Braking Up With and Emo Kid.

[Discord]

Fleeting Fancies:

After a brake (not a brakeup) I decided the Geeky boy -turned Emo Kid just wasn't Geeky anymore.

Spent to much time with Emo Hair and forgot about the Rock Collection he shared with me.
To much time in his band.
And forgot about his Reddwarf DVD box set.
Didn't Know his Skullies from his Streets or his WARs from his TREKs

he wasn't Geek enough for me anymore: Nothing to talk about.

is that a bad reason to brake up with someone? wasn't geek enough?

So today I was looking EMO KIDS on the internet and I found this EXACT DRAWING of my ex.
and it made me happy!.
if he was a cartoon.. this would be him.. pants shirts hair hat.ear plugs. just missing the tattoos its creepy
and I started to laugh. and i cant stop

[PwInCeSs]

huh?..

[Discord]

I dumped my fiance cuz he was Emo

[sNyx]

emo sucks, now its clear you sucked an emo. thats the worst of it.

[PwInCeSs]

There we go
makes more sense, i thought you were just on a "break" while he toured?
Did you cut him off completly

[Discord]

Originally Posted by PwInCeSs

There we go
makes more sense, i thought you were just on a "break" while he toured?
Did you cut him off completly

Yep
one thing you NEVER say to me on a date

"I just don't think I like startrek anymore"

[Discord]

Originally Posted by sNyx™

emo sucks, now its clear you sucked an emo. thats the worst of it.

Hey
when I did I thought it was a geek sometimes its hard to tell ok..
*hides in shame*

[sNyx]

pulling mile long black hairs outta your mouth

[b0ld]

Originally Posted by Discord

Yep
one thing you NEVER say to me on a date

"I just don't think I like startrek anymore"

sweetheart...... ITS A FUCKIN TV SHOW......

[Discord]

Originally Posted by kprojekt

^
Did it taste like razor blades and rat poison?

"His Kisses Tastes Like Battery Acid"

[Discord]

Originally Posted by b0ld

sweetheart...... ITS A FUCKIN TV SHOW......

sacralige!

all hail the word of trek.

[hardstylin]

Originally Posted by Discord

Yep
one thing you NEVER say to me on a date

"I just don't think I like startrek anymore"

i got one

" i hate giving head, in fact i never do it"

BOOT!!!

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by Discord

I dumped my fiance cuz he was Emo

I like this explanation a lot better than "because he wasn't geeky enough"

A story about geek love:

When I was about 21 I set out to find myself a geek chick. my reasoning: geek chicks are hot! and I can talk to them without them just looking at me and saying "buh?" about things I like (movies, music, microcode).

So I dated a geek chick for well over 2 years. I felt great. we talked about linux, slashdot, star trek, star wars, buffy+angel, watched Trigun and Evangelion together, went to LAN parties, we were both in Computing Science programmes so we could help each other with our homework (early on in our relationship I think I saved her from failing her Discrete Math course... why chicks can't figure out induction I'll never know), etc. etc. etc.

In hindsight to that relationship, I learned that I actually wasn't that compatible a person. Sure, we shared a lot of interests and could do tons of stuff together, but as a relationship it really just didn't fit... we always did everything together but we never really persued our own interests as seperate.

My advice to you is don't base your assessment of someone you're with on shared interests. Really the only shared interests you need with a partner is food and sex, and drugs (if you have one person that does certain drugs and another person who's against those particular drugs, good freaking luck letting that one survive). What's a lot more important is compatibility, which is to say that they can pick up where you leave off. In the parts in life that you struggle with they would excel and vice-versa. That way the two of you together can be seperate people but yet still be an effective team when you work together.

Sounds like you've given up on emo boy here, which is okay. If it's over it's over. But learn from this. Interests wax and wane and are very fluid things, so basing a relationship off of them makes for a lofty relationship that doesn't really have much room to grow and learn.

[Discord]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

I like this explanation a lot better than "because he wasn't geeky enough"

A story about geek love:

When I was about 21 I set out to find myself a geek chick. my reasoning: geek chicks are hot! and I can talk to them without them just looking at me and saying "buh?" about things I like (movies, music, microcode).

So I dated a geek chick for well over 2 years. I felt great. we talked about linux, slashdot, star trek, star wars, buffy+angel, watched Trigun and Evangelion together, went to LAN parties, we were both in Computing Science programmes so we could help each other with our homework (early on in our relationship I think I saved her from failing her Discrete Math course... why chicks can't figure out induction I'll never know), etc. etc. etc.

