I'm a nice person.

[KitKat]

Alright now!! I consider myself a very nice person. Others consider me a very nice person also. So, why don't nice people ever get nice things done for them. I get walked all over by people and I don't say nothing about it cause I'm worried that I wouldn't be the right thing to say or do. Is it true that nice guys finish last also? I see all these girls dating these assholes that don't know how to treat them. The girls just want the nice guys as "friends" come on now. I'm sick of being every girls "good friend" that i like and care about. Whatever I dunno what to think no more about things. I think that if I were to be mean and be an asshole to people maybe they will respect me and maybe girls would want more than to be friends. I'm not a bad looking guy at all. I just don't understand it. If you read this message and you don't think that I am just rambling on about nothing please help me out and give me some insite on what you think PLEASE and THANK YOU.

[wundergirl]

All I can say is that you have to live life for yourself and no one else. If there's something you wanna say, say it. Ya wanna do something just do it. If you go around worrying about what other peeps are gona think and weather or not you'll still be a nice guy you'll overload your brain and your head will explode - but first peeps are gonna walk all over you.

People think i'm a bitch. everybody i know honestly thinks i am a huge bitch - only in a good way. there are always gonna be the people who will never take the time to get to know me because I come on too strong or whatever. But it's their loss, because once i know you, you have nothing but my utmost respect.

You really gotta ask yourself what being a nice guy to everyone is getting YOU....anything? Don't let people who you arent close to walk on you. Don't let the dumb chicks bother you. If they wanna date losers thats their choice. Be who you are and quit worrying about what people are gonna think. Exploding head makes a mess.

[cLinK]

awww joeeey!

i don't know why girls always just want to be friends with you... i didn't think it was like that at all!

now i guess i don't know you like, super well... but i know you pretty good, and i've known you for a while, and i would have thought you'd have all the ladies

but i have to agree with wundergirl... if you live life for yourself, the girls will come flocking. and, better yet, only the girls who really truly like and aprreciate who you are will come runnin', making things better in the long run

trust me hun
and if you want someone to talk to , i'm here!

*muah!*

[Erica]

Awww hun, I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I feel like nice people DO always finish last. I always bend WAAAY over backwards to help other people, even if I'm not good friends with them...I always want to see other people happy...help people through their problems/struggles regardless of how big/small they are...even if it means putting myself in jeopardy. But in the end, pretty much every time, I either go completely unappreciated, stepped on...even backstabbed. It's like, I help everyone else through their shit, but for the past 7 years of my life, all I've been going through IS shit. Major problems in some aspect of my life...one problem after another...and they're all big ones too. It all seems to never stop, and I feel like...what's the point of being nice then, you know? Sometimes, after people treat me like crap after I try so hard to help them out, it just makes me feel so agro inside, and makes me want to forget everyone...makes me want to become somewhat mean.

Buuuuuuut, you know, I've learned that you just have to stick to who you are. You seem like a nice person, so stay that person. Just choose who you actually go out of your way to help, cause some people really aren't worth your time at all. There's also that whole karma thing. You'll be repaid sometime down the road for your kindness. Just hang in there hun...*hugs* Don't think about changing who you are. I really admire all genuinely nice people, and I say congrats for being one of those people. Feel good about yourself...for who you are.

[BeatItFarmer]

I am an asshole....I manipulate, play, and fuck with girls heads.....and I get a lot of them...BUT It doesn't make u feel like a good person u soon realise that girls deserve better, better than u will ever probably be able to give... MY ADVICE don't become an asshole to get girls cause when one comes along that truly cares about u and u treat her like shit cause that's what ur used to doing.....u be fuckin urself over.....trust me if u become an asshole u will regret it.............but a playin a little hard to get never hurts anyone.....good luck buddy

[BeatItFarmer]

hard to think that I have straight a's with writing like that....

[stabmyhead]

being nice guys get you nowhere. its been stated already that being nice makes girls only want you as a friend. someone to cry on when their player mac bf cheats on them or whatnot.. girls are stupid. we always go for the guys that are a "challenge" we wanna change the bad boi, tame him. but fuck. that doesn't work. and if it does, he's just pretending so he can lure you into bed.

girls always complain about lack of good guys when they are right infront of their whore eyes. they dont see it cuz they're too stupid or something, and then they snub and step on mr.nice guy and he turns into an asshole. some girls dont really have a say on why guys are such assholes if they treat them bad in the first place! grrr..

the is totally sexist and bias due to the fact that i always get stuck with the headcases that get fucked up by the gf's before and i always seem to attract them.... FUCKKKKKKKK.

try not to let it get you down. most of the human race is stupid... we're just being ourselves. we live in a dog eat dog world (and sometimes asian ppl eat dogs too! ;]), no one cares about how you feel or what not. its about getting what you want, however you can.. pretty sick isn't it.? i swear we should start a new species or something... "look at my hooovesssss. my hoooooovesssss" k... maybe not..