Racist retards

[oddsbodikins]

I have a boyfriend. He is black. I am white. I love him. He loves me. Hooray. But unfortunately, some don't think that it is for the best. Let's start at the beginning of the story....I was with the BF at my friend's place, hanging out. Her friend dropped in for a second. My friend left for 10 minutes to run an errand for her mother. My boyfriend went to the washroom. My friend's friend scooted over, and whispered " Why the hell are you dating a black man?" I stared at her in shock for 10 seconds, then replied "Because I love him and he loves me." She looked like me like I was crazy, and said some shit about how black people used to be white ppl's slaves, -insert offending racist comment here- I stood up, I told her that I thought she was a racist bitch, grabbed my BF that just came back from the washroom, and left immediately. All through this, my friend's friend was staring at us with this somewhat 'smug' look on her face.

-Sigh- Is it a crime to date someone that is your from your background? It's my life, not hers. I fucking hate racists.

I wonder how she explained it when my friend came back from her errand....-sigh-....luckily, the BF didn't hear anything from in the bathroom.

[Guineveire]

if my friends EVER fucking said that shit to me I'd leave with my boyfriend ASAP and never speak with them again.

I dont have time for ANY racism in my life. Fuck that.

I'm sorry that happened to you.

[b0ld]

alot of people out there have no other time on there hands other then to start judging people and what not. These are the types of people that absolutely LOVE to HATE. They hate you and judge you just by the color of you skin..... pretty sad ain't it???

[Courtney]

sounds like you should re-evaluate your friendship with this idiot

[oddsbodikins]

Guineveire: Thanks. You sound like me. :)

b0ld: YES, it is sad.

Courtney: I'm calling my friend to inform her of what happened while she was running the errand. If she defends her friend in any way, the phone will go click.

[galaxie]

Originally Posted by Guineveire

if my friends EVER fucking said that shit to me I'd leave with my boyfriend ASAP and never speak with them again.

I dont have time for ANY racism in my life. Fuck that.

I'm sorry that happened to you.

I agree 100%
I have mostly dated Asians and my current bf is Iranian, and after reading that I consider myself pretty lucky that I have never been put in a situation where anyone questioned our relationship because of ethnicity.

People like that need to grab a clue! Besiiiides, mixed babies are so much cuter :P hehe

[Chewy]

ignorant people cause alot of problems in society.

[lildonkey]

Not me... i LOVE racists...

I met some nice racist guys that came up to Whistler from Washington in a group of 14+ of them, walking around drunk and yelling racist slurs at people.

I was standing infront of 7-11 enjoying a nice hot cup of coffee... and me being persian, they came up to me and told me to go back to my country (i'm guessing Iran? even though i have never been there and i was born in france)..

I completely agreed with them, and really respected the fact that they all really tough guys starting a fight 13 on 1...

I like them so much that i invited my friends that happened to be standing across the street waiting for me to grab a coffee to come say hi to my new friends

Pic of my new friend catching his breath from the big hug session we had






I have no idea what happened? One minute we were all hugging and talking about global warming... and the next... there were flashing lights everywhere... and people from washington were either lying on the ground, or running through the forest...

is that how they party in the states?

[lildonkey]

Warning: When hugging outdoors, wear a helmet.

[Courtney]

^i dont know if violence solves anything

[Courtney]

that being said, I've never experienced racism and I can definetely see your reasoning behind this.....
just personalyl against violence no matter what the circumstance

[esoter1c]

All races agree in the dark.

[lildonkey]

Originally Posted by Courtney

^i dont know if violence solves anything

It doesn't... but it felt damn good.

[Cdn_Brdr]

Handicapped people everywhere are really angry at you for comparing them to racists.

juss sayin'

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

I dont understand how the colour of ones skin could cause such hate. People need to realize that when you peel off the skin..we all look exactly the same underneath.

[oddsbodikins]

Originally Posted by galaxie

People like that need to grab a clue! Besiiiides, mixed babies are so much cuter :P hehe

Asian/ Caucasian mixed people are beautiful. Their eyes are drop-dead gorgeous. I've dated a mix guy before, and I can get lost in his eyes for hours. :D

[NinjaBoy]

Interracial couples should be baned

[oddsbodikins]

^ I seriously hope that was sarcastic.

[oddsbodikins]

Originally Posted by Cdn_Brdr

Handicapped people everywhere are really angry at you for comparing them to racists.

juss sayin'

I'm sorry if the topic title offended you. I was in anger when I posted it, and after I've calmed down a bit, I realize that that was a stupid mistake on my part. I've been trying to figure out how to change it, without much luck. Help? :sad2:

[NinjaBoy]

Originally Posted by oddsbodikins

^ I seriously hope that was sarcastic.

You wish!

[lildonkey]

Originally Posted by oddsbodikins

^ I seriously hope that was sarcastic.

He was being sarcastic. Me and Ninjaboy have been dating for 2 years, and hes asian and i'm black.

and together... we are the wu tang clan

[tiedye]

Fear of the unknown led to centuries of social conditioning. Our forefathers' ignorant disposition has been a hard fault to overcome. It doesn't justify it but you have to look it from an objective point of view.

The day we stop putting the spotlight on racial slurs or cultural bigotry, the day we stop overreacting whenever race is even remotely touched upon negatively, will be the day we spark the end of racism.

[tiedye]

It's like being called names in school. If you don't give them a reaction they'll grow bored and forget about it.

[prozac]

Originally Posted by oddsbodikins

I have a boyfriend. He is black. I am white. I love him. He loves me. Hooray. But unfortunately, some don't think that it is for the best. Let's start at the beginning of the story....I was with the BF at my friend's place, hanging out. Her friend dropped in for a second. My friend left for 10 minutes to run an errand for her mother. My boyfriend went to the washroom. My friend's friend scooted over, and whispered " Why the hell are you dating a black man?" I stared at her in shock for 10 seconds, then replied "Because I love him and he loves me." She looked like me like I was crazy, and said some shit about how black people used to be white ppl's slaves, -insert offending racist comment here- I stood up, I told her that I thought she was a racist bitch, grabbed my BF that just came back from the washroom, and left immediately. All through this, my friend's friend was staring at us with this somewhat 'smug' look on her face.

-Sigh- Is it a crime to date someone that is your from your background? It's my life, not hers. I fucking hate racists.

I wonder how she explained it when my friend came back from her errand....-sigh-....luckily, the BF didn't hear anything from in the bathroom.

You have to learn to just write the retards off and not let it bother you, otherwise it will drive you insane.

[oddsbodikins]

I am feeling rather upset again. I called my friend. She defended the racist, saying that it was her opinion, and that I shouldn't let her get to me. She is saying that she is not taking sides, but clearly, I can read through her words, she apparently values her friendship with the racist more than she values ours. She did not even seem the least bit upset when I informed her of the situation that happened while she was out. I hung up on her, and do not intend to answer her calls, or contact her again. *Sigh*

Should I tell the BF?