The Girl you cant get out of your head - Page 2

impure · #26 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

this post and you're heart to heart are probably playing off each other.
this is dangerous territory buddy.
take steps to avoid drinking and dialing, i do it too much with my current man.

and remember kids, merlot and email don't mix.

(val)Liam · #27 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

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Originally Posted by impure

and remember kids, merlot and email don't mix.

quote of the day!

miss.myra · #28 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

ugh. coming from a girl who has been on the recieving end of situations like this, too little too late is as good as nothing. After we've gotten over everything, having someone come back to you after to say they actually were wrong, etc. is annoying and we won't go back most of the time.

Sooo you're better off just getting over it.

.muffy. · #29 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

^this lady speaks the truth!

FireWire · #30 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

I had the same happen to me once - I felt like she meant the WORLD to me. Then I started realizing that she's NOT an angel, not perfect - and doesn't know how to cook.

That's how I got over her and now I don't get a single emotion, even when I think about her willingly.

nabs · #31 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

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Originally Posted by g!ggles

get over it and move on ooooooooooooooooooorrr do something about it! If you can't get her out of your mind then tell her!!! Try to get her back. There is always room for 2nd chances. And even 3rd times are a charm :)

G' luck Mr Nabs <3 You are a sweet talk charmer so Im sure that she would be lucky to have you!

:) im gonna go in for my second shot.

justShell · #32 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

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Originally Posted by mapleleaf4ever

Yeah, this cute waitress that I had talking about oral sex and swallowing about 10 minutes after seating me is still stuck in my head. lol

Ghasp!!!
i thought i was the only one eric? :( the only one..

mapleleaf4ever · #33 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

^ Well am I not allowed to talk to other Girls? lol

tiedye · #34 (**permalink**) Apr 18, 06

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Biggest load of crap i've read this week. If a reciprocation of feelings isn't happening, somethings seriously fucked.

A relationship is like growing pot. You gotta plant the seed. Plant the seed with your thumb Nabs, with your Thumb. Then you wait for the seed to grow into a plant. Then you fuck the plant.

beat me to the punch. Don't give a shit about their happiness unless they're giving a shit about yours. That's weakness, and when you show weakness the world will eat your soul, Nabs!

hardstylin · #35 (**permalink**) Apr 18, 06

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Originally Posted by .muffy.

^this lady speaks the truth!

I bet surrey girls would go back?

starbright · #36 (**permalink**) Apr 18, 06

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Originally Posted by tiedye

beat me to the punch. Don't give a shit about their happiness unless they're giving a shit about yours. That's weakness, and when you show weakness the world will eat your soul, Nabs!

gaaah! you remind me of a boyfriend i had when i was too young to know better. he was very controlling and manipulative. and then so i became that way too. soo many headgames...

in the short term being the "stronger one" may get you what you want, but in the end you're left with nothing but a a whole lot of deception and a really sour taste in your mouth.

i suggest keepin it real, son.

Cdn_Brdr · #37 (**permalink**) Apr 18, 06

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Originally Posted by nabs

Like the title states... The Girl I cant get out of my head!!! missed my chance with her, and now i cant stop thinking about her.

*Sigh* I shouldn't have to tell you this nabs.....

TAKE YOUR PENIS OUT OF YOUR PURSE AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! MAKING WUSSY POSTS ON THE INTERNET WON'T GET YOU THE GIRL!!

Go get her buddy.... I know you can do it.

hardstylin · #38 (**permalink**) Apr 18, 06

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Originally Posted by Cdn_Brdr

*Sigh* I shouldn't have to tell you this nabs.....

TAKE YOUR PENIS OUT OF YOUR PURSE AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! MAKING WUSSY POSTS ON THE INTERNET WON'T GET YOU THE GIRL!!

Go get her buddy.... I know you can do it.

agreed!!! haha

Its time for nabs to start taking girls down!!

you live in vancouver, thousands upon thousands of hot girls EVERYWHERE!!!

Disco_Whore · #39 (**permalink**) Apr 18, 06

I'm sure she isn't actually THAT amazing, she just seems like it because you hardly got to know her and let your imagination get caught up with the little that you do know. So many people fantasize about the "one that got away" without ever realistically thinking about what could happen, or ever knowing the person very well.

nabs · #40 (**permalink**) Apr 18, 06

:) ...

