PARTY girls = bad girlfriends?

[STORIE]

why do most guys think that party girls wudnt be good girlfriends?
is it bcus their out a lot and wanna have fun with everyone?
liek i mean if u brought her home she wudnt go to your mom and be like "BITCH lets take a shot!"

[craz_e_blossom]

Um because majority of party girls I find are sluts and sleep with numerous amounts of people from bars/clubs/raves!...

Even though I am a party animal myself and all...But if you havn't noticed the amount of scandalous chicks these days that give us girls a bad name!

[justShell]

just curious what you mean by a "party girl" i mean i go out and party weekends .. but that life is completely different than my life working or with family and such.

[Scarface]

I would love to find a girl that would call my moms a bitch and offer her a shot.

[STORIE]

Originally Posted by candi::shell

just curious what you mean by a "party girl" i mean i go out and party weekends .. but that life is completely different than my life working or with family and such.

i mean that they rather go party again then go to sleep! drink and have fun!

[t-skywalker]

heheh i have this problem myself. actually im known as one of the guys too. but its cause guys dont realize that we arent like that morning thru night. its just when we are out. and they are afraid u will not be faithful, or u might be trouble. if its the right guy that wouldnt stop them from liking u, or being with u. i'd say fuck it and move on. ur beautiful=)

[clearist]

I say that for the fact that ive been there and done that. But i wouldn't say girls who know how to party are bad, they are excellent people... id say somthing along the lines of,


"DON'T DATE RAVERS!!!!"

...thank you for your time.

[tiedye]

Originally Posted by Scarface

I would love to find a girl that would call my moms a bitch and offer her a shot.

hahaha, me too. Besides, any girlfriend of mine will be doing shots with my mom when I introduce them anways.

As for dating "party girls". . . I think that's basically a given for me, since non-party girls don't date "party guys." They've got to have Rock n Roll in their blood for me to take notice.

[G3N3R4L]

Originally Posted by craz_e_blossom

Um because majority of party girls I find are sluts and sleep with numerous amounts of people from bars/clubs/raves!...

you're totally right... alot of the "party" girls are sending off a skank vibe... not girlfriend material, is what it says..

.. but then you will find you get lots of attention from the lets be skanky male crowd.. "lets get nasty and then head back to the party"


so its a trade off.

[STORIE]

[project.one]

Wouldnt it depend on the person?
If it was some girl who is out all the time trying to pick up men? maybe not
But if it was just a girl who likes to be out and party, yet I trust her, why not.

Just because they are 'party girls' means nothing! It is totally dependant on the girl herself and who she is.

[C_squared]

one word.

scandalous.

[baby-phat]

It totally should depend on the person, but alot of the time people will just generalize and if they only see the party side of said person they're not always going to realize how much different they may be at other times.

[PwInCeSs]

Originally Posted by projectone

Wouldnt it depend on the person?

Exactly!!!

That and it depends on both people.
If she is a party girl, and he doesnt party i can see him being worried and not thinking she was a good type to date.

[clearist]

Originally Posted by projectone

Wouldnt it depend on the person?
If it was some girl who is out all the time trying to pick up men? maybe not
But if it was just a girl who likes to be out and party, yet I trust her, why not.

Just because they are 'party girls' means nothing! It is totally dependant on the girl herself and who she is.

id say that pretty much sums it up. Well done sir.

[Filo]

bringing a party girl home to mom is definitely not a good thing in my books.... either way.. i party hard, but that's just a small portion of life.

[t-skywalker]

i agree tho i dont like to date guys who party hard all the time and cant keep a job or take care of them selves. its one thing if the person just has fun then there is another when u may end up babysitting them all the time. relationship is a two way for sure when u date soemone who is consumed by partying then, yeah it wont work out.

some party girls i know are out of control...funny thing tho, they always end up meeting a guy and settling down. funny how that works

[craz_e_blossom]

A guy that can hold up a job, take care of himself, and party all in one is perfect for me in my books.

[t-skywalker]

i know i love a guy who can go out and play with me so much!!! havent had it in a long time.

work weekdays/ play on the weekends

and still have time to go do ur own things and have ur own free time to enjoy life with no jelousy.......perfect boyfriend

[veN]

perhaps they get the feeling that your going out and partying would take priority over staying in with them. if that's true, you don't wanna be with a homebody anyways - its a constant battle!

if there is another side to you, then let the potential boy see that too.

[clearist]

have i ever mentioned that I can do all three of those things with precision and grace. haha.

[e_BoY]

I tend to be like this a bit too. I would perfer to date a chick who isnt a "party girl". Overall imo alot of party girls can bring bad news. Of course this is like any sterotypical opinion and is not backed up by any facts at all. Then again thats impossible. Im just basing this opinion of mine on the girls i know and have seen that are so called "party girls". Like to party, grind with random guys, sleep with random guys. As bf you might be hella worried about them getting in trouble, perhaps being not faithful, or other stuff along the lines of thigns u dont want ur gf to do. But like i said my opinion is based on what i know and have seen so obviously i dont think every party girl is like that. But whatever if i were to really like/love some chick who happens to be a party girl, the fact that she is one wouldnt suddenly make me want to break up with her. Its really case by case

[project.one]

If I can trust her, and she trusts me, then we're all good!

Im not going to worry about settling down. If it happens down the road, it happens, but Im not going to spend my life planning something out I dont know that will happen.

Karma will take care of me I hope!

[baby-phat]

I think in alot of cases party girls (guys as well) just appear to be wild and 'bad', but on the inside they're some of the nicest 'calmest' people, and maybe even the best thing ever.

[craz_e_blossom]

Originally Posted by t-skywalker

i know i love a guy who can go out and play with me so much!!! havent had it in a long time.

work weekdays/ play on the weekends

and still have time to go do ur own things and have ur own free time to enjoy life with no jelousy.......perfect boyfriend

So hard to find these type of guys...

Where are they?!
I miss having a perfect boyfriend...