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May 16, 06
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Having a bad personality trait...
Don't you hate it when you know you have a certain quirck in your personality that rears its ugly head in very specific situations. It is bad cause you really hate that aspect of your psyche but it happens so rarely that you almost forget about it until WHAP! It smacks you in the face and leaves you feeling worse about yourself.... :/
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May 16, 06
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hmm no idea what ur talking about.
what is this quirck you speak of?
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May 16, 06
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I know what you mean. I know EXACTLY what you mean... lol
Its my bitchy-ness.. sometimes I dont mean it but I can be so insensitive, rude, sarcastic, ignorant the list goes on... Most of the time, I do mean it but theres times where I totally cross the line and dont mean it and then its too late.. cuz I've already said or done it. :(
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May 16, 06
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I think everyone has something like that even if they won't admit it. I know I do. I try to control it sometimes but it usually comes out in me before I can actually stop myself.
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May 16, 06
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May 16, 06
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"bad"? I have plenty of personality traits that I'm certain some people don't like.
But there are always two sides to every coin. What seems like a hinderance in one situation may prove to be an asset in another. The real key is to identify these traits and then learn how you can use them to better yourself. You say this trait only comes up once in a blue moon, does it really? or do its downfalls only present themselves once in a blue moon, and the rest of the time you use your ability/habit for better purpose? F'rinstance. I'm talkative. It means I'm socially active and tend to be easy to get along with. But me blabbing my mouth off has gotten me into trouble so many times I can't even count. So remember not to shy away from yourself. Explore these traits and only good can come out of it.
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May 16, 06
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Dont forget that we are our own worst critic!
I know I have to have traits that bother some people. Wouldnt be human if any of us didnt! I know the worst thing I do that annoys me is I procrastinate on alot.
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May 17, 06
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May 18, 06
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the biggest piss off is when youve done something proactive about that bad personality trait,and only implemented the things you learned for a short period of time.Then going back to how you used to be.
thats what really sucks.
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May 18, 06
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It has nothing to do with willpower or initiative. It is part of what you are. Something innate. It is purely a response reaction. But yea, doesn't mean you have to like it. Not only that but it is not really apparent to other people, just to me. It is kinda difficult to explain but from what others have said it is pretty natural.
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May 19, 06
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I don't buy that, it sounds like you're making excuses. - Everything that comes out of your mouth, every action you perform, you have control over. Doubly so if you can conciously recognize performing those actions. Recognition is one of the first steps to change, whether it be substance abuse, behaviourole (sp?), or goal setting.
Not good at sports? Not good at math? Don't have a sense of humour? You're sure as fuck not getting any better sitting on your ass doing nothing. Don't pigeon hole yourself.
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May 20, 06
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Your women. I want to buy your women. The little girl, your daughters... sell them to me. Sell me your children!
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