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Never Satisfied
I can't believe I'm posting this but i've been freaking out as of late. I seriously fucking hate my life and I don't know why. I make great money when I actually work, and do little to nothing. I really have 0 girl probles what so ever and that includes getting laid... I have great friends that I can call and hang out with at any time, but I always feel lonely. I party tons and have a blast.. but fuck every day I wake up depressed... and no I don't do drugs. I've pretty much decided I'm quitting my job for no real reason other than I hate going. I love Vancouver but I hate being here, on a daily basis I consider just selling everything I own and flying to europe or something. I've been so wound tight and pissed off lately I bite everyone's heads off and pick fights with random people... luckily for me every one has backed down I'd probably get my ass kicked. I really don't know why I feel the way I do, every thing in my life is going well... but I hate it. I hate all of it. Not like I'd ever consider suicide because I absolutely love life it self.. I just hate mine.. the repetitiveness maybe. *sigh*
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of what exactly? fear of leaving home, not having a job, or just doing it alone? perhaps find a friend to go with?
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i think you are right crackdragon. Alex, maybe you should just take sometime for yourself and get away from Vancouver for a little whle. Take a breather from city life, maybe fly somewhere exotic and different. If you don't like repetativeness than do something to shake things up a little.
Don't worry about not speaking the language, thats another adventure in itself. Most countries have a good population of English speakers. If You are worries about money go to Thailand or Cambodia, everythings very cheap. Take 1000 with u to spend and u will be fine for about a month. Last edited by Jen-E-03; Aug 31, 06 at 05:29 PM.
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for starters everything you named as being ok are all things people assume you have to have to be happy when there not.
the phat car bling money and hot GF type things are all nice to strive for but at the end of the day they dont mean shit. sounds like you need a hobby or to get involved in something YOU dig hardcore.
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It is called itchy feet...I find about once every 4 to 5 years I have to make a MAJOR change in my life to be happy...
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youre depressed because you lead a relatively unfullfilling life.
no trip to europe can cure that.And im pretty sure its more then a hobby can fix. take inventory and remove yourself from the chaos for a while.Reevaluate,and prioritize.Hermit perhaps? Its amazing what you`ll find when you block out all the outside noise. good luck. ps:always listen to your heart.
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I got an idea, you wanna travel? Ok, fly your sorry ass to Somalia, strip down to a loin cloth and eat nothing but dirt for 6 months. Then make a computer out of rocks, flies and sticks, plug it into your ass and log back onto F&K, then bitch about how much your life sucks!!
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Sep 01, 06
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When you're young you should never be satisfied anyways, at least until you figure out what exactly it is you want out of life and who exactly you are.
I don't know what it is, but usually with a lot of young people who seem completely satisfied you can see right through them. It's a healthy time to strive for perfection, anything less and you're selling yourself short somehow. Oh, and I think this empty "what else? what's next?" feeling goes away by the time you hit your thirties. But what do I know!
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it's cause you listen to trance even though it sucks ass. you torture yourself needlessly. get a jungle cd and all your problems will go away. just kidding. try staying put and toughing it out. maybe because you have been moving around alot over the last 2 year it seems out of place for you to be in the situation you are in, but at the same time you feel lonley because you are never in one spot for too long, result in not having a conreate place to call home. just stick to what you are doing right now, and eventually you will see the merit in your current situation. good luck, trance lover.
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I fully agree....block out everything, do some serious thinking and find your fucking passion in life.....even if it's stupid, sometimes small accomplishments can be the world. Strange enough for me, when I make things with my hands, I get more accomplishment than getting a good grade on a paper at school or something....I've never been much of a handyman, but if I go out and build a birdhouse for my cousin or something, I get a real sense of accomplishment (this is a fucked up example but in my case, it boosts me). Find a passion, or little ways to feel better about yourself....but hermitting is sometimes a good way if you're too far into this depression to deal with it any other way.
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sympathy is feeling pity for someone without first hand knowledge of their hardship. empathy is the ability to understand and recognize what someone is going through, having experienced (or are currently experiencing) that same hardship.
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sym‧pa‧thize
–verb (used without object), -thized, -thiz‧ing. 1. to be in sympathy or agreement of feeling; share in a feeling (often fol. by with). 2. to feel a compassionate sympathy, as for suffering or trouble (often fol. by with). 3. to express sympathy or condole (often fol. by with). 4. to be in approving accord, as with a person or cause: to sympathize with a person's aims. 5. to agree, correspond, or accord.
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