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When goodfriends go bad
Okay lately the good guys friends that I have,have been complete assholes. I have blocked a bunch of them on my list! they were great guys. For no reason they have turned PMS on my ass and I told them rite out that I was deleteing them from my list because of there horrible attuides.I could see if I was a bitch and deserved to be treated that way but I dont! I just wanna cry rite now because loosing friends is a total heartbreaker. this is a day for hugs...*sighs* anyone else feeling this way? :soak:
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just part of life
your thinning out your "list" down to the ones that are real. trust me, its a good thing to have happen, i woulda rather kow who my true friends were when i was your age. you seem positive though, so just stay that way, and u will have no problems |
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I just got in a huge fight with my best friend on saturday nite.
Thing about her is she is self concious about alot of things... and she was raised with very little class. I can't hold that against her but her lack of couth and her insecurities put together, sometimes make hers her turn into a monster where i'm concerned. I'm her saftey zone and she knows that i'll just BE her punching bag and then right back by her side to give her a hug when she needs it. Honestly that IS what friends are for.... if the other friend is willing to do the same for you. She isn't. On saturday when we were @ a party, everything i did and said, she would make fun of. She made fun of the fact that i go to raves and she tried to make it sound like im some freak in front of all my friends. and there were quite a few other things she made fun of. She's one of those girls that HAS to be the center of attention when shes at a party. and if making fun of 'meak little hayley' is whats gonna make her look cool? then she'll do it. So i finally stood up for myself and said sum shit back to her. .... now she's hatin on me.... im confused but yea it is a heartbreaker loosing friends... specially a best friend (she even told one of my other girls... that i have no right to be mad at her cuz "if it weren't for her i would be NOTHING") thats a lo-blow eh? |
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Topic: When good friends go bad...
Yea all of my good girlfriends have gone bad. I dont have one girl that I can say is my best friend. Most girls want someone to talk to.. when their sad or tell lil secrets to.. have sleep overs... share clothes, Yea I wish I had someone like that. :soak: :soak: |
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I've been through so many miserable friendships but I'm finally at a point in my life where i'm comfortable enough to say i've found some amazing friends.
My bestest friend in the whole wide world who I love with all my heart i've known since I was 10 years old and we've overcome some bad times and now we're closer than ever. He's amazing, even my parents love him, i dont' think we'll ever stop being friends. With girl friends it's a different story though because you have to get over the jealousy, gossip, backstabbing that happens in so many female friendships. Anna V, Salima, and Anna C are my girls.. they're genuinly good friends, we accept each other regardless of our flaws, and there is no jealous bickering, the friendship the four of us have developed is totally mutual and that's what's so amazing. |