In hindsight to that relationship, I learned that I actually wasn't that compatible a person. Sure, we shared a lot of interests and could do tons of stuff together, but as a relationship it really just didn't fit... we always did everything together but we never really persued our own interests as seperate.

My advice to you is don't base your assessment of someone you're with on shared interests. Really the only shared interests you need with a partner is food and sex, and drugs (if you have one person that does certain drugs and another person who's against those particular drugs, good freaking luck letting that one survive). What's a lot more important is compatibility, which is to say that they can pick up where you leave off. In the parts in life that you struggle with they would excel and vice-versa. That way the two of you together can be seperate people but yet still be an effective team when you work together.

Sounds like you've given up on emo boy here, which is okay. If it's over it's over. But learn from this. Interests wax and wane and are very fluid things, so basing a relationship off of them makes for a lofty relationship that doesn't really have much room to grow and learn.

:) there are many wrong with our relationship. I think the bottom line is there was nothing left to talk about. his life was going to parties--getting drunk and getting "into" the emo culture as much as he could anyway he could.

I sit at home and watch Sifi movies naked.

I just want someone to watch naked x-files with.

*Sad emo eyes* shit now i'm emo to (heheh)

[Mangle]

Originally Posted by Discord

I dumped my fiance cuz he was Emo

Don't blame you.

[Discord]

Originally Posted by Mangle

Don't blame you.

I looked passed it for 4 years.

the black sweepy hair
The single side lip rings
The bright blue/green purple pink tattoos
the skinniness... the Tight t shirts the pink shoes.

I got sick of sharing my pants.

[Heffy]

this thread has made me literally laugh out loud!

[fable]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

I like this explanation a lot better than "because he wasn't geeky enough"

A story about geek love:

When I was about 21 I set out to find myself a geek chick. my reasoning: geek chicks are hot! and I can talk to them without them just looking at me and saying "buh?" about things I like (movies, music, microcode).

So I dated a geek chick for well over 2 years. I felt great. we talked about linux, slashdot, star trek, star wars, buffy+angel, watched Trigun and Evangelion together, went to LAN parties, we were both in Computing Science programmes so we could help each other with our homework (early on in our relationship I think I saved her from failing her Discrete Math course... why chicks can't figure out induction I'll never know), etc. etc. etc.

In hindsight to that relationship, I learned that I actually wasn't that compatible a person. Sure, we shared a lot of interests and could do tons of stuff together, but as a relationship it really just didn't fit... we always did everything together but we never really persued our own interests as seperate.

My advice to you is don't base your assessment of someone you're with on shared interests. Really the only shared interests you need with a partner is food and sex, and drugs (if you have one person that does certain drugs and another person who's against those particular drugs, good freaking luck letting that one survive). What's a lot more important is compatibility, which is to say that they can pick up where you leave off. In the parts in life that you struggle with they would excel and vice-versa. That way the two of you together can be seperate people but yet still be an effective team when you work together.

Sounds like you've given up on emo boy here, which is okay. If it's over it's over. But learn from this. Interests wax and wane and are very fluid things, so basing a relationship off of them makes for a lofty relationship that doesn't really have much room to grow and learn.

You know, this advice was really good, but dont you think it gets lost on people who talk in terms of dating or not dating "identities" ie. he was emo, he wasnt geek enough etc etc. Its as immature sounding as a shannon doherty monologue on beverly hills 90210

[Skitzo_Style]

Originally Posted by sNyx™

emo sucks, now its clear you sucked an emo. thats the worst of it.

You must spread some Karma around before giving it to $userinfo[username] again.

[ppcock]

That emo kids is now no longer living, he jumped infront of a skytrain at Broadway station

LOLOLOLOL

[b0ld]

http://arnoldisemo.ytmnd.com/

[tiedye]

oi...

[Discord]

Originally Posted by tiedye

oi...

What?

[tiedye]

Originally Posted by b0ld

http://arnoldisemo.ytmnd.com/

this... oi... this joke was played out the second time I heard it.

[B-rizzo]

Awww cmon he just wants to be like the other 500000000000000 people who think its cool to wear nut hugger jeans and whine about how that one girl wont give them attention and how they cant go to the "BLEED MY CRIMSON TEARS OF BLOOD" concert