Gossip

g!ggles · #1 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

It really sucks :(

especially when the person who's doing it is someone that you thought was there for you.

~*tct*~ · #2 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

awwww, *hugs* people suck, im still unable to give u karma

g!ggles · #3 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

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awwww, *hugs* people suck, im still unable to give u karma

*heehee* it's ok... karma can't really change anything at this point :310: but thank you for trying <3 and hugs are good!

~*tct*~ · #4 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

^^^kick her/his ass, grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

IntakE · #5 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

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Originally Posted by ¤°giggles°¤

It really sucks :(

especially when the person who's doing it is someone that you thought was there for you.

awe sweetie I know that feeling...I lost one of my friends that I've know since I was 6 to this. She just didnt care.
You know who truly care's about you when shit like this goes down.
I hope things get better<3

g!ggles · #6 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

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awe sweetie I know that feeling...I lost one of my friends that I've know since I was 6 to this. She just didnt care.
You know who truly care's about you when shit like this goes down.
I hope things get better<3

thank you very much.. you are very sweet and adorable. I just hope that it works itself out b/c alot of ppl are at stake here and if something bad was to happen alot of ppl would be affected. *sigh*

Gusto · #7 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

this is why girls are ridiculous.

g!ggles · #8 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

I agree!!

(you must spread some karma around before giving it to gusto again)

IntakE · #9 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

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Originally Posted by ¤°giggles°¤

thank you very much.. you are very sweet and adorable. I just hope that it works itself out b/c alot of ppl are at stake here and if something bad was to happen alot of ppl would be affected. *sigh*

yea I know those situations...I really hope that it works it's self out and that no ones really affected by it.

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Originally Posted by gusto

this is why girls are ridiculous.

I totaly agree with you a lot of girls are fucking ridiculous....and nothing will change that we just have to hope that most of the girls grow out of it.

g!ggles · #10 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

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yea I know those situations...I really hope that it works it's self out and that no ones really affected by it.

I totaly agree with you a lot of girls are fucking ridiculous....and nothing will change that we just have to hope that most of the girls grow out of it.

I think that they should all go back to highschool.. b/c they act like it!!

Two_Six · #11 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

Most people don't act their age and spread gossip and create drama. My two good friend's aren't friends anymore cause of gossip, now not only are they not friends, but they hate one another and when ever they see each other they give each other "the if looks could kill" look, it really sucks.

Now I can't ever hang out and party with the both of them, I'm stuck chosing one over another and they get jelous its so stupid and high school like and they are 22 and 21, its really sad.

IntakE · #12 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

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Originally Posted by ¤°giggles°¤

I think that they should all go back to highschool.. b/c they act like it!!

You see I dont think it has anything to do with highschool.
Girls just like Drama lol I have to admit Ima fan of some drama from time to time. I dont like the people who eat,drink, and breath drama tho. That's when it goes back to the whole highschool crap.

g!ggles · #13 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

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Originally Posted by IntakE

You see I dont think it has anything to do with highschool.
Girls just like Drama lol I have to admit Ima fan of some drama from time to time. I dont like the people who eat,drink, and breath drama tho. That's when it goes back to the whole highschool crap.

yeah the whole reason behind that is the "he said she said" crap that I keep on hearing. If this person wants to say something to my face then please say it.. but when they break a promise saying that they wont tell anyone and then they go and not only tell them but elaborate to no end.. it makes me think of all the spolied brats/ attention whores that I had to deal with High School. Im a grown up now so I even feel bad bringing it up( b/c I feel like a child).. but it really sucks and it's bringing me down.

IntakE · #14 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

yea those kinds of friedns are the worst they need to put you down to make themselfs feel better. I dont like people like that and it does sound like all the spoilt little girls whos partents give them everything and dont teach them any respect. Dont feel like a child cause your bringing it up. shit happens friends can turn on you and it sucks cause it always bites you in the ass no matter how nice you have always been to them. I try and watch out for those kinda friends..since I've left highschool which has only been like 4 months I only talk to 1 person I graduated with thats Ang(tipsy). I have a few friends in grade 12 this year. Highschool friends are great at the time you learn quickly which ones were actually your friends. I hope your friend makes this up to you...you seem like suck a sweetheart and dont need to deal with crap like this.

miss.myra · #15 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

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Originally Posted by gusto

this is why girls are ridiculous.

haha shut up, boys talk so much shit and gossip too.

hardstylin · #16 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

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haha shut up, boys talk so much shit and gossip too.

the only gossip i ever hear about was told to me by a girl dealing with a girl :)

t-skywalker · #17 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

im sorry i have to agree...i have some guy friends who gossip way more than chicks!!!

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haha shut up, boys talk so much shit and gossip too.

Gusto · #18 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

not to the same extent anyway, and we don't usually cry about it. anyway, my comment was at least a bit tongue in cheek.

Disco_Whore · #19 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

I find gossip quite funny sometimes, particularly when it's so obviously untrue.

Bevvy Swift · #20 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

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Originally Posted by miss.myra

haha shut up, boys talk so much shit and gossip too.

agreed.

the truth is, you cant tust anyone, just like no one can trust you.

how many times have you really disliked someone but didnt say anything to thier face cos you didnt have the heart, so you vented to a friend? thats okay, right? but the moment your friend gets a big mouth is the moment you turn into a "bad" person, or gosspier, or whatever. this is the way of the world. the sooner you accpet it, the easier everything will be for you.

Carrie · #21 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 05

sof.. i heard from so'n'so who heard from his brother's friend who heard from his cousin that your pretty!

fable · #22 (**permalink**) Oct 26, 05

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Im a grown up now so I even feel bad bringing it up( b/c I feel like a child).. but it really sucks and it's bringing me down.

"grown ups" go to the source, express what they feel to the parties involved, take their time to talk to thier friends, get a few hugs(you seem to have done that) but most importantly MOVE ON, and do what you need to do for YOU, no dwelling on negetive thoughts and letting them fester. Whether "your thing" is yoga, meditation, chocolate ameretto cheescake ice cream, going out and getting shitfaced and dancing up a storm, whatever, but the next morning, you tell yourself, you had your one night to blow off steam/feel sorry for yourself, and continue with whatever you were doing prior to having certain people in your life act in a negetive fashion.

"grown up" is being subtle when its tough, and knowing when to throw down a right hook. "grown up" is living and learning. "grown up" is getting the fuck on with life, and dealing with making YOU happy, and the things and people who are important to you.

you probably have all these answers in your head already, so get up, and get going-

*this is me being nice, so please refrain from trying to tear my head off