A word of encouragement to all my bros who feel down after raves

[FireWire]

GUYS - you are men, stop mopping over that girl you met at a rave.


Since Apex I have gotten a few calls and online messages from some guys asking me for advice on why they can't just get that "female" they hooked up with for a few hours that night out of their minds.

I don't know why this rave was so special for guys to get obsessed with the girls that were at it and to have my cell phone ringing just because of this but I want to say something that comes from my exprience with hooking up with girls at raves:


First, you have to ASK YOURSELF A QUESTION:

"WHY am I so obsessed with that particular girl I met at a rave? Does she have the kind of qualities I look for in a woman or am I just a horny and frustrated chump who hasn't ever gotten laid?"

If she's the kind of girl you will want to have as a girlfriend who you will marry later down the road, then I would advice next time to exchange numbers and set up a date a few days after a rave that both of you will be able to make in order to progress the beginning of this relationship further.


Second, I know that you were high on E and your emotions were hundreds of times greater than they are when you're sober. That creates a false sense of attraction to that hot girl that you see at a rave. Do you ever walk up to a hot girl on the street and just start talking to her like you do at a rave? Do you even dance with her or even get to touch her within the first five minutes of meeting her? Probably not. So why do you think that if this happened to you at a rave you must obssess and think about her for days and days after? What happens at a rave, stays at a rave. It's not real life because you're drugged up and your emotions are giving you a false sense of attraction.


So just stop feeling down because you can't see that girl anymore because she is gone (this is to the guys who didn't get her # or email or whatever). If you didn't get the digits then you will never see her again until the next rave (hopefully). Just sit back and realize that you were just having fun in 'another world' and the girls you met in that world were just other human beings having fun with you. You don't need them and they don't need you outside of that world. Stop saying "I didn't get any luck that night" because if that's how you view social events, then you won't get any luck and time soon.

Coming out of a rave, I just come home, lay down on my bed, close my eyes and self-meditate. I remember all the highlights of the night and all the best tunes I heard that night and just appreciate life for what it is.

Oh and one last thing... I also always remember "that hot girl" from each rave and I just wish her well and hope she does well in life.


"It was nice meeting you."

[Ms.Tarantula]

*karma*

hahha.. thats SO awesome.

[hardstylin]

tard love FTL

[nabs]

turn this into an information pamphlet and hand it out and summerbreak, hahahahhaha awsome.

[Wood]

bitches ain't shit but hoes & tricks!