mom

[jade]

yes, another gripe post about the female parent.
my mom has stabbed me in the back pretty fucking good this time, maybe while she's at it she could twist the knife a little more, my insides are still mostly intact. if i didn't enjoy where i live so much i'd be gone in a second, just to not have to deal with her.
she has crossed the line, she's crossed so far over the line that the line is a dot to her.
like i don't have enough shit going on in my life right now.
fuckin unreal.
sorry i know this post doesn't make much sense.

[D-LoCz]

That really sux, having a back-stabbing mom. I can't say I know how you feel cuz my mom's never stabbed me in the back b4. She's done other stuff that pisses me off but never anything harsh like that. I guess all I can say is talk it out with her, tell her how it's making u feel, and try to put a stop to all the back-stabbing. Hope everything turns out :)

[MC Hammered]

My mom screwed me over good a long time ago but in the end I did understand her position.

I lost 2 businesses and had a blemish on my credit rating so I needed a co-signer for my truck. I asked my mom if she would help me out and she said just call her when the papars were ready and she would come down and sign.

So I am at the dealership, sign over my old car and have everything ready, call mom, she comes down and says in front of everyone there "I want you to know what it is like when there is no one around to help you..." and she turns around and leaves.

I was dumbfounded. So I call my buddy Terry and he drops by and became me co-signer no questions asked.

That situation hurt but it did open my eyes a bit to how cruel the world could be. I don't hate my mom at all, in fact over time I have grown to admire her for all the things she has done for me in the past that i have taken for granted.

I can't speak for your mom, but I do hope over time that you will see what happened from her perspective.

[jade]

thanks guy, hammered, that's pretty harsh. ouch.
i confronted her about what happened, i didn't get angry about it but i was very upset, and of course she denied everything. what happened is that somehow a conversation she had with one of my aunts in prince george got all fucked and the next thing i know i'm hearing that they were talking about some of my family in PG adopting my son, without me knowing about it, and furthermore, i haven't done anything wrong! i take really good care of him, i don't party or do anything like that, all i do is work full time and take care of him. yes, i am tired all the time and all that but that's natural, i'm a single mom working full time, what do you expect.
i was fucking pissed! so i waited till i cooled down and talked to her about it, i felt sick to my stomach thinking that my own family was talking shit like that. i'm still hurt by the whole thing, my son is with his father for a little while so i don't have to deal with my parents. my mom has control issues, she hates that i don't "discuss decisions with her". i had to remind her that i'm not a kid, i can think for myself.
anyways, i think it'll be a while before i can trust her again.

[D-LoCz]

Wut!? That's fucked up. They can't just take ur kid away without you knowing about the whole situation. Especially when you know they don't even have a reason to be doing that. I really hope that doesn't happen cuz it's just gonna make everything worse.