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girls...
i hate how most of the population of our "generation's" girls don't have a clue as to what they are doing. I was walking down the street last night and all i see are 13 year old girls dressed as though they are about to be modeled in this months addition of playboy. And it's not only that i know soo many girls who actually HAVE respect for themselves and don't go sleeping around with random guys, but because they are "hot" they are portrade as "skanks" (not saying im hot , but myself included) It really shocks me how most girls have slept with at LEAST 5-10 guys by the time they have reached 16...not to mention they are totally fine with this, but they still don't consider themselves "sluts" not that i personally would use a dorogatory term such as "slut". But i mean come on, a guy/girl isn't going to want to be in a serious relationship with you if they know you're like that, and if they do would'nt you be a least a little bit emarrased about him/her knowing your past? I say this now because a close friend of mine called me last night crying cause she gave some guy she thought she liked (not to mention she has'nt known him that long) head and then he told her she was a slut and did'nt want any-thing to do with her. I was trying to give her sympothy, but at the same time tell her she should learn from that. Does any-one else see any thing wrong with all this?
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those are my kind of girls.
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didn't you listen to spice girls and britney spears while you were growing up? if not, you had a sad sad childhood.
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didn't you get the PM?
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i know exactly wut u mean caitlyn but some girls really dont seem to think that sleeping around alot makes them a slut so they whine and complain about how they keep getting called skanks and whores all the time. a few of my friends were like that but eventually started to smarten up when they noticed other younger girls acting the same way or when they were told off by the right people.
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Jul 24, 04
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^^that post was totally inapporpriate.
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i hate it! there are alotta hot non-skanky girls that get called sluts. i think guys and girls get jealou of these type of hot girls that rn't sluts cuz they couldn't get a girl like that or couldn't b one. i get nervous wearing skirts or n e thing that shows off skin because i kno i'll get commented n how i dress, even tho i'm no where near being a slut...n not even hot in my eyes.
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aside from jokes, it is honestly horrible. The population of pregnant bitches in highschools are increasing every year.
These are whats so wrong about american "relationships". girls/guys make stupid decisions at early ages, and live to regret it for the rest of their lives. you only live once yea fuck you! go put something on..
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oi dont take it to heart.
be happy you are not one, and that you know it. who cares if some asshole calls you a slut? or if some girl decides she doesnt like you and does it? from what i have seen alot of my girlfriends with low self esteem will get down with guys sooner rather than waiting for commitment because they dont see any other reason for a guy being with them. its something that they truely have to learn themselves - self worth. for your friend, tell her there is nothing you can say, which is true, and tell her that she is better then him and the situation. when i wrestled with gleneagle, the big joke was that our team was called the spreadeagles because of one of the girls on the team, so at one match i got called onto the matt "meghan davies from the spreadeagles" yes embarassing and i felt like kicking the guy in the balls, but i bet no one else remembers it but me, so why should i care? and the number of times my friends girlfriends have called me a slut for being friends with their boyfriends i couldnt count on my toes and fingers... but do they know who i am? hell no. so it doesnt matter. like i said self esteem is a major player when it comes to "being easy" and or dressing in a revealing way. for some people it may be the only affection they get in life. for this reason i dont htink that there is an uprise in sexual activity over the past couple of years. i remember a couple of my girlsfriends loosing their virginity at 14 and changing their lifestyles, and i was like whoa tiger, thats not for me and left the friendship. plenty of girls were dressing in as little clothing as possible, todays styles however make it easier to be more naked. plenty of aquaintances had abortions or babies. its sad yes, and as much liberation as woman have had, self worth and self esteem within society is a fight that unfortunately i dont see ending soon. Last edited by mugsy; Jul 24, 04 at 10:00 AM.
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Hmmmmmm first of all, hot girls arent classified as skanks or sluts. Its how they present themeselves in public. You can weare somethin very "slutty" and still look like a million bucks or u can look like a hooker. It all depends on the confidence and the area you give out. Secondly, as far as numbers go, it doesnt matter, as long as a girl respects hersefl its all good. I mean some girls are more sexually active then other girls. But as long as they know the game they are playing. I mean i know a lot of HOT girls, who are classy, and they play guys right left and centre. This immage of sluts and skanks is only in your heads. and the society calls em sluts so therefore a lot of us agree without thinkin. thirdly when it comes to respect, its not if a girl value her verginity or not, its more in the lines of not throwing herself at the first good lookin guy that buys her a drink. I mean if i buy a girl a drink and she comes to my house, and makes out with me, i wouldnt have any respect for her. Im kinda old fashioned and i believe that the guy should be galant and do the chase . . . ( although it is nice if a girl chases a guy once in a while ) but the point im makin is dont expect to be respected if your respect can be bought out with a few drinks or a vip line up at some STUPID bar. Be open minded and do what feels good. Just dont act like a hooker!! and cry about it later!!
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i ment to say ora, not area. sorry guys
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Jul 24, 04
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the term slut is used by ignorant little girls, and boys.
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being sexually active as long as you are being safe about it, and are well educated about the pros and cons of sex. I dont see a link between being scantily clad and having a low self esteem. I do see a link between having low self esteem and being sexually active, but even still that theory does not ring true for every case. We cannot generalize all women by saying "youre sexually active because you have a low self esteem!" It just doesnt work that way. Theres NOTHINGGGGGGGGGG wrong with being sexually active like i stated before, just make sure your safe about it. as for the remark about "pregnant bitches"....youre an ignorant fucking cunt from the outside looking in. I know plenty of single mothers...my sister being one of them ...that having thier children was the best thing for thier lives...and they dont regret it at all.Dont confuse your ignorant ideas and biased opinions with those whove been there done that got the fucking t shirt. Im super sick right now and running on empty, ill add more to this thread when i have a clear head. Until then your all fucking idiots, please do not breed.
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