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Jun 27, 06
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Do you ever wish you were still a virgin?
so do yah? i sometimes wish i still was.. waitin for the right person or my wedding nite and giving my husband that gift but that will never happen.. meh..ohwell...if i could i would go back and not have had sex and waited...
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I dunno. Maybe would have lost it in a different situation.
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I can see how a woman would like to be able to "give herself" to the love of her life for the first time. However, I think as far as quality of sex goes, she would prefer that the guy knows what he's doing. Seriously, I don't think there is a guy out there that was a very good lay his first time. So to answer the question: no, not only because it would be a waste of all the sexual bootcamp, but also because I know that i am more than capable of pleasing my woman.
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Nope. I don't regret when I lost it, nor do I think it's really that special in the first place.
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Hmm, in some ways to say that I waited till marriage would be a fantastic thing, but at the same time, I wouldn't have gained experience towards sex from having done it. I did wait for someone I loved and I don't regret doing it because it was for the right intentions. I think it's more so important to girls than it is to guys, because there seems to be a stigma that comes with girls who have had sex before marriage, but that's just society talking to us.
I wouldn't trade away the experience though, because there's so much hype around it that when you do actually experience it, it's almost a sense of relief.
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I would never get married to a virgin, that simple.
So what happens if you get married and then that night discover that you're completely sexually incompatible? Congratulations, you now have sex with only one person your entire life and it's gonna suck. AREN'T YOU GLAD YOU STAYED A VIRGIN????
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same with me..
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^^^^ hey pat ;) how you doin :p lol
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seriously??!! you're gonna call divorce over a bad sex life? bad sex can be fixed, go to classes, suggest swinging and orgies to spice things up i think in some ways you could have a lot of options and make it into a lot of fun! as for me, no i dont wish i was still a virgin, i have cared for almost everyone i have slept with and dont regret anything. i love sex, i love being that close to someone, whether it be a friend or a boyfriend. i have something special to share with those people.
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no not really it never really ment all that much to me, like sandra said it seems like a lot of the reasons that girls make it a big deal is because society forces us too. i dont' regret anything i do because it's what shapes and changes us so to regret it isn't really helping anything.
my current bf was a virgin when we started going out.. he was brought up christian but he has his own set of values beliefs he decided upon.. he didn't ever say he'd wait for marriage just for somthing more special than a giggly vapid slut who he didn't really care about or that didn't care about him.. the fact that so many people do it just because everyone else has or because they think they should shouldn't be a factor in your decision..
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Now, maybe I'm wrong on this, since nobody I've known growing up is married, but I would think that if someone waited until marriage to have sex, they wouldn't be jumping at the idea of orgies and swinging. It seems to me that the whole point is to keep it with that special someone. Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe after years of waiting, they finally do their sleeping around.
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nope..
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