BUT, if you two are already friends, I don't see why it'd matter. Plus as everyone's already said before a year doesn't make much difference.
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Dec 01, 05
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I really don't think you should be worrying about the maturity level of someone younger than you.
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Dec 01, 05
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^Hey I thought I told you to be nicer!?!
I would'nt call a chick not dating a guy younger shallow... however I woud call it missing out :p I once learned that age doesnt determin maturity as one guy I dated who was 3 years younger than me turned out to be a lot more mature and sane than a guy I dated who was 10 years older than me.
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Dec 01, 05
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I CAN'T HEAR YOU!!!
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Dec 01, 05
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I say BRAVO LADY I must admit older man are usualy socialy more mature witch is always a big plus, and physical can be important for some too... And then of course at a certain age theres economical..etc But honestly theres no big differences on a range of 5years or 10years, 15years depending on how old you are of course, but we're talking brains here.... After physical is a other part of it, but I don't think it plays a center role onto longrelationship...Im sure everyone will want long term atleast once :D
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Dec 01, 05
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it's all about personal preference, I highly doubt i would be making out with a guy who was younger then me anyways without at least knowing his age first.
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Dec 01, 05
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Lets make it simple then 1st : The old people that usualy hang out with you, could be hanging with a younger one. 2nd : You could be in a simple Cafe, Bar, Club..etc and have met someone that you feel is great of personality and not even realizing that he is that young of spirit, without being necessarily from your surrounding. 3rd : The person could just say he is 25 for exemple and he could perfectly look like one and sound like one when he is only 21. So eventualy you will be the one caught on that one....Since the options are so big, and the reasons are way to little, and Love is just something everyone can get easily get caught off anywhere, anytime, anyways...
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Dec 01, 05
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Numbers rarely lie.
I came across a statistic that the highest percentage of successful marriages (those not ending in divorce) were those in which the man was six years older than his wife.
This must say something about maturity and age differences in the sexes.
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Dec 02, 05
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Actualy I notice a huge differnece between 5-10 years. 10 years is a whole generation appart... I find ppl with that age difference grew up with a whole different experince like fads, music, toys, tv, historical events etc. However someone who is 5- years younger experinced those things in life at a much closer age like going highschool or elementry at the time. Also I find someone who is 10 years older tends to be more of a 'mentor' in the relationship than a partner. Face it their knowlege is 10+ years in advance than yours... unless there a bozo :p Last edited by Ree Fresh; Dec 02, 05 at 12:08 AM.
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Dec 02, 05
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Will you remain young for ever? No, and everyone knows the answer to this...What garanties you that you will not fall in love of a men that is 5, 10 years old younger when you get older? And it won't be about high school or elementary anymore, the guy will have lived if thats what your looking for... If some Man&Woman are more attracted to older generations. I wouldn't see why it wouldn't be the same on the other side, we don't live in year 1800 as far as I know, people are different from back then...More woman tend to have they're own jobs now, they have they're own part of responsibilities and source of revenue, witch makes them more independent in many ways, including on the relational point of view... As far as I know you could even have your ''Man'' at home taking care of the kids... We can say that most of man are more mature being older, but honestly I have seen 20 years old of our days that are as mature and responsible as an 30years old and its the same on both sides, and I wouldn't be supprised if the numbers quept going up That 20years old man could of discovered the world and have seen many things compared to that 30years old man that probably never left his hometown.... And I personaly find it much more interesting someone being more independent and not just dependent on the man or every local source.. It's all about personality of course, no one can really say they wouldn't like to date younger...
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Dec 02, 05
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I just find it hard to relate with someone that is so much older than you. Its like the ppl I work with who are all at least 10-20-30 years older than me and I cant find anything in common with them. Someone who is 10+ years older than you was in highschool when you were a young kid and going through their 20's when you were in highschool. You experince the time where living in at diffrnet stages of your life. Maybe if I was 30 I might be able to find more in common with somone who was 40... but still I find it a bit wierd and ackward. Antoher common problem ive seen with some friends of mine who date way older men... is when their entering their 20's and ready to rock and role while the older partner is freaking out about entering their 30's, wants to settle down, and is sick of all the partying. I also hate being patronized... which is difficult if your dating someone who is 10+. On the other had some ppl love being dominated or haveing a more father/mother figure type partner and the relationship can work out great. Last edited by Ree Fresh; Dec 02, 05 at 01:32 AM.
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Dec 02, 05
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Although I've had a friends father witch was also a close friend, he was entering his 50's...When I first met him honestly I would of gave him 35 easily(if we don't look at the white hair of course :) ), And he was going to clubs&Raves more often then his own son... Witch is pretty funny when you see the general public is like 18, 20, 22 30 at max That tells you many things of our days weither you are 20 or 50, you might be at the complete opposite of what you really look like.... But yeah, it is often extreme, I've never been out with a younger girl thought :D I totaly understand what you mean on ''bossing around'', I think thats probably one of the qualities I would never be able to live with 24/7, I would just go nuts...But I like them with a certain level of maturity
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