Goat · #41 (**permalink**) Apr 18, 06

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Originally Posted by Ms.Chop

^^ uh.. lol dont u mean SMOKE the plant ;)

Nope!

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beat me to the punch. Don't give a shit about their happiness unless they're giving a shit about yours. That's weakness, and when you show weakness the world will eat your soul, Nabs!

You hit the nail on the head my friend.

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gaaah! you remind me of a boyfriend i had when i was too young to know better. he was very controlling and manipulative. and then so i became that way too. soo many headgames...

in the short term being the "stronger one" may get you what you want, but in the end you're left with nothing but a a whole lot of deception and a really sour taste in your mouth.

There's a HUGE diffference between commiting yourself to a one sided relationship as opposed to something mutual. Huge.

It's thinking with your head, not your dick.

Skitzo_Style · #42 (**permalink**) Apr 18, 06

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Originally Posted by Disco_Whore

I'm sure she isn't actually THAT amazing, she just seems like it because you hardly got to know her and let your imagination get caught up with the little that you do know. So many people fantasize about the "one that got away" without ever realistically thinking about what could happen, or ever knowing the person very well.

then again, do we really know much about the people we date before we date them?

i find i don't really know much about the girls i date, but that's how i get to know them a lot better. i have had relationships that have lasted a couple of months and developed a bond and mutual understanding of one another that has sometimes taken me a couple years to achieve with a friend. obviously intimacy had a lot to do with it.

sometimes it turns out good, sometimes it turns out bad, but that the way dating is.

like i said before, the only way to avoid the bad is to find out what it is you wanna do in life, then follow the path towards it. along that way, you'll find someone on the same path as you.

Skitzo_Style · #43 (**permalink**) Apr 18, 06

but then again, i don't ever become really good friends with a girl and then date them. it has to be an attraction from the beggining.

anyone that knows me knows that.

miss.myra · #44 (**permalink**) Apr 19, 06

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Originally Posted by Cdn_Brdr

*Sigh* I shouldn't have to tell you this nabs.....

TAKE YOUR PENIS OUT OF YOUR PURSE AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! MAKING WUSSY POSTS ON THE INTERNET WON'T GET YOU THE GIRL!

Whoa, were you a sweaty kneesocks wearing football coach in a past life?

cubed · #45 (**permalink**) Apr 19, 06

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Originally Posted by mapleleaf4ever

^ Well am I not allowed to talk to other Girls? lol

erik is allowed to do what ever he wants, he's a ginger kid.

and we all know ginger kids have no souls.

cubed · #46 (**permalink**) Apr 19, 06

Cdn_Brdr · #47 (**permalink**) Apr 19, 06

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Originally Posted by miss.myra

Whoa, were you a sweaty kneesocks wearing football coach in a past life?

Hahahaha.... I take my inspiration from the Sergeant Hartman in Full Metal Jacket

cubed · #48 (**permalink**) Apr 19, 06

^Sean's a DAYWALKER, the most evil of the gingers.

Disco_Whore · #49 (**permalink**) Apr 19, 06

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Originally Posted by Skitzo_Style

but then again, i don't ever become really good friends with a girl and then date them. it has to be an attraction from the beggining.

anyone that knows me knows that.

^^see I'm the total opposite most times. Maybe it's because of some bizarre defense mechanism to protect myself from males that I don't know very well? Anyways, I generally need to be friends with a guy before dating him.

Even with that being said I still date some people without really knowing them that well beforehand, and really getting to know any person takes a lot of time.

Skitzo_Style · #50 (**permalink**) Apr 19, 06

depends on the person, the impression they bestow upon you, and how you respond to in.

alot of people are reluctant to expose characteristics about themselves to others they like because they fear they may judge them, or will be constantly judging them. some are critical about first impressions, and then there are some that believe in building some form of relationship with the individual first, whether it be brief or not.

but sometimes that person just blows you off your feet and you don't know what to think or how to act or what to say. you just draw a blank and the embodied image of that person becomes your main focus.

this is what gets people into alot of problems not only with themselves, but also the people around them. they become obsessed and can't rationalize when people are trying to help them. it's almost like a point of no return. it's understanding your infatuation and being able to see things for what they really are.

then again, you could just get to know them first and avoid puttting yourself into a vunerable position like that.