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Aug 05, 06
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The harder stuff to get over
You know, matters of the heart, don't get me wrong, they are things that you all need to experience. It's just sometimes it doesn't matter how much you prepare for anything it still bites you in the ass.
You know, those relationships where they go so well and then bam all of the sudden they aren't. Then the horrible "he didn't actually want to be with you" feeling and break up comes into play. And then you feel like you were living a lie while in said relationship. That's probably the hardest thing to have to hear... the hardest thing to realize and one of the harder things to get over. Work was torture yesterday, but the more I thought about it, the more I realized that there is no point in liking or wallowing over someone who doesn't really want to be with you... 
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Aug 05, 06
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if this is who i think its about hun, you dont deserve that, find better :)
your a great girl and im sure you deserve somone who will treat you amazingling and if he couldnt do that for you then FUCK HIM. his loss :) drinks soon otay !!
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Aug 05, 06
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I too would always think about that sort of thing at work/home any places where i wasnt kept busy.. it starts to drive you crazy, because you feel like theres nothing you can do about it.. the more you think about it.. the harder it is on you.. and maybe you might come out of this faster then you think.. maybe your like me, might take some more time than expected.. but sooner or later you'll be happy again.. and when you find ur happieness you'll look back and think why did i waste any sort of emotion on missing him, being sad over him... not worth it in the long run Good luck babe
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Just take it all as a life experience. Learn from the relationship and be a better person for it. No experience is a bad experience if there is a lesson learnt from it. Take the time to really re-evaluate matters - was it really that he never loved you, or was it something else? Was it something in you? Don't become obsessed with it, but if you play the blame game all the time, you'll never learn to accept the consequences of your own actions. Not saying to kick yourself down for the failure of the relationship, but acknowledge your own mistakes and learn from them so that next time around, you will be wiser in your relationships.
You're young, it's a great time to be single and really have fun. There is no point in being with someone that doesn't love you - it'd just prove that you didn't love yourself enough to be with someone that really cared about you. Chances are, if you treated him well, he'll eventually realize the error of his ways and be begging to come back to you.
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Aug 11, 06
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Aug 12, 06
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this is so true. I have been through this many times. and its true, you can prepare yourself for it, fight it, ignore it, but when it happenes it happens.
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Aug 12, 06
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awe babes, i hope you feel better, and it is alot easier said than done. I remember reading up on sumthing someone on fnk posted about break ups and it relly made you reflect. theres was this one post that relly got to me and it ended off with a quote i absolutely love now.."It's just chocolate, find a new bar". :)
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Aug 12, 06
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yeah theres no doubt youve become very attached to your bar.. the truth is you wont get past how you feel until you find sum1 new (and tht obviously takes time) i see it happen to all my gf's as well as myself.. things will be okay even though it hurts now. and you probly already know all this but every now and then hearing it sounds so much better.
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