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Nov 04, 06
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the Latest event in my recent string of bad luck
so last night were all just drinking and blazing at my place. were just playing on the decks and talking and shit. well a friend who is over invites some girls he knows over and they show up after 12. the hang out for like half and hour and leave. well all of a sudden theres a knock at the door. a group of guys out there asking if theres a party here. "no theres no party" we say "doesn't seem like there isn't" one guy says. well theres no party so see ya later.
this group of guys hangs around out front for a while and they're making a bunch of noise and shit. we've had noise complaints and shit before and so we were hoping these people would just go away. well the guy who invited the girls over went outside and asked them to keep it down or go somewhere else. the rest of us are in the kitchen and i go near the front door, which is shut and i can hear some people yellling and shit like right at the front door. so i open the door and our friend is getting stomped and kicked by like 4 or 5 guys and i run out and everyone scrambles. we get trevor back in the house and most of the guys who were there took off but theres still 2 guys in front and ones yellin "you aint so big man, get in the house" and his friend is trying to calm him down. i yelled back "its not about that man just leave please" and they start walking. so were back in the living room and we hear this bang. then my car alarm goes off. well fuck he's standing out there with a huge stick or pipe or something smashing out 2 of my windows. and this guys other friend comes back again and grabs this guy and they take off. well the cops were called and the police used a dog to find this group of kids. so trevor happened to recognize 2 of the guys and their names matched with the names of the guys the cops caught. so i geuss trevor is going to press charges cuz man he got his ass stomped. i feel bad for the kid cuz really he is such a nice person and its just such bullshit. plus i wish i relized sooner we was getting beat up outside i maybe could of helped him or done something more. fuck... well with my car i was going to see if the cops can maybe contact the family to get the money im gonna need for my deductible and if not perhaps i would press charges cuz right now i cant afford to be spending hundreds of dollars on nothing. any advice on the situation would be cool... plus theres always the fact that these guys might want to come back and start shit some other time. or break my windows again. i'd personally just like to be left alone, i geuss we'll see what happens. anyways heres some pics of my windows.  
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wow man. sorry to hear it!
I really dont know how things like this would work. But I would assume that if you are able to press charges and get the kids who did that to your car to pay for it I would do it. You've got witnesses and everything, I dont see why you couldnt.
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press charges for sure..not worth paying a few hundred for each window..make them pay for it..
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I'm very sorry to see the damage to your car, that's horrible.
Of course you are feeling overwhelmed against all these problems you're experiencing. These psychotic assholes are violent, evil people operating on group ego. I heard about your "ejected" DJ experience as well. Don't take this too personally because this isn't the end of the world. $300 is a tidy sum of money to lose, I only hope karma comes back to you in a kind way in the near future, as you seem a good sort. Maybe you should get away from the blazing and parties and concetrate on your dj skills, production, etc. It seems that you have a some bad types drawing to you. It's better to be careful and watch your moves now. I can give you an example; I got was punched in the face by the biggest asshole, because he claimed I ruined his chance of getting laid at a party because I wouldn't be his slave and jump into a lake to fetch his football. (its a stange situation, but true) I walked down the street and complained of my problem to a 7-11 employee and a customer overheard me. He approached me as I left the store and then hit me again! Yes, he saw me as being wounded and wanted to continue the evil. The short story is, I flagged a cop car within 5 mintued, we found him 1 minute later and he went home in a yellow box called a paddywagon. The evil people will be punished, one way or the other.
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and maybe not have seedy girls randomly coming over to your place...
Seriously though, I'm glad everyones ok (for the most part)
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Last edited by BenGiovanni; Nov 05, 06 at 01:23 PM.
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This is a hard situation to deal with. Your car will be fixed. However, the idiots might still come back or someone else might come and do some other damage.
I have recently moved away from the city that I felt was causing my life to go downhill. If you ever get the thought that "hey... maybe my city is interfering with my life" - then follow those feelings and act on them. Even if it means moving to a new city and starting fresh. I'm so happy that I left behind all the people that were brining me down - and now I know not to ever meet or be friends with such people ever again. I also limit who can come into my house - the only time is if my friend brings someone I don't want over at my place, I just suck it up and wait till he/she leaves and act as if everything was cool. Next time though I tell my friend nicely to not bring anyone into the house I don't know unless they think that he/she is a cool person for me to meet. I also started being a bit smart and when someone comes over who I didn't invite - I tell them that I was about to leave the house and go for a walk (and I do it). I call it "traffic control" - I have total control over who I see and who comes to see me. You should start doing the same... make it so that everyone knows you are selective of who comes to your house and who you invite. Another thing that might help is to not press charges against anyone and just let it slide (but I'm not saying that Trevor shouldn't press charges... cause in his case he should). Get your parents to help you repair your car and not the idiots who broke it. Also, don't get too involved in thinking about what had happened but start thinking about what you can do in the future to prevent such thing from happening again. Anytime you think about the past, you are wasting your thoughts when you could be thinking about something in the future or something more productive. Whenever you get a thought about "having bad luck lately" - why not put those thoughts aside (and maybe think about them later), and meanwhile, think about WHY you're having bad luck and if there's anything that you can do to change it. Start by looking at the people you hang out with, cause of the times they are the problem to begin with.
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