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girls.
does anyone know how bloody hard it is to find a smart girl with her head on straight who doesn't do drugs in this city???
god damn it. no matter how good you think they are, they always let you down. arrrrgggg. where have all the good smart girls gone? i was dating this girl for about the last month, she seemed great, well educated and hot. i was happy with her. then last night i find her in a bedroom at some friends place sniffing drugs. like wtf. i just told her say goodbye, and i walked out. stupid bitches. Last edited by PHUNK; Apr 13, 03 at 02:56 PM. 
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Because drugs are cool and they make you popular!!
Try looking for girls your age or older, and one that you didn't meet at a club or party.
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i might be wrong but doesn't everyone in Van do drugs?
-s.
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Or you can't just get enough of the cougar attacks? heh.
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Sarcasm hun, hard concept to grasp? :(
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I recommend to you Mr. Phunk that you compose a 400 question test that you hand out to women all over Vancouver and have them fill out and send back to you. When they have been collected, you will go on a screening process eliminating those that aren't fit to your standards or do not score high enough to fulfill your needs.
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Obviously, considering you don't seem to understand my reply.
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i got one for you 50 bucks a night, you pay for her to come from vic too.
hahahaha :kam: yeah a good woman is hard to find. You just have to step out side the box, go to a different coffee shop tommorow, go to an art exhibit... doing something random is always interesting, and you meet cool people too!
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Phunk..
For some honest advice, I'm just wondering how much you care for this girl, and what the real situation with these drugs is. You obviously didn't know of any previous "snortage" habits, so maybe this was her first time? It's possible she's going through some rough shit and was vulnerable, or that she was simply curious as most people are, fell into temptation and now regrets it. Especially because of your obvious reaction. If you care for her enough, and she's the closest girl that's come to being right for you, maybe you should do more than just say goodbye. Find out the whole situation (for example her history with drugs as well as how she feels about them especially after you, someone she probably cares for, showed such dissaproval towards her doing them) then evaluate your next move from there.
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My advise... not all people out there do drugs. And I think that u just gotta look for em.
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man im just looking for a smart ambitious down to earth girl that would be happy to share drugs with me...we can talk about bidness, fuck, then rail blow and rave!!!! RAVE!!!! (only in a perfect world) Last edited by SEAN!; Apr 13, 03 at 04:40 PM.
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^ You just want a sugar mama drug dealer to use and abuse. YOU MEN ARE SO CRUEL!!
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ooooo foxy brown..you so fly.
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i was not at the point of caring for her that much, we were still getting to know each other. shes a bartender and shes works in my industry most of the time. so she was still new to me. don't gimme that rough time shit, i've just been through the hardest point of my life, and i didn't do any drugs. thats lame if you have to. she also was not the closest girl yet to me, she was just the one i was getting to know this month. it was nothing to me. i'm just annoyed at the fact that almost every girl i've met in this city is fucked up on some way. no matter what they are like (artsy, well educated, or club girl, whatever) and i don't just meet girls out at bars and clubs, cause i never go to them. well maybe once every 2 months or so i do. most of them i meet at art shows or in my industry or that type of thing. i would rather just wipe my hands clean of her. i don't want anyone in my life like that now. thats childish shit. i just want a girl that wants more then just to fuck and someone who actually has something going for them. haha, nice rant eh? late.
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And the fact that you can get through shit in life without using drugs doesn't make people who make the mistake of doing them "lame". People deal with problems in different ways, all I meant is that she was possibly having a hard time in life, making her vulnerable, in turn making her break under "peer pressure" (possibly for the first, and last time). It would be nice to see a little more compassion coming from you concering that topic, and a little less ignorance, but I won't hold my breath. I also don't mean you have to have a relationship with someone who does drugs when things get tough, but you sound like you think you are better than someone like that which isn't always true.
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are you against all drug use entirely?
i'm just trying to figure out what constitutes "educated". there's a fine line between recreational fun and hardcore drug addiction. are you looking for a girl who is completely straight edge when it comes to drugs? because in my opinion, an educated girl could do drugs on occasion...once in a blue moon sorta thing...and still be educated. it really is frustrating when you can't find someone on the same level or wavelength as you. and it really is worse when you think you've found someone but then they turn out to be the same as the others. as worn out and as cliche as this might sound...perhaps you're looking in the wrong places for women? i think people in certain scenes tend to have a different lifestyle than others in a different scene. i'm not making sense anymore...so i'm going to stop. by the sounds of it, you have your priorities straight and aren't willing to settle for something 2nd rate. and that's a positive thing. so keep your head up and try your best to not let someone ,who's obviously not on the same wavelength as you, get you down. -s.
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me saying educated, i mean, someone with a good education. as in university or college level. even someone who is cultured and can talk about art, music, and current news and different things then just, "wow what a nice track". its hard to find these girls, believe it or not. most girls drop out of school or just have no drive to do anything great with their lives i've found. fuck that, be something bitch, grow up. i don't really look for women anywhere. i usually meet them on one of my different jobs, or maybe in line at blockbuster they will pick me up or vice versa ya know. i don't go to clubs really anymore, only for a really good show, and i don't go to meet girls. i pretty much just deal with it when i see a girl that interests me. and yeah, theres no fucking way i would settle for anything less then what i want. i would not expect a girl to settle for anyone less then what she wants also. the situation last night that made all this come to light made me find out lots about myself also. i'm kinda glad this happened. Last edited by PHUNK; Apr 13, 03 at 08:49 PM.
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- hmmm sounds like what many other singles are saying - I tihnk if i was looking for a life partner I would be very into finding someone who isn't a drug fanatic . I have done drugs, and I find it easier to date someone who has also done them - that may sound strange but I just got out of a relationship where the guy had never partied and never touched any illegal substance and never smoked - there is nothing wrong with that - but he thought i was a bit of an alien listening to "rave music" and dancing funny - i think sometimes he saw me as a reformed bad girl , when in truth I was never bad, or addicted i did them for fun - and i don't regret doing them.
there are plenty of women and men out there that are educated, or intellectually interesting who aren't into drugs galore, and there are many - like myself who don't know if they are totally done with them - they are out there, its just a matter of connecting w/ them I disagree with some of the other comments though - I think they are at clubs and at bars because they too are looking and don't. Where else would they be? seriously?they don't know where else to go, just like many of us. You go to things you are intersted in and there will be women there who are interested in that same thing - or there won't be...big deal. they are on here - they are at the grocery store, the library, on the bus and so on - its just a matter of meeting them and then feeling a mutual connection - its harder then it sounds - but there is no shortage of good women out there - No shortage at all but she'll never be perfect - you just have to choose the most important features nad stick to your guns - best wishes :moon:
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no doubt.
i know they are out there. its just a shame that there are more stupid girls then smarter ones. but thats obvious i guess. your right about dating people who have never seen what i've seen and done some of what i've done. its much easier to date someone similar. ah well, c'est la vie. neeeext.
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It isnt taht hard to find a chick that doesnt do drugs, but then they smoke, which is a HUGE TURNOFF for me... :finger:
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